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There is such a passage on the Internet: "When people are hungry, they will choose foods that they do not like to eat; when they are lonely, they will choose people they do not love." Because the twisted melon is not sweet, but quenches thirst. ”
In the world of feelings, it is easy to meet such people, who do not love you very much, but you can satisfy him, so they will be with you.
At first, we thought we had met true love, but after we really got along, we would find that it was not, it was not true love, but our own wishful thinking and the loneliness of each other.
In the world of feelings, when you meet such a person, no matter how hard you are, it is useless, the other party does not care about you, does not attach importance to you, no matter what you do is useless, and such a person only has physical needs for you.
They don't have love, they don't care and care, they just need it.
In the world of feelings, when you meet such a person, you must learn to stay away, because such a person is just a physiological need for you, and generally such a person will have the following signs to understand.
The first sign: usually do not care about you
The first sign that such a person will appear is that he usually does not care about you, you are sad, you are sad, and it is not important to them.
Many times, even if you are miserable and you are unhappy, it is meaningless, the other party does not care, do not pay attention.
The other person never shows up when you need it, and when you're in pain, the other person rarely comes to comfort you.
Zhang Juan met such a boy, the other party and Zhang Juan were together, originally thought that there was love after being together, originally thought that after being together, the other party would be very good to themselves, but Zhang Juan found that every time she had anything, the other party did not care.
When he was wronged in the company and wanted to talk to him, he always listened absently, and he would not comfort himself afterwards, let alone care about himself.
The important thing is that in such a situation, the boyfriend has a need for himself, and every time he meets himself, there is only one purpose, that is, physical needs.
Such a feeling made Zhang Juan feel painful.
In the world of feelings, if a man is indifferent to you and only needs it physically, you must know that the other party does not love you, but just needs you.
The second sign: just want to possess you
I don't know if you have such a feeling, those who only have a physical need for you, just want to possess you, they have no love for you, will not talk to you about love, will not stick to you, and will not care and care about you.
As long as you are with you, you only want to do one thing, that is, to possess you, if you do not pay attention to observation, it is difficult to find, when you find that the other party does not care about you, does not care about you, only wants to possess you, you must understand that the other party does not really love you, just physical needs.
Usually such men will do this, when with you, always find a way to go to the home or hotel, when you go, will possess you, do not care about your feelings.
And after really possessing you, they turn a blind eye to you and are indifferent to you.
After that, it is either disconnected, or there is no patience for you, when you speak, you always say that you are busy, when you call, you do not say a few words, you say that you are going to be busy.
When a man does this to you, then there is no doubt that the other party is just trying to possess you.
Third sign: Never talk about the future
In the world of feelings, when a person truly loves you, he wants to give you a future, he wants to give you a future for future life, and the other party has ideas and plans.
But if a man is with you and never talks about the future, then you don't have to think about it, the other party must not love you enough, but talk to you for a while, and this time, it is just to satisfy the other party.
You are not the person the other party chooses to accompany you for a lifetime in the future, nor is you the person the other party really loves, but the person who accompanies you for a while.
Such a person, no matter how you say the future, how to say the future, the other party is unresponsive, are not concerned, the important thing is that once you talk about the future things, the other party will escape.
Before a colleague, I met such a thing, she and her boyfriend have been together for half a year, colleagues like each other, always think that they can be together for a lifetime, so after really together, colleagues found that the other party does not care about themselves, not good for themselves, the important thing is that the other party never mentions the future.
Once a colleague said to the other party, in the future, if we are married, we will also buy such a house, the boyfriend took a look, did not speak, the colleague was angry, asked the boyfriend what he meant, the boyfriend said I am all right, what you say is what it is.
Such an obvious perfunctory, let the colleague understand the other party's meaning, and then decisively broke up.
If a man only wants to possess you, but never mentions the future to you, you will understand that the other party does not really love you, the other party does not really care about you, and such a man is not worth your giving.
When you meet such a man, you must learn to stay away and let yourself be less hurt.
The fourth sign: it will only be rhetorical to you
In the world of feelings, when a man will only talk about you, but is indifferent to you, does not care about you, and never mentions the future to you, you must know that the other party must not love you.
They are just physiologically needy, and you just happen to be able to.
Some people say that the world of feelings, the most frightening thing is that you think you have met love, but you don't want to be in the eyes of the other party, but it is just fun.
When you meet such a person, you must learn to stay away, because such a person does not really love you, and his rhetoric to you is not to love you, not to coax you, but to need you.
And when you meet such a person, you must stay away, because when you are not far away, you will find that the other party will only hurt you.
There is a big gap between love and need, people who have love for you are concerned about you, care about your feelings, respect your ideas, and people who need you, except when there is a need, you can contact, the rest of the time is not busy, or there is something, and every time you are looking for you is purposeful, such a person should stay away as soon as possible.
When you don't know what kind of attitude the people around you have towards you, you can carefully observe through these points, and then find out what the other party intends for you, and then make the right decision.
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