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We live our whole lives, and we can't escape the end of life and death.
Everything in front of you does not bring with you in life, and you do not take away when you die. So what's the point of us having these things? Why are you trying to create these things?
George Bernard Shaw said: "There are two tragedies in life: one is that all thoughts are gray; the other is full of ambition." ”
At the end of the day, everything is in motion, and tragedy begins when you stop. The person who insists on moving forward, whether he is happy or not, he must be on the road to happiness.
The meaning of life may lie in persevering forward and being a better self.
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First, be good at choosing, bravely chasing, the more you live, the more meaningful it is.
The navigator Nansen said, "The first thing in life is to discover yourself." For this purpose, you often need to be lonely and thoughtful. ”
Everyone has different goals and different abilities. If you can stick to your choices, then you are destined to shine.
Hawking, a very legendary figure. At the age of 21, he was diagnosed with muscular dystrophic lateral sclerosis. Fate hit him hard, but he didn't give up on himself because of it.
"Only a small muscle in the face remains to move, and he is still studying and writing." Such a choice was undoubtedly particularly difficult, but Hawking did it. Later, he became a famous physicist and cosmologist.
In a speech, Hawking said: "So how do we find the meaning of life? I think the answer is very clear, and the meaning itself is just a part of the model of reality that everyone constructs in their brains. ”
In a person's mind, there will be a thousand strange ideas, and they can be changed at any time. Love, career, family, friends, work, etc., it seems that others are deciding you, but in fact, they are your own decisions. No one restricts your freedom. Who you are, you will meet; what you cling to, you will achieve.
People who can make decisions and persevere to the end may live a very hard life, but his life will be more meaningful.
I have seen a touching story: in the 1940s, Jing Baoling, a girl in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, walked into the army with her family on her back and became a nurse. Later, she fell in love with a soldier named Zhang Hui in the army. Originally, they intended to be together for the rest of their lives and never be separated.
Unfortunately, Jing Baoling died at the age of 23 and was buried in the Luohe Martyrs Cemetery in Henan. A pair of lovers, separated by yin and yang. Zhang Hui has since become a "tomb keeper" for more than 60 years. He also let his children treat Jing Baoling as if she were a family member.
What kind of power allows a girl to constantly get close to the war-torn place, so that a man can stick to a lifetime of "love". That's their choice.
Choice is the expectation and hope of life. If life has a direction, it will never get lost, even if it is bent on going its own way, it will not be lonely.
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Second, live well, be full of spirits, and life itself is meaning.
There is a sentence in the novel "Alive": "You must not be confused, the dead still want to come back to life, and you can't die as a big living person." ”
People die like lights go out, even if your life is good, you can't come back.
Some people, who do not live to understand, once they encounter setbacks, they will immediately torture themselves. For example, a young man who encounters a failed relationship immediately seeks death and life, believing that the second half of his life is meaningless.
In the novel Les Misérables, there is a man named Agen, who has been trapped in a cage for nineteen years because of his mistakes, wearing handcuffs and ankle chains every day.
Later, he was released and set free. When he stepped out of the cage, he found that he was incompatible with society and was full of people who excluded him. When it was the hardest, he even had a big problem eating.
A kind bishop, Miri, took him in. However, he was poor and frightened, but he stole a candlestick from the Mili family.
The police arrested Agen and asked Miri to testify. The kind Miri said, "This is what I gave him." ”
As the saying goes, "The human heart is made of flesh." "When a person who is desperate for life meets a person who is willing to tolerate him, the heart will definitely warm up."
In the end, Agen changed his ways and used love to awaken more people.
We often say, "There is hope in life." "A person who has not reached the day of the coffin can change himself. Even if he is an evil person, as long as he is willing to get better, then he will become better, and sooner or later, he will be reintegrated into the social family.
Always believe that the sea is big, there is no lack of a drop of water, and you will not care about an extra drop of water. Society is like the sea, accepting the return of hundreds of rivers.
Live well, live forever, this is the spirit of a person. Even at the age of lingering, as long as you continue to shine, it will produce value, and it is not meaningless.
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Third, looking down on everything and not pursuing meaning is another meaning.
Lu Xun once said: "Embark on the journey of life, even if the future is very long and dark, but don't be afraid, there is a road in front of those who are not afraid." ”
There is a netizen named "Chen Iszhi", because of the failure of the exam, the heart is very uncomfortable, and the life is particularly anxious. Later, he seriously reflected on himself and found that all his ideas were meaningless.
Thinking about it, it was just a waste of days, and it felt like a waste of life. Simply, don't think about it, study seriously, and listen to every lesson taught by the teacher.
There are some things that the more you cling to, the more confused you become. Not all questions have standard answers; not all attachments will have a good ending.
It is better to let go of your obsession, no matter tomorrow or accident, it does not matter which one comes first. Early tomorrow morning, you can open your eyes, see a hint of morning light, push open the window, and there is sunlight pouring in, and this is the meaning.
Letting go, changing, giving up, ignoring, not thinking about life and death, seems to be a negative behavior, but as long as you are happy yourself, your heart is very happy, and you will not hinder others, which is undoubtedly a wise approach.
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I have seen such a sentence: "Changing others is nerves, and changing yourself is the spirit." ”
A person always imitates others and pursues the happiness that originally belongs to others, that is, to wear a mask to live a life, is an "actor".
A writer once said: "Life is short, the most important thing is to be yourself." ”
Live according to your own ideas, respect the rules of society, have a good heart, choose the life you want, give up your troubles, and return to simplicity and truth.
The meaning of your life, you decide for yourself.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.