The way the world looks depends on your gaze.
At a certain age, I found that the responsibility on my shoulders was getting heavier and heavier, and I encountered more and more things.
In the end, it is often a person's ability to carry things and self-healing ability.
Whoever can withstand the difficulties of life, who can still blossom a flower in his heart in the life of a chicken feather, is the victor of life.
To be a person who can carry things, first of all, is not chaotic in the face of things, and does not lose his temper casually.
Adults face a variety of things, family, work need to take into account the overall balance, only to maintain a stable mood, a cool head, in order not to be chaotic, insight into the overall situation, judge the situation, so as to make the right decision.
Therefore, maintaining emotional stability is a compulsory course that a person who can carry things needs.
Emotions out of control, tantrums, not only can not solve the problem, but let themselves be chaotic, so that the judgment is wrong, make the wrong decision, let things get worse and worse.
Wisdom comes from a calm mind.
Those excellent characters have not worn away their impetuousness and been able to become unfazed in the face of events, so that they have the correct decision again and again.
It is better to deal with things quickly than to think, it is better to be decent, and it is not as good as to be calm.
Therefore, to be an increasingly calm person, in the face of many unexpected situations in life, in order not to be chaotic, calmly cope.
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As they grow older, many people will experience difficulties at work, complex interpersonal relationships, burnout periods, bottleneck periods, and double pressure.
It's as if the problem is stacked on top of each other, never stopping.
No one is smooth sailing and smooth all the way, only by going up against the current, only by persevering in difficulties, can we willow and shine another village.
The desired gifts in life are wrapped in a box called tribulation, and whoever persists will receive it.
Adversity hones the state of mind, and difficulties inspire wisdom.
Behind those excellent lives, there is no less than the practice and persistence of ascetics, and the courage and tenacity to go up against the wind.
Those difficult roads are behind the road of your growth.
Setbacks are more of a passbook.
Be an increasingly resilient person and remember to grind more good things.
An inclusive, peaceful heart is a ray of sunshine in life.
Life, always inevitable chai rice oil and salt, pots and pans collision, a careless chicken feathers.
Escape can not solve the problem, only to accept and cultivate their own state of mind, the heart is poetic, all things are beautiful.
Life, fight is the mentality.
Happiness never falls from the sky, but grows from one's own heart.
Those who can always live a comfortable and calm life, not because there is no chore in life, not because there are harmonious voices around them, but because there is a heart that is tolerant and peaceful, content and grateful.
There are no desperate situations in the world, only people who are desperate for their situations.
If you are content to be thankful a little more, there will be less trouble. If you are a little more peaceful and tolerant, you will complain a little less.
When the heart is small, the matter becomes bigger. When the heart is bigger, the matter is smaller.
The way you live depends on your mindset.
Be a person who can carry things, and strive to cultivate your calmness, resistance to frustration, and tolerance. Maintain emotional stability, in order to be able to be quiet and wise, wise to calm.
Sticking to difficulties, life can be long wind and waves will sometimes.
With a good attitude, your life can be cute everywhere.
Source: Xinhua News Agency