Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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What is the beautiful and romantic vow of the mountain without edges and the earth to dare to be with the king?
When men and women are in love, they want to be together for 24 hours. But once you don't love, being able to be an enemy is already the best good to scatter.
The change of love just interprets "the only constant in the world is change" to the extreme.
In the interaction between men and women, based on rational and realistic considerations, fickle people are not necessarily too ruthless, but they know better, which is more important, love and survival.
Just in the face of feelings, too realistic to accompany the rational people, all of them are demons that make amorous people doomed.
When you are in love, you and I, earburns, and when you decide to give up, it is so natural to never take the initiative to break the connection. People who still love deeply, repeatedly ask whether they still love or not, can they go back to the past, how self-deceitful and extravagant should this be?
A doomed one-man show, don't be delusional about who will cooperate with your performance!
Some people are like this, they come without your consent, and when they leave, they don't even give you a decent farewell ceremony.
In real life, what is cruel is not feelings, but the human heart and human nature. When reality takes off the mask of the human heart and human nature and reveals the ugliness, no matter how deeply rooted you are, the people who should withdraw from your world still do not stay for a moment.
When the person you love deeply no longer takes the initiative for you, or even breaks off contact with you, learn to be a "fierce" person! Doing this is really good for you, believe it or not:
1: Be ruthless and keep yourself from reminiscing
What kind of people suffer the most?
Come to think of it, the most painful person is the person who is already a mess at the moment, but he still has to use the relative beauty of the past to add to the current blockage.
Did you find out? The more you compare the relative good of the past with the bad of the present, the harder it is for you to achieve satisfaction and happiness?
When you and your loved ones have already been doomed to an ending, and you have never achieved the desired ending before this, then you need to do nothing more than the following two things:
Keep yourself busy
When people are busy, they will only focus on the things at hand and will not be disturbed by too many objective things. The good and the bad will become nothing when you focus on what you are doing. And you, at that moment, really gained spiritual relaxation.
Don't think about it
After experiencing the past, you will not forget it at once, but in the transition period, your deliberate thought is the cause that makes you fall into the abyss. When you affect your current mood because of the past, immediately force yourself not to think about it.
Do you believe that human habits can be established by their own "harsh restraint" on themselves.
Don't say you can't do it without memories, you can't do it because you're not hard enough on yourself. When you can be yourself, you are indestructible!
2: Give up fiercely
Some people obviously know that the relationship is already a person's obsession, or there is no way to get out of that relationship, but the more the other party does not take the initiative, the more disconnected, the more unwilling and aggrieved they are.
Even, in the face of the desperation of the person who was once there, he will try everything to save it, but in the end he will become the most annoying disturber of the other party.
When a relationship has become a thing of the past, don't let go of self-consumption anymore. More often, your reluctance and still love are because of the emotions brought to you by your grievances and unwillingness.
If you can't overcome this emotion, you can only ask for your own suffering.
A person, how cruel to himself, he will harvest a better self, on the right way forward in life to meet the right person. The dispersal of the people at the end of the song is a foregone conclusion, and the result of clinging to it is nothing more than colluding with the desperate person and making himself more and more miserable.
The last emotion a person should have is to forcibly hang himself in vain on a person who has no nostalgia for himself, and the wishful paranoia and deep love are nothing more than the person who leaves the indescribable annoyance with himself.
By giving up that relationship, you can truly get rid of yourself and live like you are truly relaxed!
3: Achieve yourself with a fierce heart
Some people, after experiencing emotional failures, begin to stagnate and give up on themselves. As everyone knows, this state of self-abandonment is precisely the reason why that person thinks that his departure is the right choice.
The hardest thing for a person to do is to transform himself. In particular, when faced with emotional frustration, it is clear that everything is understood, that is, willing to immerse themselves in pain and unwilling to take this step of transformation.
Why let you transform and achieve yourself?
Your life is your own, you are depraved, you are decadent, you are unbearable, it will only make yourself more and more degenerate, and only those who leave you will be more proud.
You have transformed yourself, you have achieved yourself, and what you have gained is the excitement of your own life, including the right person in your future. It will also make the people who left you regret not being in the beginning.
When you don't have any value, everyone leaves you, when you become a strong person, anyone is dispensable to you, but you have great attraction to others.
Be diligent in your achievements, you can always let who to come and who to let go in the way you like!
Face the past, fiercely forget, face the past people, fiercely heart the present, face yourself, fiercely self-achievement.
No matter how unwilling and aggrieved you are, don't be a mourner in the past.
It's not how much you love that person, that person has to be unable to leave you. This kind of thinking of yours is a kind of moral kidnapping that you think is deserved.
Man is always free, but you yourself are willing to be imprisoned by the past.
When the person you love deeply and you no longer take the initiative until the disconnection is broken, you just have to do yourself, the person who really loves you will not leave you, and the person who decides to leave you will not turn back no matter how hard he pulls.
Everyone has a pocket, and you have what you fill it with. In the choice of pain and luck, if you can't pour out the pain with a cruel heart, luck can't fit in.
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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