There are many routines for chatting with girls, but with the passage of time, girls have more or less experienced or understood these routines, so many of these old routines are no longer applicable now. Below, let's take a look at the latest chat girl routines that can help you easily get the girls you like.
1. Before chatting
No matter what kind of chat routine, it needs to be based on a certain understanding of the girl, so before starting, we must first go to her circle of friends and see which circle of friends can be used to open the topic.
For example:
1, see the girl's circle of friends in the pet
Then you can talk to her: you like pets, I like it too, I had one before....... Right now....... balabala~
2, see the girl's circle of friends with children
Then you can talk to her: your child is really good-looking (naughty chat), my niece is about the same age as your child, do you want to match it.... balabala~
3, see the girl's circle of friends have food
Then you can talk to her: Yes, I don't see that you will still cook, what kind of dishes you like to cook, I usually cook dishes.... potluck..... balabala~
4, see the girl's circle of friends has a photo with the boyfriend
Then let's give up, not to mention that you can't pick it up, digging the wall script is a bad thing.
5, if the girl's circle of friends has no content
Then we can go through her nickname, her avatar, her nickname on other social software, all of which is a topic, the key is to see how you divergent thinking associations.
Second, the strange stage
This stage is the easiest to talk about, because it is difficult to judge the window of the girl.
So, at this stage, what we need to do is to learn to judge whether the other party has a window for us in the response to you, whether the response to us is good or not, if it is very poor (it takes a long time to return to you or every time it is just a good ah/emoticon), then it means that there is no window, then you should not continue to shoot.
If the response is average, only perfunctory answers to your topic, for example: what are you doing--- she said: watching TV / shopping / eating, then you can open the topic one more time to see if the other party is really perfunctory answer, if it has always been, then it is not recommended to continue to be afraid, unless the other party is the girl you want to get.
If the response is good, interact with your topic, and also properly open the topic for you to continue, then it is equivalent to her having a window for you at this time, then you can use the fastest way to pull up the chat: joke chat, to interact with her to joke and upgrade your chat atmosphere, as soon as possible to transition to the acquaintance stage.
Third, the familiarization stage
The main embodiment of this stage is that girls are willing to take the initiative to interact with you and chat, open topics and continue topics with each other, and have a good response to your jokes, which represents that girls have a certain degree of liking for you, so she also wants to know more about you and chat with you more. (Don't misunderstand here, girls are not chatting with you because you are funny, but because they have a good feeling for you as a person, after there is a window, your fun will give herself extra points, and she is also willing to joke with you.) )
Because the joking chat method is the easiest way to close the relationship between the two sides, so when we talk to girls at this stage, we must show our humorous side more, use more "improper" chat techniques to amuse each other, mobilize your chat atmosphere, and both sides chat hi.
Once you've reached this point, you can direct the conversation to topics like eating/movies and implant vague offers.
1, talk about food, just tell her that you have time to try it together.
2, talk about the movie, just tell her that you have time to go to see it together.
3, talk about the attractions, just tell her that you have time to go for a walk.
If after you say the vague invitation, the girl's response to you is very cheerful, don't go directly to the invitation at this time, because the chat is here, you are just acquaintances.
Even if she goes out on a date with you, if your on-site operation experience is not very sufficient, then it is impossible to win, and because of the lack of experience, it is extremely easy to "see the light and die", resulting in the girl's response to you after the appointment becomes very poor.
Next, we have to see the reaction given to us by the sister in the continuous temptation, according to the reaction she gave, the reaction will continue to escalate, and if the reaction is not good, it will be pulled back to the serious.
If you can accurately judge your attraction to the other party, and then judge her sense of need for you according to the chat stage at this time, after combining these two points, release your availability to her, then you can easily pass this stage and become a couple.
Talking to this stage, and then confirm the free time, the agreed place, you can issue a direct invitation.