In the eyes of many women, matter is greater than everything, and they like to cry in a BMW and laugh behind a bicycle. Money is their criterion for choosing their other half, even if the other party is much older than themselves, even if the other party has a marriage history, they will not care.
In fact, everyone has their own little nine-nine, and most men also know that women love money, and their hearts have their own plans. Therefore, women should not always put money first, so that they will not be able to see the true face of the other party, and it is likely to bury their own happiness.
Fang Mei's family conditions are not good, so she knows the importance of money and regards money as the only criterion for her choice of objects. However, most young people do not have much wealth at all, so she set her sights on the older man, the second marriage man Liu He is very rich, Fang Mei took the initiative to pursue each other, and finally walked with each other.
Liu He has a son who lives with himself, he has two shops, and he has set up his own company, Fang Mei thought that marrying into such a family will definitely become a rich wife, but after marrying in, Fang Mei was dumbfounded.
Although her husband has tens of millions of assets, he only gives Fang Mei a few thousand yuan of living expenses every month, and Fang Mei is also responsible for taking care of children and doing housework, and there is not a single maid in the family.
Fang Mei once wanted to hire a maid, but Liu He said that you are fine at home, why spend that money again, and directly refused. In this way, after Fang Mei delivered the child, she did housework at home almost all day, and there was no free time of her own.
The child was particularly naughty, often calling Fang Mei "fox essence" in front of others, for which Fang Mei was particularly angry, she told Liu He about this matter, but Liu He said disapprovingly: "He is still a child, don't be like him!"
Fang Mei took the child to play outside, the child accidentally fell off the stairs, but he told Liu He that Fang Mei pushed it, Liu He saw a large bag on his son's head, and he couldn't help but slap Fang Mei. Fang Mei still wanted to explain something, but seeing Liu He's angry eyes, she cried and entered the bedroom.
Friends all advised Fang Mei to hurry up and have a child of her own, so that she would have status at home, but whenever Fang Mei said that she wanted a child, Liu He always postponed it on the grounds of poor health.
Fang Mei still couldn't understand why he didn't want children? Until one time, she saw the divorce agreement between Liu He and his ex-wife at home, and it turned out that after the divorce, Liu He was not allowed to have her own children again, at this time, Fang Mei suddenly realized.
Fang Mei works as a cow and a horse for this family, but she can't have a child of her own, so what is the point of getting married? In this family, Fang Mei is just a stepmother for the child and a maid for the family, which is her two roles.
For women, the excess lies in money, often can't see the shortcomings of the other party, and it is likely that their happiness will be buried because of impulsiveness. Therefore, money is not omnipotent, women should be rational, but also through their own efforts to obtain a rich life. Don't think about relying on men, the money you get for nothing is not solid after all, and you may mistakenly fall into the trap of others.