There was a survey that asked, "After learning about fertility injuries, would you still like to be a mother?" As a result, more women who have already had one child expressed their willingness to have children.
Nowadays, there are still many expectant mothers who choose to have a normal birth, and they all know that there are benefits to having a normal birth, but a normal birth may not be suitable for all women.
A foreign mother, Sharmin, shared her experience of having a baby online. As a beauty blogger, she quickly attracted attention. After her personal experience, Sugar Mom felt a little scary like everyone else.
Bao Mom "fractured" when she gave birth to a baby, and was tortured for 2 years after giving birth
Sharmin is very beautiful, but petite, only 155 cm tall, she and her husband Graham met and married, and soon had a love crystallization.
Successfully conceiving a baby is a very happy thing for the couple. But for Sharmin, it was like going through a nightmare.
Sharmin was very difficult during childbirth and could not be pushed out smoothly because the baby was too large. The enormous pressure pressed against her body, eventually causing his coccyx to fracture before giving birth to the baby.
Usually, girls recover well about 42 days after giving birth, but this birth experience has caused Sharmin to suffer for 2 years and has not fully recovered.
Although the baby was not very fat when he was born, he was already 56cm tall. Occupying almost a third of Sharmin's height, it's hard to imagine how she survived pregnancy and postpartum.
Foreign pregnant mothers give birth to "big babies", and when they see her husband, they understand
Under normal circumstances, a single-born baby born at full term is about 50cm tall, and it can reach 53cm, which is already considered tall. And The Sharmin baby was 56cm when it was born, of course, envy at the same time, but also very distressed Sharmin.
However, when she saw her husband, she understood that the couple had the most cute height difference, the husband Graham was 190cm tall, and Sharmin stood next to him, only to the chest position.
It seems that the baby inherited the father's tall gene, and presumably the tall man will not be short when he grows up.
Many people say that Sharmin looks so young that she doesn't look like a mom at all. It is true that she is young, because she was only 19 years old when she was pregnant. Although his family objected, he gave birth to the child without hesitation.
Although she experienced a fracture on her first baby, Sharmin was not frustrated by it. Instead, he planned to have 3 to 5 children before the age of 30, and now he is already planning to have a second child.
Hurt for 2 years after giving birth to a baby? Expectant mothers don't be afraid
After seeing The Harmin baby plan, Sugar Mom had the same idea as everyone else and had to admire her courage.
Many people are worried that she fractured her first child, and it will be dangerous to have another baby? Sharmin has old wounds on his body, and the risk is indeed higher, but with experience, he will probably choose the production method carefully.
There are only a very few women who have broken their bones due to the birth of a baby in their lives, because this situation is easy to avoid.
Factors that cause the fetus to be heavy, or want to be tall, in addition to the genes inherited from the parents, can also be related to several factors.
Expectant mothers eat a lot during pregnancy, resulting in excess nutrition of fetal treasures, and there will be overweight.
In addition, babies who have not been born more than a week past the expected date of delivery. Not only will weight and height continue to increase, but bones will also become stronger. This hinders the direct birth.
Sugar Mom has a friend who has not given birth at 44 weeks of pregnancy, and her mother-in-law insists on not letting her have a caesarean section. As a result, the child grew larger, the skull began to harden, and he went into the delivery room for a long time, and finally he was cut.
Therefore, not only is the fetus too small, but it can be properly controlled by the living habits during pregnancy. In order to ensure a smooth delivery, it is also important to choose which way to choose.
If you want to start the "second child plan", you must make a good choice
Nowadays, caesarean sections are also common, and in addition to solving the problem of some expectant mothers who are afraid of a smooth birth, the more important role is to make the delivery process safer.
The mother in front of her, who is only 155 in height, has a relatively small skeleton, even if the baby she is pregnant with is not large, it is difficult to give birth smoothly.
If everyone has similar conditions with her, she is relatively petite, but her husband is tall. Then it is necessary to consider whether to choose caesarean section to reduce the harm to yourself and the fetal treasure.
This problem can actually be detected during pregnancy, especially during the period of labor, and the head circumference and weight of the fetus are more factors to be considered in the smooth delivery.
Sharmin, who has been through the pain and is still starting a two-child plan, can see that she and her husband really like children.
But Sugar Mom hopes that Bao Mom, who has a similar experience with her, will make a careful choice when preparing to have a second child. While there are many benefits to the child, caesarean section is a better solution when the situation is exceptional.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Whether it is a foreign mother or a domestic mother, it is not easy to get pregnant and have a baby. I hope that when making a baby plan, I will consider my body, be responsible for myself, and be responsible for my children.
【Today's topic】Everyone also has such a childbirth experience, welcome to share it in the comments.