After Xue Baochao lost the election, why did he joke about Daiyu's marriage? It turned out to be very meaningful
Xue Baochao had joked about Daiyu's marriage twice, once in the twenty-fifth dream of the Red Chamber, when Jia Yuanchun had not yet given gifts for the Dragon Boat Festival, and for the time being, he thought that Baochao had not yet been elected. Another time is that after Baochao lost the election, the fifty-seventh time in the Dream of the Red Chamber, when Baochao and his mother Aunt Xue visited Daiyu at Xiaoxiang Hall, Baochao joked about Daiyu's marriage during the frolic, and said that Daiyu could not recognize Aunt Xue as a dry mother, the reason let Daiyu think for herself, among which Baochao mentioned her brother Xue Pan.
So after Xue Baochao lost the election, why did he joke about Daiyu's marriage? It turned out to be very meaningful.
First, Xue Pan fell in love with Daiyu at first sight, and Aunt Xue did not dare to propose to Jia Mu.
Needless to say, Xue Pan alone was very busy than everyone else: he was afraid that Aunt Xue would be squeezed down, he was afraid that Xue Baochao would be seen, and he was afraid that Xiangling would be embarrassed by others, and he knew that Jia Zhen and others were doing kung fu on women, so they were too busy. Suddenly, I caught a glimpse of Lin Daiyu's graceful demeanor, and she had already collapsed there.
It can be seen from this that Xue Pan was shocked by Daiyu's beauty and fell in love with Daiyu at first sight. According to Xue Pan's personality, as long as it was what he liked or what he wanted, there was almost nothing he couldn't do, but only in the matter of Daiyu, he had hit a nail.
First of all, the mother Aunt Xue did not approve, the reason is very simple, Dai Yu is Jia Mu's most beloved granddaughter, grew up with Bao Yu from childhood, the house knows that Bao Dai's relationship is intimate, I believe that Aunt Xue also knows, coupled with the son Xue Pan is not contentious, and fell into a bad reputation of a dumb bully, even if Aunt Xue herself proposes to Jia Mu, Jia Mu will not agree, not to mention that Aunt Xue who temporarily lives in Jia Province is not willing to offend Jia Mu because of her daughter's marriage considerations, so this matter was shelved.
I believe that Bao Chao knows about this matter, even she knows that Jia Mu will not give Dai Yu xu to her brother Xue Pan, but she still took the opportunity to joke in the fifty-seventh time of the Dream of the Red Chamber to say what her mother wanted to say, but at this time, Dai Yu will not care about Bao Chao's words, she likes Bao Yu, and there will be no other person in her heart, let alone Xue Pan, the bad reputation of the Dumb Bully.
Second, Xue Baochao joked about Daiyu's marriage and said what his mother did not dare to say.
Dai Yu smiled, "Since my aunt said so, I will recognize my aunt as my mother tomorrow, and if my aunt abandons her suspicions and does not recognize it, she will pretend to hurt me." Aunt Xue said, "You don't hate me, just admit it." Bao Chao said busily, "I don't recognize it!" Dai Yu said, "How can I not recognize it?" Bao Chao smiled and asked, "And I ask you, my brother has not yet decided on a family affair, why did he say that Sister Xing was with my brother first, what is the reason?" Dai Yu said, "He is not at home, or his birthday is not right, so let's talk about brothers first." Bao Chao smiled and said, "Non-also." My brother has already agreed, just wait for the family to make up his mind, there is no need to propose people, I just said you don't recognize the mother, you want to go carefully. As he spoke, he and his mother squeezed their eyes and laughed.
Bao Chao was very bold in this time, although it was a joke, she said something that her mother, Aunt Xue, did not dare to say. Bao Chao did not lie, Xue Pan did fall in love with Dai Yu at first sight, and was shocked by Dai Yu's beauty. In private, Xue Pan should have asked her mother Aunt Xue for this matter, originally Aunt Xue doted on her son Xue Pan, and she would try to meet her son's requirements, but in this matter she did not promise her son, but let her son die.
The reason is very simple, Aunt Xue brought her child to Rong Guo Mansion originally to temporarily live in a relative's house and be busy with the matter of her daughter Baochao waiting to be elected. Later, Bao Chao entered the palace to be elected, and after Bao Chao was defeated, Aunt Xue intended to use Jin Yu Liangyuan to promote the marriage between Bao Yu and Bao Chao, because Jia Mu loved Dai Yu and intended to cultivate Bao Dai's feelings, and Aunt Xue had to continue to live with her children to wait for the success of Jin Yu Liangyuan.
During this period, Xue Pan occasionally glimpsed Daiyu, was shocked by her beauty, fell in love with Daiyu at first sight, and insisted on marrying her. In this case, even if Aunt Xue loved her son very much, she could not risk proposing to Jia Mu. In particular, the fact that Zi Juan tempted Baoyu was well known to everyone in the house, and Aunt Xue did not dare to mention Xue Pan's words, but deliberately released a promise of full edges in Xiaoxiang Hall to reassure Daiyu.
What Dai Yu did not expect was that there were so many secrets in Bao Chao's jokes, if she knew that she would be scared out of cold sweat, after all, Xue Pan's reputation was outside, Dai Yu would definitely not be willing to provoke such a person and ruin his reputation, not to mention that Dai Yu only had Bao Yu in her heart, and she could no longer tolerate others.
Dai Yu wants to recognize Aunt Xue as a dry mother, but also strives to find a master of marriage for her marriage, after all, ancient marriage needs the fate of her parents, and the free love between Dai Yu and Bao Yu will not be allowed and accepted by the society at that time, so Dai Yu wants to find a dry mother for herself to marry her.
Who would have thought that Bao Chao would take this opportunity to joke about Daiyu's marriage, and also pull out xue pan, the bully king, and say what his mother, Aunt Xue, did not dare to say. It's just that Bao Chao dared to say it again, and Aunt Xue didn't dare to mention this family affair for her son, but directly said her thoughts to Daiyu's face.
Aunt Xue was busy and also laughed and persuaded, and separated the square with her hands. Yin then said to Baochao, "Even Daughter Xing, I was afraid that your brother would be trampled on by him, so I told your brother." Don't talk about this child, I won't give him a chance.
In this passage, Aunt Xue's words are a little strange, even if she really proposes to Jia Mu, Jia Mu will not agree, so she is very self-aware and directly takes these words away.
It can be seen that Xue Pan's love for Daiyu at first sight made Aunt Xue very embarrassed, she would not allow her son to have these strange thoughts, and she herself did not dare to propose to Jia Mu for her son. For Aunt Xue, the most important thing in front of her is not her son's marriage, but the marriage of her daughter Baochao, and the good fortune of Jinyu is also something that Aunt Xue is not willing to give up, and she is not willing to delay her daughter's happiness because of her son's affairs. Coupled with Jia Mu's attitude towards Bao Dai's marriage, Aunt Xue did not dare to mention this matter, but Xue Baochao mentioned his brother's idea through playful jokes and said what his mother wanted to say, but these were also in vain, Jia Mu would not marry Dai Yu to a dumb bully like Xue Pan, and Bao Yu would not allow it.
I am Xiao Meng, telling you the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
Reference works: Cao Xueqin, Fat Yanzhai commentary on "Dream of the Red Chamber" Fat Collection