Wen | Ye was terrified
Many people think that love in this world is either the kind of love at first sight and the kind that enters the heart at a glance; or the kind that is not moved at first, and after a period of time together, slowly accumulates good feelings and long-term love.
In fact, there is another way to produce love, that is, to be emotional in a moment.
Perhaps, that day, the weather was pleasant, the spring breeze was surging, and the one she just stood in the warm sunshine, wan'er smiled, smiled and fell into the city, so it entered your heart and could not be dispersed again.
Or maybe, when she was sad and weeping, she suddenly felt that she was so small, so she aroused her desire to protect. From now on, I want to shield her from the wind and rain and protect her for a lifetime.
If you are willing to taste your love, you should find that when she really moves you, it is actually in these five "moments".
01 Suddenly gives people a bright light
You are colleagues in the same office, and you usually work overtime to eat together, but she, like those colleagues, does not give you any special feelings. Suddenly one weekend meeting, she put on a light makeup on her face and wore a floral skirt, which looked so beautiful and moving. At this time, your heart is pounding, your eyes are evasive, and you find that you are in love with her.
Or, you are friends who talk about frequent gatherings, and she is not very special to you like other friends, just ordinary friends. One day, everyone went for a walk in the park together, and at the moment when she plucked her hair, the sunlight from the gap just sprinkled on her white face, and the corners of her mouth were smiling at the moment. It was at this time that you found yourself falling.
02When you seriously focus on one thing
We often hear the saying that serious women are the most beautiful. It is true that when a woman devotes herself to work and life, she looks focused and undistracted, as if she has forgotten the whole world. At this time, you will be deeply fascinated by her, and feel that a serious woman is so beautiful. When a woman lives and works seriously, that dedication and love will infect others and give people a feeling of quiet years.
I had a buddy and her girlfriend who started out like brothers, the two of them had dinner a lot, and everyone said they were in a relationship. But my brother said: As far as she is concerned, like a grandfather, how can I have feelings for her? Once, my brother was working overtime at the company, and the girl paid him a bonus to invite him to dinner, so she helped him sort out the information together. When proofreading that pile of data, be particularly attentive, just like a delicate instrument. My buddy looked dumbfounded, and he suddenly realized that she was really heartwarming when she was serious.
03 Like a wounded bird when it is weak and helpless
A sad and tearful, small and helpless girl is most likely to stimulate a man's desire for protection. Men naturally like to do justice and protect the weak, so they have no resistance to girls who are weaker than themselves.
When a woman crouches on the ground and cries because she has been wronged or hurt, the cry is enough to break a man's heart, eager to give her the best gift in the world to soothe her wounded heart; eager to take her into his arms, stroke her hair, and comfort: "Don't cry, there I am." ”
04 When I was confused and embarrassed to spit out my tongue
Women who are omnipotent, maverick, and tend to be perfect exist like gods to men. But after all, man and God belong to two different worlds, and there is a world of difference. Women who tend to be perfect will always give people a sense of distance, which is unattainable.
What really makes a man's heart move is that those girls who are a little stupid and often confused in life will think that such girls are cute, real, and reachable. When a girl is embarrassed to spit out her tongue because she is confused and ugly, it will often make the boy laugh. It was at this time that his heart was captured.
05 When I saw her suddenly make a kind gesture
When you ask a man what kind of girlfriend he wants to find, he will generally say: be kind and filial. In fact, kindness and filial piety are a yardstick to measure character, which can reflect whether the person's heart is bright and beautiful, so as to see whether it is suitable for living a life with himself.
My cousin and his girlfriend met on the bus. It was rush hour, and the cars were crowded and crowded. The car was about to start when it was stopped by an old lady on crutches. After the old lady got on the bus, the master kindly reminded the passengers to give up their seats to the old man, and so many young people in the carriage pretended not to hear.
At this time, a girl who had been sleepy and unconscious suddenly woke up, saw the helpless old woman in the crowd, quickly squeezed over and pulled her to her seat, and smiled to tidy up the messy hair in front of the old lady's forehead. At that very moment, my cousin was impressed by the girl's kind gesture, and before the girl could get out of the car, he cheekily asked for her contact information.
In fact, a man who falls in love with a woman does not necessarily have to be with each other for a long time. For a moment, she is synonymous with beauty for you, and at this time, your heart has fallen. She may not be beautiful, but in that moment, she gives you infinite beauty and warmth, and that is enough.
When did you get your heart out for a girl?