When chatting with a girl, we often encounter the situation that she does not reply to the message, so what does the girl's non-reply represent, and what should we do?
First, the girl does not reply to the meaning of the representative
A girl doesn't stop responding to your messages for no reason. On the contrary, in fact, their non-reply may be a unique way of replying, which may be busy playing games, busy playing kings, busy chatting with others, and busy with people they like.
This situation is basically caused by the lack of chat skills with girls. There are many brothers who only check their accounts and keep asking all kinds of questions, such as what are you doing, what are you doing, what do you like to do, and so on.
There is actually no problem in asking questions about girls, and it is also to understand the girl's information as soon as possible, so as to get acquainted with her.
But everyone should understand that the normal development idea of the girl is: first be a friend, and then be a lover!
The early stage of chatting with girls is more about the creation of atmosphere, a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, so that girls think you are interesting to remember you, this is the most critical, as for the girl's personal information, get along for a long time, familiar with each other, naturally also know.
This is the process of establishing a sense of familiarity and trust, rather than asking with a purpose, asking questions all the time, exposing the sense of need for girls, appearing to be immature and stable, and asking questions will not produce any emotional interaction with girls, which will make the chat more boring, and will make the girl feel uncomfortable, ignoring her feelings and thoughts, the purpose is too light, and the girl will instinctively reject and reject.
Second, what to do when the girl does not reply to you
The key point of chatting with girls is "interaction", only by establishing a positive interaction, can we get closer to girls, in order to make this situation that she does not reply to messages, and then share two interactive universal strategies for everyone.
1, keywords to understand the woman's heart
In the chat, many brothers will focus on the girl's attitude towards themselves, and rarely pay attention to the keywords in the girl's words, so it is easy for the girl's emotions to be swayed, and every time they say a word, they will worry about whether the other party likes it, which is very passive.
We must learn to grasp the keywords in the girl's discourse, from the keywords to expand the topic, of course, if there is no keyword in the discourse, as long as you take out any of the keywords in the front of the other party to guide the topic, it is OKAY, to understand that chatting with girls does not need logic, the focus is on feelings and emotional experience. Like what:
M: Have you eaten? (Keywords: rice, eating)
F: Eat
M: Did you do it yourself? (Led topic by rice)
F: I can't cook, buy (keywords: can't cook, buy rice)
Male: Girls can't cook at home, and in the future, your partner will not be hungry (from not being able to cook to guide the topic)
F: He can't do it himself (keywords: object)
M: Then when you are the object, you have to master a craft
The dialogue here can continue to talk a lot, you can use this topic to talk to the girl about her mate selection criteria and related to girls.
2. Increase the fun of chatting
Girls are emotion-led creatures, if you want girls to be willing to chat with you, then you must guide and stimulate the emotions of girls, increase the fun of chatting, let her think that you are interesting, and chatting with you is a happy thing.
The first step to unify human emotions is to laugh, in the chat must not use too logical way to reply to girls, such as girls take the initiative to ask you some personal information, you directly tell people, so that although there is nothing wrong, but it is very boring, there is no interaction, girls will not find it interesting.
And if we deliberately tease the girl, the effect is different, such as:
F: Send me your picture to show me
M: Send me a picture of yourself, and if it looks good, I'll give it to you
F: Oh, how did you do this, the girl asked you to do this
M: Ladies are preferred
Don't agree to the girl's request in a hurry, but contradict the girl, don't feel that it is not good to say such behavior, in fact, conflict and awkwardness are a key link to enhance the relationship between the closer attraction of the feelings, which can distinguish you from other men who will only cater to girls, and better run into the relationship with girls.