Introduction: Speaking of confinement, it must be a postpartum life that many pregnant mothers do not want to face, because there are too many troublesome things in this process. So when moms talk about their confinement, they like to use the word "boiling" to describe their experiences, which will indeed make many mothers resist this and feel anxious about the upcoming things.
So as a person who has come over, what kind of experience do you have when you are confinement? In the face of various problems that may occur, how did you survive the 40 days of confinement? Among them, what things have everyone experienced, let's share the sweet and sour in your month?
Here, Xiaobian will talk to you about the profound experience he experienced during confinement:
1, can not wash your hair frequently
Before I started confinement, I heard many people say that confinement can't wash your hair frequently, and even some people really abide by the custom of not washing your hair for a month. But for a person who has to wash his hair every day, how can he not wash his hair for so many days, which is how uncomfortable, but really to the time of his confinement, he can only force himself to wash his hair less, as much as possible to wash it every two days, the oil is definitely oil.
2. The wound hurts
Even if it is a smooth birth, it also carries the injury of the side cut, although it is not as large as the caesarean section, but the few days when the knife edge below has not been restored are really painful, the legs cannot be opened, and they do not dare to move randomly. After that, the wound in the back slowly grew better, so that it was not so uncomfortable, and then it began to move slowly.
3. Breastfeed every day
It was still very touching when I first started feeding, but after two days it was no longer like this, and it was really painful to feed the nipples so many times a day, and there was a possibility of cracking, which was simply a handful of blood and tears. And because there is more milk, there is also a lot of milk blockage, in order to feed the baby every night to maintain a fixed feeding frequency, there is no continuous rest time.
4. Extra long "menstrual period"
Many mothers may feel that it is really comfortable to have no menstrual period in the ten months of pregnancy, but who can consider that after giving birth to a child, they have to endure such a long "menstrual period" of this month, and this is the process of uterine lochia. Every day, you need to put on a nursing pad, but also to observe the lochia situation, afraid that you will not recover well, which is really troublesome during this period.
5, stay at home for a month can not go anywhere
During the confinement period, I basically never went out, and I always stayed indoors, which was really boring and boring for more than a month. All day long with the baby, feeding, this kind of life is as if they are trapped, it is easy to lose the affirmation of the meaning of life, will fall into a serious self-doubt dilemma, very affecting the daily mood.
Of course, in the process of confinement is not only this difficult experience, although there will be painful feelings in the process, but for the sake of their own health and the growth of the baby, although we hate and resist, we will also try to do a good job. Moreover, during this period, there are also many things that can make my mother feel happy:
1, the people around the meticulous care
During the confinement period, my husband was also accompanied, and he basically did a lot of things that he could do for me, so that I could rest well, in addition to breastfeeding, many things with babies were done by my husband. Such as changing diapers, sleeping, getting dressed, etc., in terms of taking care of the baby, I did not maintain a special worry throughout the confinement period.
2, confinement center confinement, escaping a lot of unnecessary traditional customs
Before having a baby, I decided not to confinement at home, but spent money to go to the local well-known confinement center to confinement, so there was a better dietary arrangement, and I didn't have to eat a chicken, pig's foot and other things every day like other mothers. The diet during the confinement period is relatively rich and the taste is very good, which is a rare and beautiful experience.
Important note: There are indeed a lot of troublesome things during confinement, such as daily washing of hair can not be so frequent, daily breastfeeding work is also very painful and uncomfortable, there are lateral incision wound pain troubles, lochia discharge of ultra-long "menstruation", a long time can not go out, but there are people around the care and confinement center confinement, but also let themselves have a lot of relaxed moments.
Today's topic: During confinement, what is the most uncomfortable thing for you? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.