Breastfeeding mothers will have a lot of fun in the process of breastfeeding, but also will generate a lot of questions about breastfeeding and puzzlement about the baby's various behaviors. For example, some babies like to put their hands on any part of their mother's body while feeding, as long as the hand can get it; some babies are even more strange, while feeding and pushing the mother away, so that the mother is simply confused: what do you want to do, do you want to suckle or don't want to suckle?
It can be said that almost no baby in breastfed babies does not like breast milk, but why does the baby push the mother while feeding?
Is there any special significance?
Of course!
First, this is the baby expressing "love" to the mother
In fact, the baby really loves his mother very much, and he wants to express his love for his mother all the time, so although his mother sometimes scolds him angrily and dislikes him, the baby will smile at his mother as always.
When the baby is still young, through every breastfeeding, the relationship between himself and his mother will deepen in every intimate contact.
When the baby is three or four months later, when feeding is not as serious as when it is one or two months, as long as the baby is not too hungry, when eating milk, he will make various small actions, such as smiling at the mother while eating, or touching the mother's body, or in a fixed place, sometimes pushing the mother, this is because the baby does not know what the action of "pushing" means, he only feels that this is interacting with the mother, expressing his love to the mother.
If the baby does not have any other bad emotions or actions, the mother does not need to worry too much, the baby just wants to attract the attention of the mother, he wants the mother to know that he loves the mother.
Second, it has been a long time since I met the baby
When the baby is fierce for a long time, it will suddenly "become bad", become crying, become fond of feeding, become not like to sleep or sleep easily wake up, become grumpy.
In fact, the baby will appear in these situations, mainly because in the long term, the baby's growth rate will accelerate, the amount of milk needed will increase, sleep will also regress, and because of the acceleration of growth, the baby will also have growth pain.
Not enough milk to eat, sleep badly, it will hurt, so it will be so irritable, when eating milk, there will be a look of disgust, and will push the mother away, but in the end it is reluctant to do so, so it is repeated.
When there is no experience, it is really confused, and I can't guess why the baby is!
【Lazy mother suggestion】 The number of times the baby's fierce long-term appearance in the first year of birth is still quite large, which is 7-10 days after the baby is born, 2 to 3 weeks after birth, 4 to 6 weeks after birth, about 3 months of the baby, 6 months of the baby, 8 months of the baby, and 12 months of the baby.
In the fierce long-term baby is indeed more irritable, the reason is the above, so the mothers will have to work hard for a few days, the baby's fierce long-term will generally last 3 to 5 days, in these days the mother should feed more, eat more food that can increase milk, with the baby's growth needs, and to properly soothe the baby, help the baby to spend every fierce long-term, seize every opportunity for rapid growth.
This situation lazy mother has encountered several times, at first do not know what the reason is, and then suddenly remembered that it seems to be the baby suddenly appeared when it was long-term, although it was hindsight, but it was better than not knowing, at least after knowing these days, the baby grew a lot.
Third, the baby is indeed pushing the mother away
In fact, when we are breastfeeding, there will indeed be many situations that we may not imagine, but these situations will cause the baby to be uncomfortable, and then the baby wants to refuse, and because he can't speak, he can only express his thoughts by crying or directly pushing the mother away.
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The mother's chest is relatively large or the clothes are too loose, it is easy to cover the baby's nostrils when feeding, so that the baby cannot breathe; the posture of the mother holding the baby is not right, resulting in the baby feeling uncomfortable or not easy to connect when feeding, and the mother wants to change a more comfortable position; when coming to the milk array, the milk is too much and too urgent, the baby is too late to swallow, in order to avoid choking, the baby will also "save itself" and push the mother away.
In short, when the baby is uncomfortable, he will "remind" the mother.
【Lazy mother suggestion】There are four kinds of feeding postures, namely crossed, olive, cradle, side lying, when feeding the baby, try to choose a position where the baby and the mother are more comfortable.
When feeding, babies and mothers should be chest to chest, belly to belly, and jaw to breast. Room, nose sticker. The head, baby's ears, shoulders and hips are in a line, and make sure that the baby can hold the whole breast while feeding. dizzy.
Moreover, when feeding, we should also pay attention to the safety of the baby to avoid the baby's nose being pressed and affecting breathing.
When the baby grows up a little, in fact, there are already some careful thoughts, in the feeding time will increase a lot of small actions, of course, the baby can have any bad ideas, the big deal is that the mother wants to look at herself a few times when breastfeeding, brush her own sense of existence, and meet the baby.
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