For young people, blind dates are a familiar topic, but it has a different meaning for everyone.
Some people have found a lifelong partner through blind dates, some people have repeated blind dates but have been unsuccessful, and some people have been devastated in the process.
Some people say that if a person wants to get off the list, blind dates are the fastest way, because the introducer is familiar with each other's conditions, which can save a lot of time.
Moreover, this is a very safe marriage plan, because everyone knows the roots and it is not easy to meet scammers.
Some people also say that blind dates are a very unreliable way of making friends, because many people have encountered strange things in the process.
Is it really easy to encounter strange things when you are on a blind date? Have you ever thought that this matter may not be as simple as you think?
The strange things you think, the people you meet who can't speak, maybe they just want to reject you in this way.
In a sense, blind dates are more like a science.
Although many people have been close to each other, everyone has not understood the twists and turns in it.
For example, the same girls will also show completely different appearances when facing different blind dates.
They will behave best in the face of their favorite object; in the face of people they do not like, they will often find some way to end the blind date.
If a girl talks about the following topics when she is dating you, there is no doubt that she just did not look at you.
Talk about your ex and cause your disgust
As soon as a girl meets you, you talk about your ex, and don't shy away from telling their past, both good and bad.
You deliberately diverted the topic, but she pulled the topic over again, as if she was particularly attached to the ex's affairs.
You think that the girl doesn't understand things, so grandly talk about her ex in front of the blind date.
You can't bear it, complaining in your heart that since she didn't let go of her ex, why did you come to the blind date?
Actually, she did it on purpose.
Everyone knows that talking about an ex in front of the incumbent is a very impolite thing to do, even if you're just a blind date, but this behavior is also repulsive.
She knows she can't do it, and her purpose is to arouse your disgust and make you feel that she has not completely let go of her ex.
In such a situation, you will usually find a reason to end the conversation and end the blind date, and then very euphemistically tell her that the two of you are not suitable, and this is exactly the result she wants.
Talk about material conditions, let you retreat from difficulties
I once heard a girl talk about her method of rejecting people she didn't like: asking for money directly.
Whenever a man she doesn't like chases her, she will say lightly: "I want to buy a bag, you transfer some money to me." ”
The man's expression will change from surprise to embarrassment, and then he will find a reason to prevaricate, and finally never appear in front of her again.
She told everyone that this is the best way for women to reject men. No matter how stalking a man, as long as he uses this method, he must be far away.
A girl came up and asked if you had a house, a car and a deposit, and made a series of high material requirements, no doubt, she is not a gold worshipper, just did not look at you.
Many men do not understand why some girls put forward such a tricky condition, such as having a house and a car is not enough, the house must be bought in full, the car can not be less than 500,000, and the girl is just a general income group.
She is self-aware, she knows what kind of man she deserves, and the reason she asks you for such a request is only to make you feel bad and retreat.
Talk about the "key points" and make you leave in anger
Some girls are intimidated by the way they chat because they are always able to talk to the point.
The so-called key point is the fatal flaw of men, and it is also the place they are least willing to mention.
For example, if a man is shorter in height, she specifically mentions his height in front of him, and also emphasizes the importance of height to men.
For example, this man is not good-looking, she deliberately talks about his appearance, skin, hairstyle, dress and so on.
No one can stand such "targeted" chats, and under normal circumstances, everyone will feel very angry and turn away when the anger reaches its extreme.
Although you feel angry, it is not easy to send out the fire, because she will pretend to be very innocent the whole time, and the words that make you angry are also words that are spoken inadvertently.
You can only knock out your teeth and swallow in your stomach, leaving this early makes you embarrassed and angry.
epilogue:
In this contemporary society where everyone is mixed up in the general environment, there are only a few people whose emotional intelligence is low enough to challenge the bottom line of others, and if everyone really encounters it, they must judge the authenticity of it in their own way.
Whether it's true or fake, a person who touches your bottom line should choose to stay away because this kind of person really isn't worth dating.
In the process of blind date, everyone should know that when you meet such a girl, this is the other party's hint to you.
She didn't look at you, but she didn't say it directly, afraid of getting a too picky reputation because of it, so she thought of some ways to deliberately stimulate you and let you leave by yourself.
Since the other party has achieved this point, there is naturally no need for you to continue to pretend.
The twisted melon is not sweet, so it is better to let it go.