01
Mr. Yang Dai said that you have the cultivation of not hurting others, but you lack an aura that does not hurt people, if no one protects you thoroughly, please bring some sharpness in the future to protect yourself.
When we were young, you and I were good old people who were kind to the extreme, and even if we thought we were good people, others must be good people. As everyone knows, this is just our fantasy.
In this pale human world, in fact, the sinister nature of human nature is beyond your imagination. It is possible that you are a very good person, but in the eyes of others, your good is just the beginning of others to bully you.
The so-called "good people are deceived, and horses are good to be ridden." ”
You place too much value on your feelings with others, and even entrust your true heart to others. In the end, your sincerity will only be exchanged for the hatred and calculation of others.
People can be kind and simple, but they must know how to give their own kindness and simple "add" a little sharpness. Your sharpness and resolute posture will eventually protect you.
In the past, I always thought that it was never good to be too much. As everyone knows, at that time, I was too soft-hearted after all, and I still couldn't see through the insidiousness of human hearts.
People, the heavier their feelings, the more they will be disappointed. Perhaps, for these people, we will not associate with them in the next life.
02
The little man who hurts you to the extreme, don't see you again in the next life.
I believe that everyone has had such an experience.
When I meet some friends in the workplace or social arena, they always smile and give people a feeling of laughter and giggling. However, they will trick you and even hurt you at the moment when you are defenseless.
What will we do about these little people who have hurt us?
Some people will choose to forgive, thinking that it is all a friend or a colleague, just need to be tolerant, there is no need to think too much. In the end, these people will be hurt one after another.
Some people will choose to tolerate it, thinking that these people are given a chance, while also letting themselves go. As everyone knows, you let others go, and others will not let you go.
In fact, it is better to be a person or "decide". For those little people who have hurt us, we can play a trick, but we must not forgive them.
Without suffering from others, hugh advises others to be good. There are some small things that can be forgiven. And some things, but can not be forgiven. Perhaps, in the next life, don't have any contact with them. This is the principle of being a human being.
03
The partner who has been making you miserable, never see each other again in the next life.
There is a saying that says, there is a reason to meet thousands of miles, and there is no reason not to meet on the other side.
You and I can meet, that is the fate cultivated in the previous life. If it weren't for the marriage of the previous life, I believe that we would still be strangers now.
If this marriage is better, then we will still be happy. However, if this marriage is not good, I believe that we can only get more and more painful.
Some couples, in fact, are similar to strangers, can sleep in separate rooms, they will definitely sleep in separate rooms, and they don't even want to stay together for half a minute. If it weren't for the children, I believe they would have divorced long ago.
Couples with conditions, each living on one floor, or each living in a house. Couples without conditions can only cover a quilt each and do not want any contact.
Does a marriage like this really make people happy?
If you can choose, it is better not to see each other again in the next life. Why? Because of some experiences, it is enough to try it once. And next time, don't go on.
04
Relatives who are hypocritical to the extreme will not see each other again in the next life.
In terms of knowledge, some people have asked such a question, why do people today not have a good feeling for the group of "relatives"?
Some people think that relatives are just a group of familiar strangers. Having them around, and not having them around, doesn't actually have any impact. Moreover, relatives with bad moral character will also affect your good mood.
Just think, it is not easy to be a person, life is already difficult, why do we have to be with these familiar strangers to "virtual and snake"?
People, it is better to take off the mask to live. You don't disturb my life, and I don't interfere with your life. We can be relatives, that is the fate of this life. And in the next life, don't meet again.
People who truly love will expect to meet again in the next life. And those who have no love for a long time, or even only resentment, it is better not to meet again. At the very least, give you a freedom, and give me a freedom.
05
Friends who have long gone their separate ways will never see each other again in the next life.
Someone once said that there is no feast under the heavens. Instead of forgetting, it is better to forget about each other.
Remembering will only make us live a tangled life in the end, not free at all, not happy at all. Forgetting each other is the best gesture and practice between people.
Forgetting does not mean absolute love, but to freeze the best memories in the past history.
The past has become the past, the future is still going on, then we, or do not see each other again is the best. Just like friends who have been separated for more than ten or twenty years, they have become strangers when they meet again. So what's the point?
When people reach a certain age, especially after middle age, they will naturally understand that it is a wise choice to not associate with people who have not been seen for many years, and not to associate with people with malicious intentions.
In every process of life, there will be some people who come to our side to accompany us. In this way, I am grateful for their company and wish them happiness. In this way, the next life will not see each other again, forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes, is the best ending.
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