How to judge the degree of interest of a girl in you? Fans often ask me, is this girl interested in me? Help me analyze it, many times I feel that this girl is interested in me, but I don't feel that I know if it is accurate or not. How to judge it?
I don't know how to judge whether a girl likes me or not, and whether he really wants to be with me? Before the two people have a relationship, they are in a mutually tentative situation, if we can clearly understand that girls are interested in us in chat or interaction, then you can control the lightning, screen the girls who are interested in us, so as to focus on the cultivation of these girls, greatly increasing your chances of getting a girl. Interest metrics during chats.
Indicator one, the speed of reply to the speed of the girl to reply to your message, represents the importance of you in his heart. If the girl is the kind of person who loves to answer, reply once a few hours, and can't find anyone for half a day and doesn't explain, in fact, he doesn't care about you at all. Your relationship is actually no different from a stranger, if the girl stays in front of the phone every day waiting for you to come to the message, basically it is a second back, even if the reply is slow, he will explain to you what just happened, so the reply is slow.
Second, reply numbers. The number of words in the reply hides the girl's true attitude towards you. Many brothers in the chat history to me, I often see the girl's reply up to three words, which shows that you are not attracted to this girl, this time you should divert your attention, talk about other girls, there is no need to put energy on a girl who does not like you, just imagine. A girl who is very uninterested in you, sending you messages every day, is not willing to reply to him, or even disgusted, want to block him?
That third metric, the number of responses. If the girl gives you a fast reply, debugging more, when the mood is high, often a paragraph of text is sent over, the middle may also be mixed with expressions, do not hesitate, hurry up to ask her out, she will 100% agree. The more replies you have, the higher your interest in her. Maybe you only reply to a sentence, or do not speak, girls will find their own topics to take the initiative to ask you, or care about your recent situation. You don't have to worry about what to talk about now, think about what to do with the date, and take him home.
The fourth metric, chat fit. The fit of your chat topic refers to every topic you provide, the girl will give a positive response, your topic fit is very high, he is catering to your topic. Vice versa. For example, if you are talking about eating, the girl will say which snack bar is newly opened and want to try it, which is a sign of high fit, and he can continue the topic. For example, you may have multiple topic continuation points in a sentence, and the girl can completely pick up the conversation, but the girl's words turn and say that I am ready to go to play, which is completely incompatible with you. This shows that your chat fit is very low, and this girl has no window for the time being.
The fifth metric, chat engagement. The degree of commitment is to put it bluntly, the cost and difficulty of sending a message. A girl takes the initiative to send a photo, or directly open a video for you, which is more difficult than telling you a voice, and the voice is greater than a text. If a girl video chats with you directly, it means that she has no way to effectively chat with others during this period. All the energy is put on you, which is very invested in you, and if girls are not very willing to send text chat with you, this is a low investment.
The sixth indicator, a lot of questions, to judge whether the girl is interested in you, the most obvious feature is that she will take the initiative to ask the girl, but also often there will be a check account or 100,000 why situation, which is proof that he is interested in you, he is full of curiosity about you, can not say that you successfully attracted him, but it is almost, as long as your answer is cautious and perfect, with wit and humor in the middle, you can easily get it.
The seventh indicator is to actively provide topics and share inner feelings. Girls may understand that this topic can not be talked about. If a girl will take the initiative to start a new topic, it is obvious that he is interested in you and wants to continue to talk to you. He will also take the initiative to share his inner feelings, such as what happy things to encounter today, what he is going to do tomorrow, and share these bits and pieces, in fact, he already likes you.
Well, that's all I'm sharing for today.