Sentence of the Day: After starting a family, I found that it is not an easy task to maintain my livelihood, there are no novel tricks, and there is no chance of getting rich overnight. Most ordinary people can only work and live in accordance with the rules and procedures established by society and others.
Why do you sometimes feel annoyed and miserable all the time? This is a feeling that can only be found in specific situations. For example, life is not smooth, the pressure of work, income is not enough, the body has various diseases, etc., the occurrence of these things will bring people certain pain and trouble.
However, whether it is an objective factor or a subjective factor, most of the time it cannot be avoided. That is to say, as long as I am a normal person, pain and trouble are always unavoidable, and all I can do is how to minimize the impact of pain and trouble.
For example, the trouble brought about by the pressure of work, what you have to do is to try your best, don't put too much pressure on yourself, the title evaluation will slowly boil up, the student's grades will not come up, and continue to improve the education and teaching methods patiently.
If it is a trouble brought about by the unhappiness of life, then relax the mentality, go with the flow, be content and happy, do not try to change anyone and any environment, just go against the grain and accept it can alleviate a lot of troubles and pain.
If it is the trouble and pain caused by the income and income, then eat and wear frugally, quiet and widowed, do not blindly compare, or even reduce or cancel all unnecessary social interaction, accompany the family at home, read books when bored, write and write, and all kinds of flowers and plants can also alleviate a lot of pain and trouble.
If there are various problems in physical and mental health or if the development has done certain things that are not good for itself, it is more important to look down on everything and push away all the things that do not need to be bothered, including the help sought by others, and what they can do or cannot do, cultivate themselves, be independent, maintain a good mentality, and protect the cost of the "revolution" of the body.
If it is a senseless disaster or the trouble and pain caused by the villain looking for trouble, it is even more necessary to treat it Buddhistly, not only not to argue, not to be angry, not to scold, or even to show no emotion, but also to treat it too much with a respectful and cautious heart, just as Han Shanzi asked: "There are people in the world who slander me, deceive me, insult me, laugh at me, belittle me, despise me, hate me, and deceive me. He replied with a smile: Just put up with him, let him, avoid him, be by him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, and in a few years, you will see him. As long as this can be done, the pain and trouble can be reduced a lot.
In fact, the Buddha's saying is very clear, "There is nothing in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves." After thinking clearly about this sentence and doing what is said above, life will not be so painful and troublesome!