At the beginning, who did not think that after meeting, they would not leave.
Later, who did not take a fork in the road to the future.
Later, we finally understood that life is like this. No one will certainly not be separated after meeting.
Slowly, after meeting and separating again and again, we finally understand that the normal state of life is: parting. When we first met, we always thought that the rest of our lives were long and we could go on. But reality is always so uncertain.
Sometimes we think that the people we meet can go on for a lifetime, but fate is sometimes so playful. It is precisely because of this encounter and parting again and again that we know how to cherish it more.
Only then did I understand that the face of the human world is one side less than the other.
Only then did I truly understand the true meaning of "raising a glass to invite Mingyue to become three people".
In fact, we are not lonely and need the comfort of others, but we know that maybe the last separation is the last time we see each other.
Because after walking and experiencing, we understand more and more, what is life like? Life is the road under our feet, and the people and things we meet along the way.
I remember that there is a passage in "Ordinary World": "This is not fate, but an objective condition that cannot be surpassed." In this world, not all that is reasonable and beautiful can exist or be fulfilled according to one's wishes. ”
Yeah, sometimes life is like that, so in our own eyes, it should be a natural thing, and sometimes it's not exactly as we think.
In the journey of life, we began to slowly understand that there is no perfect thing in this world, and life cannot be smooth.
It's as if we once met someone and thought they could always walk with us, but one day when you woke up again, he was separated from you.
At this time, we really believe that the world is really big, and if we did not deliberately meet at the beginning, we would really not see each other again.
It is precisely because of this encounter and parting along the way that we know that the normal state of life is: separation. And what we can do with these is to meet more when we can. Every time you are separated, say it well and cherish it.
It's as if a friend of mine once said to me that one of his biggest regrets was not saying goodbye to his ex and remembering that they were still unhappy when they last met.
After that, it didn't take long for the two of them to break up, and then they didn't see each other for various reasons, and now when he talks to me, he can still feel some discomfort.
Therefore, as long as there is time, if you can accompany the person you love, you must accompany it well, and every time we meet, it is worth cherishing.
In "Zhuangzi Grand Master", there is such a story: "The spring is dry, the fish phase is in the land, and the wetness is wet, and the foam is wet, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes, rather than honoring Yao instead of Jieye, it is better to forget the way of the two." ”
Presumably, in a place where the spring water has dried up, there are two small fish snuggling up to each other, and they swallow foam to keep their bodies warm. This is what someone sees say, with such a hard time. It is better that you go to the left, he goes to the right, you go into the river, he goes into the lake, and from then on the two do not see each other, freely forget each other in the rivers and lakes.
When I first read this article, I thought that this person was not going to break up these two little fish, why couldn't I help them put them together, so that they would not part.
Later, after experiencing some things, I realized that in fact, the true meaning of this passage was and forgotten in the jianghu, but in the cherishing when I had it, and the attitude after I lost it.
Just as the writer Lin Qingxuan once wrote the book "Life Is Fortunate to Have a Parting", what he wants to express is the two major themes of "parting" and "cherishing".
After reading it, I can't help but sigh that life is actually like this, it is precisely because we have experienced parting that we know how to cherish the moment of reunion. Because there is no pain of parting, there is no joy of reunion.
Of course, we are not willing to encounter this situation of separation, but life is like this, we will meet many people in this life, and we will be separated from many people. And these are objective conditions that cannot be escaped.
But we can choose, that is, to cherish. It is precisely because of these experiences that we know how to cherish the time together, so when we have time, we must meet more with the people we love.
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