Many times, we often hear a sentence: I want to change, I want to change. But after a while, you find that you haven't changed, and you even make yourself think what's wrong? Why is that?
There are many, many moments in life that want to change, every impulse change is often what obstacle you have encountered, when this obstacle is encountered by yourself, at that moment you will find yourself really falling into it, you really find yourself useless, you really feel that you can do this? Be sure to work hard to change yourself.
At that time, the impulsive consciousness at that moment was very good, but after a few days, it was not strong, it was not good, just like the ball was deflated, and suddenly it could not lift the spirit. At that moment, I found that I was out of tune, and I found that I couldn't do this. What is life? Life is the need to keep forging ahead, keep making progress, and keep making progress. Only when you are self-motivated every day will you find yourself gradually changing.
Then in the matter of change, we first need to determine that our thinking has changed, and only when our thinking changes, the state of the whole person will change. How do you change your thinking?
The first point: I can change. When a person feels that he can change, then there will be a change, even an earth-shaking change, and once the seed of change is planted, it will take root and sprout in the time of every day, and he will feel that he must change his appearance.
I can change is a kind of confidence in myself, this confidence is unconditional, it is a kind of self-confirmation of self, and I believe that I can change. This is an internal driving force, an auto-ignition force.
Second point: I am willing to change. Whether a person is willing to change or not involves active and passive choices, some people take the initiative to change, and some people passively produce change. In the middle of active and passive, there will be a trade-off, and there will also be a fluctuation of thinking.
When I am willing to change, I have accepted everything that comes next, and everything that is worth doing next. For my willingness is a kind of heart, and it is also a kind of wish. Under the premise of the heart and the wish, what is given to oneself is a sense of confirmation, and it is firmly believed that one can change.
Third point: I should change now. Many people's changes are not immediate, it can be said to be a kind of delay. That is to say, I want to change, and I am willing to change. But give yourself a date: for example, tomorrow will start to change, such as next week, such as next year. But what he didn't know was that it could be changed now.
Many people will hesitate to resign without resigning? In fact, whether you want to resign or not, when you have this idea, then you can directly submit your resignation. If you don't move this thought, then basically you won't say resign.
What is the environment of life? It's reality. Each of us will face such a reality. How to find one's own place in reality is a very test of one's character. As long as a person's character is good, then what is brought to himself is a harvest.
What does a person pursue? The pursuit is their own future, the pursuit of their own expectations, the pursuit of their own dreams. How can it change? Right now, right now, right now. If you want to change, change now. For example, now go to a book, now go for a run, now go on the phone with a friend, now go to make a strange friend.