Life is a practice, through stumbling and going around all the way, and finally making yourself better and better.
Time is fleeting, years are easy to grow old, and the best way for a person to be kind to himself is to enrich himself.
But, be careful! Rich nourishment is not just to satisfy their own selfish desires, or simply to meet the abundance of material life, but to use a good habit to make themselves live a solid and happy life, all you see along the way are stars and beautiful scenery.
What kind of life a person wants to live is not in the expectations of others, nor in the approval of others, but in their own step by step, harvesting the most wanted bits and pieces in life.
Please use 5 good habits to enrich yourself and benefit for a lifetime.
1 Do good deeds and accumulate virtue
In the Zhou Yikun Wenyan, it is said: "The house of jishan will have YuQing." ”
Accumulating good deeds and virtues is ostensibly helping others, but in fact, it is also helping oneself.
A person's kindness is never a deep consideration after interests, but comes from the most sincere efforts in the heart.
Perhaps not everyone will understand our good intentions, and may not be able to truly eliminate the malice of all people, but this kindness is enough to make our character superior to others, and to sublimate ourselves in the accumulation of good deeds.
When you really act with kindness, what you see in your eyes will not be unfair and wronged, but that you will find that there is good in your surroundings, and good luck will follow.
There is a retired old man in our community, a warm-hearted person, no matter who he sees who has difficulties, he will help, he does not ask for anything in return, it is completely the good work that gushes out from the heart.
After that, he became an old man respected by everyone, and when he had something to do, too many people would actively come to help.
Believe that when you do things with kindness, good luck and opportunity will follow. On the contrary, bad luck will often patronize the unkind, all of which arise from themselves.
2 hearts wide, then worry-free
There is a person whose career is hindered and his feelings are trapped, and he suddenly feels that his life is lightless and overwhelmed.
One day, he came to a monastery and asked the monk for the method of liberation.
The monk said to him: You can cultivate.
Practice? How to cultivate?
The monk replied, "Eat when you should eat, and sleep when you should sleep." ”
It seems very simple, but this person feels that he must not be able to do it, and thinks that there are distractions in his mind.
The monk told him that since it had already happened, he should accept it calmly, and the greatest trouble in life was not to encounter a mountain that could not be turned over, but to be unable to think about it. When your heart is wide, you will let go, and there is nothing that can continue to make you embarrassed.
Life is impermanent, and although fate cannot be swayed, our mentality can make ourselves decide.
When encountering troubles, it is better to think about it from another angle, it seems that loss may be possession, it seems to be leaving regrets, but in fact, it is in exchange for another kind of possession.
There is a saying: "The heart is broad and self-expansive, and the worry is less and the happiness is more." ”
Life must be open to let go, after letting go can be brave in the wind and rain, even if you encounter a bumpy road can also laugh, but also on the ordinary road to find the beauty of life.
3 people are diligent and financial gathering
There is a saying: "People come early in the spring, and their merits are in the autumn." ”
Living in the present, there has never been a legend of getting rich overnight or a beautiful thing to enjoy, and the beautiful future we want needs to be exchanged step by step through our own hard work.
No matter who has experienced a long period of silent efforts before becoming famous, they have achieved their huge gains today.
On the contrary, if you want to rely on small cleverness and small tricks to gain more, it is often a temporary scenery, and it will not be long before it will be a failure.
Only by relying on hard work can we benefit ourselves a lot on the way forward, keep ourselves sober-minded, know what we can control, what is just a passing cloud, and make a good choice, so that we can have more.
Industrious people, take every step of life in a down-to-earth manner, have more say in their own lives, and more deeply understand that happiness does not rely on waiting, but struggle and struggle.
Only by understanding this truth will we not let ourselves fall into anxiety and cannot extricate ourselves, and we will also let ourselves go all the way to have gains, not worth the trip, not worth the life.
4 Reading can make a person better
Someone once asked: What is the biggest benefit of reading?
One of the answers that received the most likes was: Reading books allows me to better understand the world and see myself.
Reading books can not only make us say goodbye to the initial ignorance and ignorance, but also fill in the lack of inner feelings, look at ourselves from another angle, and be more clear about what we really want.
If you feel depressed in the real world, it is better to read a favorite book, talk to the wise man, let it soothe your soul, and make you brave and powerful.
If you are used to reading, then you will not be easily stumbled and knocked down, no matter how many vicissitudes you have experienced, you can still be safe and sound in your heart.
People who love to read will make their life journey full of all kinds of fun, and they will never feel bored and lacking along the way.
When we fall in love with reading, we find the cure for everything, very good!
5 self-discipline, in order to get more
A person who wants to become better can be reached through struggle. However, if you want to go up the ladder, you must learn self-discipline.
But perhaps too many people don't like self-discipline and think it's a very painful thing to do.
For example, insisting on exercising, reading every day, or studying on time, doing this for a long time will feel boring, or even a little hard.
In fact, no matter what you do, the road of life will never be a horse and a smooth river, but accompanied by ups and downs and difficulties.
However, if you are a self-disciplined person, then suffering is only temporary, and non-self-discipline will often affect the long term.
A self-disciplined person gains a health, a good mood and good habits of doing things; what an undisciplined person gains is impetuousness and illness.
Self-discipline can bring freedom to a person. Only when you know how to discipline yourself, you will know better how to achieve yourself.
Moreover, from a longer perspective, the difference between people is whether they have self-discipline.
I've seen a particularly philosophical saying that says, "Honey, there's no one else outside the door, only yourself." ”
We live in the present moment, and everything we do, every step we take, affects what you will become in the future.
Therefore, developing a good habit determines the fate of our lives.
May you enrich yourself and blossom throughout your life.
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