Text/Wei Chen
Life can only follow fate, and no one can understand the helplessness of others.
The short period of a few decades from birth to old age has witnessed the ruthlessness of the years and the coolness of human nature.
Yu Qiuyu wrote in the "Notes on Mountain Residence": "The road of life is to start from the place of birth and go farther and farther. As soon as you are born, you are yourself, and the life that begins from this is to let yourself deal with everything that is different from you. The result of dealing with oneself may be to lose oneself, or to regain oneself at a higher level. ”
People live a lifetime, saying that the long is not long, saying that the short is not short, maybe a turn is a lifetime.
Everyone is trying to make their lives wonderful, but the sadness is always there.
Our emotions are capricious in the midst of joy and sorrow, sometimes firm, sometimes confused.
Everyone thinks they haven't changed, but as time goes on you go back and you'll find that the old idea was so foreign and unfeasible.
In life, there is never something that cannot be solved, only people who do not want to solve it.
As long as a person makes up his mind, no matter how big the difficulty is, he can find a way to resolve it.
It's just that there are too many things to experience in this life, and if everything is carefully crafted, the road of life is not too far to go.
Turgenev said: "As long as everything is seen lightly, there is nothing to be worried about; as long as the situation is not exaggerated by anger, there is nothing to be angry about." ”
The more you care, the more you can't solve the problem.
Only when people do everything according to fate and go with nature can they be calm and calm in the face of problems.
Over time, you will sadly find that you are now living the most hated way you once were.
We cannot deny that life is helpless. If a person has too many obsessions in his heart, it is inevitable that he will live a difficult and sad life.
Things in life are always one after the other, and diverting attention is the best healing.
The world is always imperfect, there will always be deficiencies in life, not all things will have a clear ending, and some things are destined to be perfunctory.
In this lifetime, we will meet many people and experience many things. As the experience increases, it will slowly be discovered that helplessness is the social norm, and some sadness exists from the beginning and cannot be changed.
Many things in life can only be known after experiencing them. There's never empathy in this world, so don't expect anyone to really understand you.
Life comes from peace, accept everything in the moment, do not struggle, do not escape, and face it calmly.
When your heart is no longer afraid of difficulties, you will be surprised to find that the life in front of you is not as difficult as you think.
Whatever you've been through, the days that follow will go on. Instead of waiting for others to cross, it is better to enjoy yourself in suffering and understand the cause and effect.
All the beauty in our eyes is actually just our own state of mind. Fate is the beginning of a good life.
In terms of time, everyone is small. Born as a human being, there is really no need to carry too much of yourself, grasp the happiness in front of you, and do not easily let down the time.
What should be given up is given up, and what is cherished is cherished, and the happiness of the moment is the truest happiness.
There are so many good and bad in this world, you can't have all the good, and you won't be the worst one.
Accept what you have. Whether it is joy or sorrow, it is its own life.
Life needs to be full of hope. If a heart is occupied too much by resentment, even the best dreams will be eclipsed.
Life has always been an abstract thing, and the so-called growth is to let yourself understand the truth that is originally unacceptable.
A light wind is not inaction, and forgiveness and tolerance is not an admission. Everyone's life is limited, and we need to spend our limited lives on good things.
In life, we should learn to realize our gains and losses. Relief is not to cheapen the other party, but to stop the loss in time for the investment in their own lives.
Some people have seen it, there is no need to deal with it, some things can be known, and they can't manage it on their own.
People, only by not arguing and not worrying can they live easily. Too strong feelings, it is easy to make people crazy. Right or wrong love and hate are not forced, and demanding will only fall on the head.
For the rest of his life, he did not complain or hate, and he lived bitterly.
You know, things that have no cause cannot be retained at all, and things that have a relationship are destined not to be missed.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.