Today is an ordinary but special day
It's later in my life
The youngest days
Face you at your best age
Figure: Mesh circle
Text: Xiao Mo
You are a teenager with a brilliant idea and a dare to do it
You are a teenager with courage, responsibility and dreams
Today is my birthday,
It was the thirteenth day of quarantine
Think about it
Write you a letter
Let's talk to you
You and I are in this world
Thick and thin, go your own way
Self-efficacy
Yesterday, it was said that a certain station was going to organize a "grand guild, party" for the anti-epidemic personnel, and the beautiful performance list attracted a backlash as soon as it spread on the Internet, which originally thought it was a good starting point: I sing the praises of beauty and cheer for you, why do you oppose that?
A netizen left a message that is very interesting: "You take the so-called celebrity top stream with an annual salary of millions to tens of millions, in this anti-epidemic moment, you must show responsibility, you must show tolerance, hold a party, encourage us people who can't even afford to eat, ordinary people who can't even afford to buy medicine to pay for errands, do you think it's realistic?" We know that group buying can buy vegetables, but we have no money, no job, and even no future, do you think it makes sense to rely on the so-called spiritual blessings at present? ”
Whether we admit it or not, most of us are different, some people are running for a living, some people are depressed about too much money, and this gap is more obvious as we get older, in other words: people and people have always had biological and social differences, and it is much better to know early than to know later.
Baby: As parents, relatives we treat you as the most loved one to protect and care, we do not want you to endure pressure and hardship, do not want you to bow to fate because of the shyness of your pockets like adults, and the only way to change all this: to make you strong, and there are many ways to be strong: there are learning, exercise, practice, interpersonal communication, even play and so on.
You often ask me: "What is the use of learning, I have everything". That's the misunderstanding we give you, you actually only have us as encouragement, support, as for the road of life only you go forward.
Society is a wonderful big world, because with care, love and understanding let us have wisdom to see hope, but at the same time this world also has wars, pain and hardship, the emergence of these is not to make us lose hope, but to make us more firm in faith, cherish to have, to complete breakthroughs, we must not tire of the weak, not flatter the strong.
Society is realistic and cruel, because our initial genetic, material and other differences have led to different ways in our life path, acknowledging differences does not mean that we can complain, blame and give up on ourselves, only those who are really strong on their own can find the meaning of life.
In the future, you have the right to choose any kind of career, this is your freedom and you show all your decisions before choosing, we hope you have the courage to actively choose, rather than passive acceptance, this is very different.
Baby: The basis for mastering the right to active choice is: character, ability, knowledge, relationships, and money. You can not want one, or several, but you must have the courage to face all the discomfort and reality that comes with it.
So we hope that you will learn when you should learn, play when you should play, and do what you should do, so that you have enough strength and courage to face this colorful world.
Don't be timid, go make friends!
make friends
Baby: We live in this wonderful world, you can swim in the ocean like a free fish, but if you can make more friends, go, as long as you are shining enough, your friends will be many, with friends you will not be lonely, with friends you can share your joy and sorrow, that happiness is one of the motivations you persevere in difficult times.
Always maintain a righteous and positive attitude, he will not only let you have friends but also let you live a full and full life. Today I read a short quote: When they attacked the Jews, I was not a Christian, so I chose to leave; when they attacked the blacks, I was not that race, so I chose to ignore, and finally one day they began to kill me, but there was no one around me.
There are different interpretations of this passage, depending on your state of mind, environment and experience, but you should see at once that our society is a collective of mutual help and cooperation, and the role of friends is not only to help you when you are in difficulty, but also to encourage and help you when you are helpless, so that you can see the window of hope.
Sometimes we are taught to think of our own way of everything, we are told by the multi-perspective culture to be good to ourselves, these are all right, these are the cultivations that we must have in the face of difficulties, but we must also know that this society is a group society, if you can reach out your hand, let more people feel warm at the same time you will also get enough light and heat, which is one of the meanings of your life.
Baby: Each of us has many shortcomings, but also has advantages, sincere and enthusiastic to hug your friends, strengths and weaknesses can not change the real love as your friend, I believe you will get a rare friendship.
The sea and the sky, brave to do it
be confident
Baby: The sky is so big, do you have strong wings? The ocean is so wide, do you have enough courage to withstand the wind and waves? The world is very large, the universe is infinite, and as human beings, we are actually very small, so we must have a reverent heart, a humble and cautious heart to face and practice at all times. As long as you have the strength, as long as you keep the bottom line.
Most of us are so-called ordinary people, but because each of us has its own characteristics and personality, which makes us unique and great again, stick to this unique, you must be able to create a different life, believe in yourself!
Strong ability, in order to not panic in case of trouble
Sometimes each of us is obsessed with asking ourselves: Why are we here? If the answer is for suffering you definitely don't like, in order to enjoy life is obviously not true.
