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In ancient times, King You of Zhou "played the princes of beacon fire" for women, King Chu committed suicide in Wujiang because of Yu Ji, and Chen Shubao died because of Zhang Lihua... There are many examples that tell us that in fact, men will not invest less than women in emotional matters.
We always say that men are more rational and will not give up their careers for women easily. But from these emperors in ancient times, we can see that in fact, this statement is somewhat one-sided. In other words, in reality, there will also be some men who give up their jobs, careers and even their hometowns for love, just to stay with the woman they love.
Therefore, everything is not absolute. Everything has two sides to it. Women can moth fire for love, and men are equally likely to fight for love.
In fact, if a man is emotional and emotional about the woman he likes, it is very rare, and his performance will also make people look sideways.
However, love is a two-way thing, not that men themselves have to accept emotions that women have to accept. On the contrary, a smart woman will rationally look at a man's feelings for herself, and only if a man's performance can also make a woman emotional, she will accept him.
Otherwise, those men who will only stalk will also chase a woman in the name of liking and loving, but that kind of performance is different from a man who really loves this woman.
So, what is the manifestation of a man's emotional emotion? And listen to a woman who is married for a long time and is very affectionate to talk about her experience.
First of all, to judge whether a man is emotional about himself, it is not to see how sweet he talks or how he dedicates himself, but to see how rationally he makes his feelings play to the most appropriate point.
For example, if a man is really moved, wants to contact her at any time, and wants to see her all the time, it is normal. But if he always pays attention to such a meeting, or even neglects to work, then he is irrational.
Immature and irrational men, even if they are good, can not marry. Because passion is impulsive, after the impulse, you have to face a lot of reality. If a man can't even plan his own future, how can he design the future of two people?
If a man really loves this woman, he will think of his and her future paths. Work while you're at work, and after work, think about being with her. However, during working hours, he may also message her in some resting space to let her know that he is always thinking of her and taking her to heart.
This is also the practice of a mature man. In fact, such a practice is more likely to win the favor of women. It is said that men who work hard and work hard are the most handsome, and women will also like a self-motivated man.
Secondly, when a man is emotional about a woman, he will see her as his own woman, and he will want to share everything with her, whether it is in life or at work.
This kind of sharing is not a firm and complaining about everything, but it will be selective. This choice is a wisdom of a man, and it is also a criterion for smart women to judge whether a man is unreliable.
For example, men tell you everything, whether it's good or bad. His intention may be to hide nothing from you, a sign of honesty. However, women will judge from these sharing what kind of personality a man is, and thus give their choices to the next range.
If a man only shares interesting things about his work or life with you, it means that he is an optimistic person; if he shares more about how to make work go further and make life better, it means that this person is a person with ideals and goals; if he only picks the side of frustration, or how he is wronged, it means that this man is not a drop.
Therefore, the performance of men after the heartbeat, women will also look at it with her own unique eyes. Of course, many times, it may be difficult for a woman to be rational, because if she also loves this man, it is difficult for her to master this degree when she is initially in love.
Only a smart and rational woman will judge and measure whether the man really loves himself and whether he is really suitable for himself in the performance of a man.
Often, feelings and marriages that go through such a process will last longer than the average person.