In a relationship, after starting with a person, we really should not easily choose to end.
No couple, there will be no problems, only each other can know how to get along well, in the future days, this relationship can really blossom and bear fruit, each other will have a future.
Between the opposite sex, all relationships are actually like this, there is no perfect, it needs to be precipitated and run-in.
Of course, we must operate well, work hard with each other, and find a model that is more suitable for loving each other, but it does not mean that we must persist no matter what, and we cannot choose to give up.
After the effort, if you really feel that it is inappropriate, and you really feel unhappy, of course, we can still choose to break up.
Approaching a person and leaving a person is just the norm, and there is nothing strange about it.
However, you can want to break up with someone, but when making this decision, you must also think clearly and pay attention to the way.
Ask yourself if you're really sure.
I have to say that a number of men and women, who decide to break up with each other, are really sloppy.
It's not that I really want to be apart, it's not that I really feel that we are not suitable for each other, but because there are some contradictions, and then out of impulse, I made such a decision.
Obviously, if it is only out of a momentary anger, then after separation, either they are separated from each other at this moment, and they will soon only be reconciled, or they obviously do not want to be separated, but later no one has saved it, and can only miss it in vain.
Gambling with a breakup is not good anyway, but it is just a very immature way of dealing with it.
Such a breakup, of course, is very undeserved, but it will only cause some harm to each other.
With a person in love, you better not let yourself fall into such a situation, after you have the idea of breaking up with a person in your heart, you better think calmly about it first, whether you really want to share, really don't want to have a future with each other.
But if you still have a little reluctance, still have expectations for the other party, and have some nostalgia, then you better not divide it first, and then wait.
There is and only when you really feel that each other is not so suitable, really want to have no other person in the future life, and are very sure that you really want to break up, you should propose to break up, and really choose to end with each other.
Make it clear to your face and don't just play disappear.
Many people are always very interesting, when deciding to break up, they will not directly explain to each other, will not tell each other their own ideas, will only directly choose to disappear from each other's lives, so that the other party can not find themselves.
It's like moving out of the place where you live, going to a place that the other person doesn't know, like changing your contact information, so that the other party can no longer get in touch with yourself and live a new life.
When you choose to do this, you may feel that your disappearance is the best attitude, the best answer, but for a person who has loved you, even if he thinks so, he will still be unacceptable.
If you don't say break up in person, he will still have expectations, thinking that you don't really want to break up, probably just because something happened, just because you were angry with him, just because you had some unavoidable pain.
As long as you haven't said that breakup to him, he will really feel that you have not yet divided, and that there is no end between you.
People who are in love have always been very stupid, even if they understand the reason, they will still lie to themselves, and a relationship always needs a clear beginning and a clear ending.
Therefore, if you want to break up, you may wish to ask each other directly to have a good chat and directly tell your true thoughts.
Draw a close to your past, you will not have a knot, and the other party will not always be hurt by love.
Get out early and start over.
Break up with someone, for whatever reason, as long as that's your true will, then after the breakup, you can be a little sad for a while, but you must not always indulge in it.
No matter how much you have paid and how much you are unwilling in your heart, since you have broken up, you don't have to think about it all the time.
It is indeed a pity that love has not succeeded, but it is only common to mispay feelings.
Not everyone can accompany you to the end, some people, he is destined to accompany you only a journey, is destined to give you lessons, let you see some truths, let you grow.
After experiencing a failed relationship, you really don't need to doubt love, just doubt everyone, just sort out your mood, and then continue to live a good life and try to move forward.
Constantly strive to improve yourself, make yourself better and better, and become a more sparkling being.
Also constantly looking for a really good love, so that on the way forward, there can be a person who always walks side by side with himself, faces the future with himself, and can get a strength in each other.
The right person, for some time, he does not appear all at once, and it is always after experiencing some wrong person that he will be late in coming, and he will let you get the best love and be loved.
Break up, there is nothing wrong with it, but breakup, must not be a child's play.
Don't obviously not want to divide, but clamor to break up, think of using the breakup to test each other, want to blackmail each other.
Falling in love and often hanging up on the breakup is never a good thing, it is easy to be self-defeating. Unless you really want to break up, you must not say these two words.
Even if you say it, you must directly say it clearly in front of the other party.
After all, it is the person I have loved, and the breakup should also be clear, and it should be good to get together and disperse.
As for after the breakup, just let the other party have a new day, you just have to forget the feelings and love again.
Let the breakup be a boost, not a breakup as an obstacle to your path forward.
Text/Tan Meng
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