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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Life is a process, and when a person reaches the time of retreat, it is already halfway through.
Everyone is more than half a hundred years old, and it is the experience that should be experienced, and the understanding should be understood.
Walking on the road of aging, we must know how to reduce low-quality social interaction, enjoy high-quality solitude, dare not fit in, and do not blindly follow. Don't be nosy, great wisdom is the great wisdom of life.
Friends have always been in the fine, not in the many. On the road to growing old, the real wisdom is to learn to be alone, know how to be silent, enjoy solitude, and do not have to force yourself to integrate into the lively circle.
After the age of fifty, you have to stay away from those hypocritical friends who don't go away, three or two best friends, can listen to your heart with peace of mind, and can do what you like together, so, very good.
Being alone is a kind of inner peace and a pure land of the spirit.
After retirement, learn to be alone behind closed doors and try not to associate with these three kinds of people.
[1] Don't associate with people who like to spread right and wrong.
Time is precious after retirement, and not all people deserve their time and energy to accompany them.
The most important thing to be a person is to have good intentions and be merciful under your mouth. To be merciful under the mouth is not to discuss the rights and wrongs of others.
Some people like to manipulate right and wrong, make things out of nothing, see others good, other people's good things into a pair of he will plug in, others have achievements he is jealous. After retirement, I want to live a relaxed life, try to stay away from these rights and wrongs, and the sooner I know, the better.
Because they will not bring any improvement to themselves, but will make themselves embarrassed from time to time. Such a person must stay away, and if he is far away, he is far away from unwarranted troubles.
[2] Don't associate with people who love to take advantage of small things.
There is a saying that goes, "People are afraid of staggered friends, and their hearts are afraid of staggered people." ”
It is always worth making deep friends with people who are practical and reliable, but there are always people who love to take advantage, and you don't know what they think.
After retirement, please try to stay away from people who love to take advantage, because there are only benefits in the eyes, heavy profits and light righteousness, and you don't expect them to know how to be grateful for returns.
The biggest feature of this kind of person is that he has a thick skin, takes advantage of small things everywhere, is insatiablely greedy, and even some people are justified. So don't expect him to be good to you, he doesn't hurt you is already lucky. Therefore, less with greedy and cheap people! This kind of person really can't be handed over! Otherwise, the end result may be lost in a small way!
[3] Don't associate with people with good faces and dark hearts.
A fire in the light, a knife in the dark.
People with good faces and black hearts make people invincible, they see who are smiling, they are good people on the surface, and they do not blink behind their backs. Because such people have no morality in their bones, they have no bottom line in their lives, and they will hurt others for their own selfish interests.
There is a saying in "White Night" that there are only two things in this world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.
A person with a kind face and a dark heart is especially good to you on the surface, but he will suddenly calculate you when you are defenseless. They will do whatever it takes to gain or lose for the sake of their interests, and they will not recognize them in order to achieve their goals.
"The heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without." After retirement, learn to be alone behind closed doors and try not to associate with such people.
Wheat message: After retirement, do subtraction for the social circle.
In the first half of your life, you like to be lively and like to go to the crowded area to feel the prosperity.
People are old, look down on the impermanence of the world, see the cold and warm of human feelings, prefer to be alone, a person quietly taste tea, quietly read books, quietly think about life.
Low-quality socializing is not as good as high-quality solitude. You don't need to cater to anyone, you don't need anyone to compliment you, learn to be alone, and enjoy your old age in solitude.
Learning to be alone is a kind of cultivation and a state of mind. After retirement, don't associate with these three kinds of people. In the rest of life, living easily and happily is the key.
Life has come to an end, and we have to learn to let go.
After retirement, the rest of our lives when we are quiet and peaceful with ourselves, not in contention, quiet and joyful, will slowly live into the way we like.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.