Text/Wei Chen
What people have experienced in this life, whether good or bad, will eventually pass away with the wind.
Cangyang Gyatso said: "In the world, apart from life and death, which one is not idle. ”
Many of the things we experience are just a corner of this bustling world, and everyone's life is just a hurried visitor to others.
Greeting and sending is the norm in life. At the end, you will find that the only thing you can rely on in this life is yourself.
To be able to meet each other is fate, to meet is to be beautiful, and we do not have to be bitter and sad for separation.
Life is only a hundred years, fleeting, and why bother yourself.
Regarding the past, it is better to be happy or miserable. Some obsessions should have been let go long ago, and everything will eventually pass.
Everyone has their own definition of what happiness is. For most people, happiness is to be recognized by the people around them and cared for by the people who care.
The so-called happiness in life is not the happiness we see in our eyes, but the happiness we feel in our hearts.
For a person, the best quality is to be strong and independent.
If you look closely, many of the successful people we've met in life have scarred stories behind their aura.
They are the protagonists of the story, and they have also silently endured unknown pressure in the story.
Before people succeed, all negative emotions need to be digested by themselves. If you always expect others to understand and others to help, you will gradually lose the ability to become strong.
In life, we must learn to feel sorry for ourselves. In this life, it is destined that some tribulations can only be carried by themselves, and some pains can only be tasted by themselves.
Painful experiences can make people sad and can also make people grow.
There is a kind of person who is born very stupid and naïve, thinking that as long as they cry, someone will come to coax them, as long as they are hurt, they will definitely be hurt.
Reality has always been harsh and cold. If a person has too many illusions about others, he will continue to suffer the blow of disappointment.
When one day you truly understand what it means to endure alone, you will mature.
No matter how good or bad everything we experience, there is no substitute for it.
As a person, you must learn to hurt yourself, if you don't even feel sorry for yourself, others won't care about you at all.
It is not easy for anyone in this life, be nice to yourself, rest when you are tired, and lose your temper when you are dissatisfied.
You have to understand that some patience is really meaningless.
In this world, there are always people waiting to laugh at you, and there are few who really hurt you.
So we must be strong, don't let the heartache of the heartache, don't let the people who watch the play succeed.
Everyone has their own life and happiness, and we don't have to live in the judgment of others.
Some things, as long as you can think it through, explain too much is useless.
Living in the shadow of others is a very sad thing, the road of life must go by itself after all, as long as you feel that you are right and happy to walk, it is right.
If you are a bee, just brew your own honey, if you are an autumn cicada, even if you only drink the dew on the leaves.
There are people in this world who like to be clean and there are people who like to be dirty. There is no way to force flies to fall in love with honey picking, and there is no way to stop shell lang from pushing the dung ball.
Sanmao said, "What Heaven does not give me, no matter how tightly I clasp my ten fingers, still leaks; what I give to me, no matter how I have lost my hand in the past, will have it." ”
There is no need for us to ask for something that we can't ask for. Twisted melons will not be sweet, and some things must be learned to look down on no matter how much they like.
Time will dilute everything, we will eventually forget, and there will always be new encounters.
Don't compete with yourself. To be trapped in obsession is not to be distressed by one's own performance.
Let yourself be liberated, make yourself stronger and say goodbye to troubles and sorrows, never struggle in pain from now on, sort out all distractions, and only be yourself in your heart.
Everyone's growth will go through a long process, and it is inevitable that they will be hurt and cry in the polishing of the years.
Since things are not satisfactory, please take care of yourself in frustration. After all, when abandoned by life, we can only hurt ourselves.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.