Author: Xuan Xiaolei
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In "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", after Gu Wei reconciled with Lin Zhixue, he wanted to stay at her home for the night, and Lin Zhixue said that he was afraid that her father would know.
According to his father's "teaching director" style rules, Lin Zhixue must be married before he can live with Gu Wei.
Gu Wei immediately pulled a can down the ring and proposed impromptu, but the intention was true.
Because as he said, the first love affair with Lin Zhixue was to get married.
A marriage proposal statement was sincere and touching, and Lin Zhixue naturally did not resist this affection and sincerity, and agreed with tears.
Then the two sides informed the parents to meet, Lin Zhi school thought that her father would not agree, would obstruct, even if her father said a lot of good things for her, but also agreed to hold a wedding as soon as possible.
It turned out that he knew that his condition was deteriorating and that time was running out, but he let Gu Wei first hide from Lin Zhixiao.
Gu Wei felt that this matter could not be concealed, but he still said it.
Lin Zhi School naturally collapsed, it was panicked.
After calming down and returning home under Gu Wei's comfort, Gu Wei called again to continue to comfort her, and at the end came a sentence of "there I am."
As soon as these words came out, people were full of emotions, and the two people who loved each other said all the sweet words, said all the comfort and encouragement, and sometimes could not withstand such a sentence of "there I am", which sounded reassuring and warmed the heart.
When two people fall in love, the most important thing is actually these three words. Under the moon before the flower, Qingqing me and I are indeed beautiful and interesting.
But a longer relationship requires more than that, but also responsibility, a sense of responsibility, a desire to protect, sincerity, sincerity, strength, warmth, focus, loyalty...
Like Gu Wei, he loves Lin Zhi school, not only because she is cute and sunny and likable, but also because she envies and expects to walk through this life hand in hand with her.
Lin Zhixue does not look very old, but she is a responsible and responsible and strong and tenacious girl.
As her father said: She can hold up a family.
Two people want to be together for a long time, is to support a home, because in the long journey of life, you can't just be a non-alcoholic, but also have to support each other, warm and encourage each other, and shelter each other from the wind and rain.
In this process, the partner is the most trustworthy person, the one who can be relied on at any time, of course, this is also mutual.
If only one party pays this, the other party becomes a taker, and the relationship is difficult to last.
Only when two people become each other's "main backbone", will they not be afraid of this human storm, and will they be brave enough to face all blows or failures.
Knowing that he was there, I felt safe. Knowing that she was there, I felt empowered.
Knowing the existence of the other party, it doesn't matter if life is bitter and tired, and I am not afraid of bad things.
From this point of view, find a lover, this life is like hanging, not afraid, not backing down, having strength, motivation, strong, capable, industrious, brave, positive and optimistic, cautious and disciplined.
Because I want to protect each other, I want to bring each other a solid, happy and stable life, I want to give, I want to give, I want to protect.
With these psychology, the whole person is different, not muddy, not confused, not confused, not negative.
The sense of responsibility is there, and the heart is fixed, just like the wandering person stops wandering, as if the wish of the rest of this life is just to live a good life with the person who loves each other, to build a world that belongs to each other, to have children, and to accompany each other hand.
This is the meaning of one's life, simple, even in the eyes of people with lofty ideals is still very vulgar and unambitious, but for people who love each other, plain companionship is the most beautiful meaning.
It is not easy to meet such a person in a lifetime, and it requires two people to pay the same amount of love, have the same goals and intentions, and go in the same direction.
Of course, the process may also change because of forgetting the original intention. But what happened later we can't predict, who will change first, it is difficult to say. Why has changed, perhaps all have responsibility.
So there is no need to be afraid to accept the beginning of the moment because of fear of change, as long as the moment feels that each other is sincere and true, the goal is the same, is the two feelings of mutual pleasure, then hold each other's hands, to do the other party's "there I am", these three words, sometimes more than the promise of the mountain alliance and the sea have power.
A lifetime is not easy, no matter what you encounter, thinking about someone who has "always been by your side" is an extremely beautiful and lucky thing.
That person can rely on unconditionally, can remove the disguise in front of them, can also show vulnerability and weakness and tiredness in front of them, he will understand you, will accompany you, will help you solve many problems, and will give you the strength to face life again.
Thinking of this, I feel that this life is very promising, full of hope and expectation, and this heart is naturally extremely peaceful and down-to-earth.
Therefore, whether we are choosing a partner or a lover, we should have such a mentality, find a person who can support each other together to live a good life, a person who needs "to have you", you need to "have him", such love, than those who emptyly say "how much I love you" is more real and warmer.