Wang Guozhen once said:
"If you're a fish, don't be obsessed with the sky.
If you're a bird, don't obsess over the ocean. ”
Everyone who comes into this world has his own place.
Find your position in order to achieve yourself and live a happy life.
1: Recognize the location
I like a sentence said by Zeng Guofan:
"First be quiet, then think about it, and do it when you grasp it in five or six points."
This method and habit of doing things also applies at the level of knowing one's place.
Why do people not recognize their place?
Because his heart is too impetuous, his attention is too inattentive, or he is too eager to make a quick profit.
They don't even recognize who they are, so they think about who they are.
For example, they are bent on becoming Ma Yun and Musk, but they have not thought about where they are in.
Then, they don't know how different or different they are from them.
This desire to be them is actually a fantasy.
And if a person knows how to recognize his own position first, and understand what kind of person he is, he can go into the heart, perceive himself, and recognize himself.
First calm down, quiet down, think about your own situation, recognize your own position, in order to breed some ideas and goals, know how to implement.
And once you recognize your position, you know how far you want to do and what you want to achieve, and how far away from the real possibilities.
Lin Qingxuan once said:
"You are you, not the original you!" It wasn't you yesterday! The years of the rush,
In the turmoil and displacement of one station after another, as long as you return to your own mind and purify your mind, you are fixed, quiet, and settled, and sleeping every day is an end stop of the journey. Waking up every day is a starting point for the journey! ”
Every day, you are in a different position in life.
Therefore, we must recognize what kind of state we are in every day, and then constantly reflect on our hearts and purify our minds.
In the turmoil and displacement of life, the meaning of life is truly found.
2: Find the location
People are self-aware, and if a person can't even find his own place, he is like a headless fly, wherever he goes, he is blind.
I once saw such a passage on the Internet:
If you are a driver, you will feel that passers-by should take the initiative to follow the rules;
If you are a passerby, you will feel that the owner needs to know how to give way to pedestrians;
If you are a boss, you will feel that employees should not be lazy;
If you are an employee, you will feel that the boss should not be harsh;
If you are a rich person, you will feel that showing off your wealth is just a piece of cake;
If you are a poor person, you will feel that showing off your wealth is a kind of display.
Different positions will have different roles, different positions, and more different ideas and concepts.
Thus, the difference between people is revealed from these different positions.
A person, no matter when and at what stage of life, should find his place in time.
So, how do you find your place?
First, you have to learn to look at yourself, for example, what kind of work you are doing today, in which city, how much you earn a month, what your position is, whether you have a higher job pursuit, and what kind of furniture you already own.
Then, I am very sober and objective in understanding my own psychology, thinking clearly about what kind of person I want to be and what kind of life I want to live.
Finally, find your place as much as possible, and then hope to be what kind of person you will become in the future, and be able to set out specific plans from it, and be able to implement these plans strongly.
Zeng Guofan said:
"Think big, start small."
A person can only find his own position if he first recognizes his position.
Only by finding your own place can you know why you are working hard and creating.
Maintaining lofty insights and paying attention to the polishing of details can achieve self-achievement step by step.
3: Live a strong self
I like a passage by Haruki Murakami:
"When we were teenagers, we pursued passion, but when we matured, we were obsessed with mediocrity, and it was a kind of courage to believe in love as always after we sought, hurt, and deviated.
Everyone has their own piece of forest, the lost are lost, and the people who meet will meet again. ”
In life, you can pursue your true self and live your true self.
But how can a person live out his true self?
First of all, we must recognize what kind of person we are, and what kind of life, society, and world position we are in.
Secondly, after recognizing your own position, you can find your own position and constantly polish yourself in order to improve your position.
The meaning of being alive is that since you are alive, you must do something, and you must also tell yourself that you should work hard at all times.
Because in a person's life, he should live the same life as a bamboo:
When below the horizon, it will extend its roots in the soil to a hundred square meters, constantly accumulating energy for itself and finding its potential.
In this process of principle and accumulation, it will take four years to do so, during which time it will only grow 3 centimeters.
However, once you recognize your position and find the place to grow, bamboo can grow wildly at a rate of 30 centimeters per day from the moment it breaks through the soil.
In just 6 weeks, the bamboo can grow to 15 meters high.
Recognize your own position, find your own potential, and then continue to repeat, accumulate, empower, and grow patiently to live a strong life.
Then, like bamboo, once we jump on the horizon of life, we can create our own miracles of life.
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