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How many things in life, the best is to laugh through.
Looking up is the bottom line, bowing the head is the courage, each has its own advantages.
Whoever is alive is not easy, if you can bow your head, bury your head in hard work, and smile and wipe a handful of sweat and a few tears, it will be much easier.
Bowing down is a grievance, but also a sober after grievance, but also a pattern.
02
Bow to the humble and you will be noble.
In the early years of the Warring States period, Marquis Wenhou of Wei succeeded to the position of leader of the Wei family. At that time, the Wei clan had to obey the orders of the Jin state.
One day, Wei Wenhou went out in a carriage and passed the street where the hermit Duan Ganmu lived. He hurried to get the coachman to slow down and make a gesture of respect.
The coachman asked, "Why do you want to do this?" ”
Wei Wenhou said: "Duan Ganmu's virtue is above me, and he is more noble than me in spirit. ”
Later, Wei Wenhou invited Duan Ganmu to be the minister of state, but was refused. Even so, Wei Wenhou still treated him with courtesy and often consulted.
Later, the Wei clan split off from the Jin state and established the state of Wei.
Wei Wenhou once said: "If the skin does not exist, the hair will be attached." ”
No matter how strong a person is, how high the position is, if the person who is inferior to himself does not support it, he will fall down. People in the high places and people in the low places are actually the relationship of "fur", and no one can do without whom.
A person's nobility is actually the result of being sought after, praised, and recommended by others. If you want to get the pursuit of others, you must take the initiative to lower your posture, do more grounded things, and be more courteous to corporals.
"Eileen Says" wrote: "Out of the sludge without staining, Mao Qing lian without demon." ”
When we praise the lotus, we should also see the mud obscured by the lotus leaves. If there is no mud, the lotus flower will wither and lose its original nobility.
Remember, the higher your position, the more you have to smile and bow your head and greet those who are lower than your position.
03
Bow to stupid people and life will be transparent.
Everyone wants to be smart, but many people who are "smart are mistaken by smart".
There are also some people who use "smart" in the wrong place and turn themselves into villains. Although the benefits are obtained, they cannot last long.
The really smart people are "wise and foolish", not only pretending to be confused, but also nodding and smiling at the stupid people to show friendship. After all, arguing with stupid people is pointless.
Wu Qi, a military warrior during the Warring States period, did his best to help Marquis Wu of Wei and defend Xihe County. The Qin army attacked many times, but was repelled.
The chancellor Wang Wrong, who was at the mercy of Marquis Wu of Wei, was worried that Wu Qi would take his place, so he deliberately slandered him. Marquis Wu of Wei was indiscriminate and wanted to summon Wu Qi back to the palace and rebuke him.
Wu Qi drove the carriage and left Xihe County and went to the Chu State. Later, he was appointed ling yin by the King of Chu.
There is a saying: "Follow the flies and you will find the garbage; follow the bees and you will see the flowers." ”
When you meet a stupid person, you don't argue with him, you just laugh and leave. Even if the other party teases you, laughs at you, or slanders you, it doesn't matter.
To be a person, many times, to learn from Tang Bohu - others laugh at me for being too crazy, I laugh at others can't see through it.
04
Bow to good people, and there will be light in life.
Someone said, "Human nature is inherently good." ”
Another said, "Human nature is inherently evil." ”
No matter how we argue, we are always on the good side. After all, because of kindness, we feel the warmth of society, and the human world is worth nostalgia.
When we meet kind people, we should like them; if we make mistakes, we should accept the kind rebuke of others.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Sun Shu'ao made the order of the Chu state, and Manchu officials and local people came to congratulate him.
An old man, draped in filial piety, walked into the crowd crying and said, "When you become a high official, the people will leave him, and with power, the monarch will hate him; with money, there will be greed... Remember, be humble, discreet, and honest. ”
Sun Shu'ao bowed his head and said, "Very good, remember it." ”
Zhuge Liang, a celebrity of the Three Kingdoms period, commented: "Uncle Ao of the past grandson rode on a horse for three years, did not know Mu Mu, and called him Xianye. ”
Maintain your own goodwill, accept the kindness of others, pass on the kindness of the world, and if you do this, life will have light. Even if a basin of dirty water is spilled on the body, it will not make itself dim.
05
Bow to your greedy self, and your heart will be rich.
Everyone wants to live a life of being rich in money, living in a tall building and driving a luxury car. However, a person who has too many things is sullen and unhappy, like a carriage that has been carrying weights.
I have seen such a story: a businessman, made a lot of money, but the business encountered a bottleneck, and there was no way to do anything. He asked a wise man for advice.
The wise man took out a chopstick and said, "Break it." ”
With a "click", the chopsticks break.
The wise man took out a handful of chopsticks and said, "Come again." ”
The businessman exerts all his strength, and the chopsticks are indifferent.
The wise man smiled and said, "What you can control is just a chopstick." ”
Obviously, the house we can live in, that is, one; the car that can be driven, there is only one; the true lover, there is also a... Greedy things are superfluous and doomed to be unobtainable.
The so-called wealth is actually the richness of the heart, the fullness of the spirit, and the quietness of the soul.
Aesop's Fables read: "Some people, because of greed, want more, but they lose everything they have now." ”
In this life, every time a person gains something, he loses something. Therefore, smart people will not desperately try to get it, but cherish everything they have in the moment.
06
All the silent bowing heads will make themselves better.
The ancients said: "This is the husband who does not make a round and soft state in ordinary life; but can be soft without losing the strong and square spirit, this is the big husband." ”
If a person is too smart, he will be arrogant and arrogant, and from then on, he will be bound by "pride", and the road of life will become smaller and smaller. Often bow your head and treat people with humility, so there will be a "smile" in your heart, and when you move forward, you will be very comfortable.
A person really becomes stronger by smiling and bowing his head.
Every time you look down, you will see yourself clearly and you will also gain insight into the true intentions of others.
Walk with your head down and steady.
Bow your head and admit your mistakes, be generous.
Smile with your head down and calmly.
To be a person, there is no need to stand out, but to be humble.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.