Baby: Mom knows that your biggest problem at the moment is that you can't refuse the attraction of online games to you, so that you mistakenly think that your life should be playing all the time. I remember you once asking me, "Why can't I go to the best class?" Hey, if you were strict with me in elementary school and study better, I wouldn't be as good as they are now, and I wouldn't have lost face. "I know your current motivation to learn is more of a matter of face. This is actually just one of the many that promote your progress, and it is also the best one to solve, as long as you learn well, learning is skilled, you need to persevere, you need to be proper in your methods, you need to be fearless of hardships and hardships, and you need to be self-disciplined enough.
A reality as a mother must tell you: always let yourself have a skill or ability that is not eliminated, if it happens to be your favorite is even better, because no matter how you finally want to meet your needs, even if you have been playing the game, you must also ensure your basic conditions: eat, wear, live, use, this is only you can fight for, bold to learn, it will let you find a different wonderful yourself.
Only by broadening our horizons can we stabilize our mentality
I remember many years ago we discussed because of the difference and inequality of information led to a lot of problems of the event, the people who have the resources and information use this to fool the people in the underdeveloped areas, with the development of science and technology such problems are not many, but with enough information can make you not panic, see people are not low, do not worry about things. We are not exclusive, so there is a chance to remember to go outside and see, to meet more people, they make you stronger, enrich your life, and make you face life more peacefully.
Be flexible so that you don't cling to loneliness
When you were in elementary school, we shared a story together: there was a problem with a ship in South Korea for unknown reasons, when many people could escape or even jump into the river (the water was very shallow), but because of the wrong direction of the captain, everyone lost the chance to live, I regret those living lives, some are still many elementary school students, you replied to me: "You must obey the arrangement." I am surprised that sometimes we always have to make a choice when we are in danger, but the premise must be: life, not anything else, because life is only once, there is no opportunity to try and make mistakes.
But at the same time we are faced with a real problem: how can you make the right choice at a critical moment? Just like why give residents time the night before the lockdown in Wuhan, and what is the purpose? We have also discussed, we said that any civilized environment is to consider the feelings of the people, but in an emergency or no one can help you, you remember to save yourself, how to save yourself? In addition to the smart mind, enough information sources, friends to give, and all of this requires you to have the ability to navigate this circle, this environment, you must try to be the "Oh Oh" person.
Enjoy the loneliness and never forget the affection
be loved
Baby:
You are still young, I don't know how full of thorns the world is, and how proud it is to overcome it! We should not be proud of small successes, nor should we be lonely and give up because of isolation and discord, these are the ladders that make you mature. How much loneliness and loneliness you can endure, how great a great thing you can do. Don't think that you will always be excellent, you will not always be behind, choose to stand bravely on the cusp of the storm, is the mission that life has given you, remember, you are Leo is a lion!
You are our beloved, but you may feel that you have not yet met the person you love, yes, but regardless of time and space, we are willing to be the harbor that you can see in retrospect. Tired, tired, we're all there! As a mother, I feel that I have done this badly, unwilling to call and communicate with my relatives, but the family is always a family, with love, tolerance and understanding, just like we have you, I hope that this love will become your fearless motivation and courage.
1. Learn to read
Many of the things we get can be obtained from books, and knowing early will be beneficial to you.
2. Dare to challenge
You are a person with courage, don't give up the opportunity to challenge, let yourself try more, and always be curious.
3. Don't hesitate
Everyone has a different personality, but don't hesitate to do things, do it when you have a plan, and the opportunity often belongs to those who are prepared and dare to take a step forward.
4. Pay attention to psychology
Baby: We will all be sick, whether physical or psychological, don't worry about illness, face it bravely, when we are strong enough, everything is small in our eyes, such as this epidemic, we have never encountered, in the face of endless gl, you have done very well, I hope we stick to it together.
4. Let go of addiction
Baby: Remember one thing, don't hesitate to fight the age, don't indulge in the age of learning to accumulate, time is fair to each of us, investing the wrong energy at the wrong time will reap the fruits of the wrong, and the accumulation of learning now is to give you more choices in the future.
5. Control emotions
Everyone has emotions and venting times, that is human nature, but I prefer that you judge the situation and learn to regulate and control emotions, otherwise you must learn to bear everything that comes with it.
6, do not worry
Anxiety makes us busy, inefficient, do not expect not to work hard to achieve the same excellence as others, firmly believe: pay will have a corresponding return, pick up the phone must have no time to read, immerse yourself in the sea of books, must make your heart quiet.
【Epilogue】
Baby:
Thank you for sending birthday wishes early, because of you, I feel particularly proud and proud, I hope you understand our past experience and advice, you are an independent person, will definitely combine your own experience to understand, you may also use practice to verify or overturn, are part of your life, but I want to say: as for how much to understand, how much to understand is determined by yourself, no matter what, the world is very beautiful, worth your heart to understand!