When every love has not yet settled the dust, people in it will always have a sense of loneliness, which is a feeling that cannot be eliminated no matter where everyone is.
Loneliness is not innate, but the moment you fall in love with a person, because she loves her heart, she does not know at all, leaving you alone in the ocean of love and drifting alone, never being able to land.
The only way to get rid of this loneliness is for two people to fall in love and enter another stage of love, but I am afraid that from beginning to end, you are alone in it, and the other party has never moved half a other thought.
In fact, if a woman has no feelings for an Ika man, she will refuse his "prodding".
Although she has reached the most suitable age for women to marry this year, she still has no interest in feelings and only wants to work hard in her career for a few years.
Although in her opinion, she is still young, in the end, she is only in her twenties, less than thirty years old, but the family does not think so, in their view, 27 years old and 30 years old is not much difference, so they have been trying to give her a blind date.
For the matter of blind date, Xi Xi is very repulsive, but she can't help her family, so she has to cope with participating, and she also uses her indifferent attitude to make many men retreat, only Xi Zhe.
When we first met, Xi Xi still put on that poker face, did not take the initiative to speak, what the other party said, she would basically control within 5 words, and almost wrote the 5 words of "not satisfied with you" on her face.
However, Xi Zhe did not take it seriously, but the tone was always very gentle, and after he went back, he would talk to him from time to time.
After a long time, Xi Xi also began to notice him, just a simple curiosity, I don't know what the reason can make the other party keep chasing her.
After a period of contact, Xi Xi found that Xi Zhe was also disgusted with blind dates, for him, he was also a shield, two people with the same feelings, so they agreed that each other would use each other as a shield, so that there was no need to continue to go on a blind date.
But slowly, Xi Xi found that something was wrong, it seemed to be different from her pure friendship, Xi Zhe seemed to be really moved by her, and began to say some ambiguous words intentionally or unintentionally, and would also give her some special gifts.
For example, on Valentine's Day, she will be sent a red envelope of 520, or a rose, and occasionally half-jokingly said that let xi xi really consider himself, simply fake the real thing.
This made Xi Xi a little helpless, for Xi Zhe's obvious "ill-intentioned" overtures, she refused one by one, and those who could be withdrawn were all withdrawn, and those who could not be returned were all converted into cash and returned.
However, it seems that Xi Zhe did not perceive her resistance attitude, or as always, he did not want to pay attention to him, thinking that it would be better to wait for the heat to pass.
But until her birthday, Xi Zhe took the initiative to come to her after hearing it, and it was not good to turn people away from her, so she invited him to have a meal with other friends, but xi Zhe said to others that he was Xi Xi's boyfriend, which made Xi Zhe disgusted, directly blocked him, and cut off contact with him from then on.
In fact, in many details in the past, Xi Xi has repeatedly expressed his attitude with Xi Zhe, but the other party pretends not to see, and wants to use his "dead skin lai face" to win xi Xi's happiness, and in the end it will only backfire.
In life, it seems that there are always many men who like to "tickle" women, but every time you can get a response, it is because the other party is also interested in you.
In the eyes of a woman who doesn't have any other feelings for you, each of your "strokes" will look extra greasy and will constantly reduce your impression in her mind.
So sometimes, men should know how to stop at the right time, when your tentative "plucking" does not get the desired feedback, do not continue, otherwise it will only affect the relationship between each other and further deteriorate.
Love needs to be pursued bravely, but to use the right method, if women do not feel anything about you, all your pursuits, just to satisfy their inner desires, is not what the other party wants, but will also bring unnecessary burdens and pressures to them.
Time is a good medicine, it will precipitate the most beautiful feelings, but also take away the unreachable feelings.
Some emotions are doomed to end here, and they can't go any further with each other, and at present, it is the best degree, and it is also the most comfortable degree for everyone.
And some emotions, maybe for a while and a half will not be reflected, but over time, you will find that like fine wine, the longer the time, the more mellow the fragrance, which is what we should pursue.
Not loving, like love, are the two most normal emotions of human beings, and the other person does not love you, not because you are not good, but it may just happen that you are not in the range of lovers she wants.
Just as bread is salty or sweet, some people prefer sweet, and some people prefer salty, but this has nothing to do with the bread itself.
So don't easily deny yourself because the other person doesn't love, but believe that no matter what, in this world, you are unique.