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Life is very long, we will go to different cities, live different lives, meet different people.
Before I saw society, everyone was like a blank piece of paper, who could truly give love. However, as an adult, you slowly find that you don't have to invite everyone into your life.
The real right feelings, getting along with each other must be full of energy, you can feel satisfied and comfortable. However, the existence of some people brings harm and attrition. All you give, in the end, only disappointment.
The human heart is complex and difficult to guess, but time is the best proof, it allows you to distinguish which people are worth approaching and who should be vigilant.
Most of these two kinds of people are good and evil, and the farther away the better.
01: People with strong jealousy
In the book "How to Build Good Relationship", it is written: "Human popularity is like an echo, what you send out, it will send back, what you sow, you will reap." ”
Whether a person can have deep friendship or not depends on the essence of the other party's heart, if you can sincerely communicate with the people around you, you can calmly accept that others are better than yourself, and people who can do this can establish a more intimate relationship.
The energy between people must be conserved, and what you give away, you will get.
In our lives, some people are too jealous, and when they see that your career is getting smoother and smoother, they begin to have crooked thoughts. If you are colleagues with good feelings, then the other party will definitely take some improper behavior, just to alleviate the dissatisfaction in your heart.
People with strong jealousy, when they get along with you, will not directly expose their own thoughts, and will even be very kind and gentle to you. But in fact, the other party is a typical smiling tiger, and I hope you fall very badly.
If you don't know how to judge, or continue to dig your heart and lungs with such people, then you will eventually suffer losses.
Yuan Yuan in the TV series "Flowing Golden Years" is a very jealous woman, she and her ex-boyfriend have been separated for many years, and when they know that the other party already has a girlfriend, they still go to the place where the boy works to find him.
When Yuan Yuan saw her ex-boyfriend's girlfriend Jiang Nansun, she acted very gentle and did not hurt at all. But in fact, she was very jealous of the other party.
Her purpose is not just to find a job, but more to destroy their feelings.
However, Jiang Nansun was not deceived by her disguise, but saw her true inner person, and finally chose to communicate frankly with the other party, with an unusually firm attitude, so that the girl had no chance to hurt her feelings.
People with strong jealousy are mostly good and evil, no matter what kind of relationship you have, remember to be as far away as possible, otherwise it is easy to be hurt.
02: Desire trumps all others
Master Koichi said: Man is born of indifference and defeated by greed.
People who have too much desire in their hearts cannot feel truly beautiful feelings. Be especially careful with such a person, maybe when you have use value, he will be very attentive to you, but once you exist, no longer help him in any way, he will treat you in a different way.
If you have real feelings for this, and believe again and again that the other party is not a person of poor character, your soft heart will only make yourself suffer losses often.
Some people simply cannot control their greed, and even blood relatives will show indifference when it comes to interests.
The ancients said: "Friends know each other, you know each other; friends know each other, you know your heart." ”
When you meet someone who takes desire as a belief, remember to stay away. Their minds are generally not simple, and what they do is usually harmful to others and self-interest, and they never give their hearts.
Each of us has desires and strives for a better life, but we must not do whatever it takes. A person's character is far more important than external material conditions.
People who have too strong greed in their hearts do not understand what gratitude is, so they must stay away when encountered in order to avoid being used and hurt.
No matter how powerful a person is and how bright he lives, if he always puts his interests first, then get along with such a person, you must keep a little more heart, otherwise it is yourself who suffers losses.
People who have no bottom line think about how to calculate others everywhere, and treat people very hypocritically. Even if you have a good relationship, you must learn to re-examine this relationship, and it is wisest to stay away.
The above two kinds of people, on the surface, look very good to you, very simple, but in fact, a stomach and a flower intestine, rather than foolishly put too much sincerity, it is better to stop the loss in time, so as not to be bullied one day and be hurt.
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