A relationship, the most important thing is to operate, if only one party is paying, then the relationship can not last long.
If two people are together, one person always accommodates the other, or when the other party has ignored you, you still continue, thinking that it will be fine after a while, but this is just a self-deceptive idea.
When he no longer treats you like he used to, it means that his heart is no longer in you, and at this time, the harder you try, the more you can't get what you want, but it will only make you cheaper.
Although you don't want to go this far, if you really can't change it, then let yourself retain the minimum dignity, so that you can get together and disperse, instead of pestering him all the time and asking why.
When a person ignores your love, learn to do this, he will "paste" you backwards, if you are constantly entangled, he will only look down on you more.
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Don't take the initiative to look for him again
Most women are very emotional, if the other party no longer pays attention to her, she will still choose to continue to take the initiative most of the time, thinking that it will be good after a while, but forget that the person who ignores you, you can't impress him.
If a person does not answer to your love, then no longer take the initiative to find him, your initiative can not change back to him, will only make him feel that you can not afford to lose, rather than this, it is better to let yourself walk away quietly, so as to win his respect.
There are some things that you can't do, and since you have done what you should do, the result is no longer important, even if the relationship comes to an end, you are not ashamed.
If you repeatedly pester, it will only make the other party dislike you more, and you will not be able to regain his heart, try not to go to him, maybe one day he will come back to you.
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Let him feel your goodness
In fact, when he stops paying attention to you, you can be nice to him in another way, not to please him, but to make him feel your love.
Maybe he won't think much of it at first, but over time, he'll get used to your presence, and one day when you leave him, he'll get used to it.
Of course, this is when you still love him, you can do this, you can not have a humble and flattering mentality, but in a silent way to be good to him, let him understand that you still have a chance.
When he finds out about your goodness and understands that you are the one who is best for him, he will come back to you, which is better than your wishful thinking and asking for his love.
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Strive to improve yourself
The most important thing is to be yourself, not to be the woman who is entangled, you think that if you pester him and don't let go, he will turn back to love you, but in fact, the more you are like this, the more he wants to escape.
It is better to let go of him, stop looking for him, do what you should do, try to improve yourself, and when you become better and better, he will naturally look at you differently.
Just like Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", she used to be a full-time wife who only knew how to eat, drink and have fun, and when she was abandoned by Chen Junsheng, she was reborn and changed into another look, and even when Chen Junsheng saw him again, he would praise her.
At this time, Luo Zijun already looked down on him, she had become better and better, and the life she wanted would no longer be like before, even if Chen Junsheng wanted to return to her, she would not want him again.
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Conclusion
In the relationship between two people, if one party has already ignored your love, then don't take the initiative to ignore him, let alone paste it upside down, let him feel that you must be him.
It is better to take a step back and silently be nice to him in another way, let him feel that you still love him, let him understand that you still have a chance, and he may turn back.
More importantly, try to improve yourself and make yourself better, when you become an attractive woman, you naturally don't care if he ignores you, he ignores you, you have better options.
When a person ignores your love, you must learn to deal with it correctly, so that he will stick to you in turn, rather than letting you keep running after him.