Demystify the routine of the emotional course: After reading this article, save tens of thousands of course fees.
Now knowledge payment is very popular, and emotional courses on the Internet are also very popular. But what everyone doesn't know is that there are very few originals, most of them are mixed with knowledge in several books to make copywriting, and then find handsome men and beautiful women to read out in front of the camera, dozens of dollars of books, made into hundreds of courses, sold tens of thousands of copies.
The following is a list of books that you can systematically learn about gender relations, collect them and read them slowly, and you can also become an emotional mentor.
The Five Languages of Love, Gary Chapman
1. Love is not a record of mistakes; love is not about past failures.
2. You are my spouse and we are going to move forward together.
3. When you make a request to your spouse, you are affirming their value and ability.
"Know Love" McGee-joo / Huang Huanxiang
1. The degree of expectation is related to the degree of intimacy, and the greater the expectation, the more special the other party is.
2. Accepting the differences of others without compromising can create harmony.
3. When you genuinely care for others, even if you feel pain because of it, you will not ignore the other person's feelings or experiences.
"Intimate Relationships" by Roland Miller/Daniel Pollmann
1. Confirmation of a partner, i.e. acknowledging the legitimacy of their views and showing respect for their position, has always been a worthwhile goal in intimate interactions.
2. Men focus on looks and women focus on resources, but both expect partners to be friendly, easy-going, cute, and kind.
3. Partners can be together longer if they can have fun together.
"Practicing in Love" is plain black
1. Love, do not commit to life or death.
2. Everyone has blind spots, and the large blind spots are the blind spots that maintain their own blind spots and deny others.
3. There are no pure and flawless saints in love, because we are all just ordinary people.
Evolutionary Psychology D.M. Bass
1. Commitment is seen as a central part of love
2. Higher organisms are also carriers of basal yin.
3. Evolution is not fate, people can change themselves.
Watching the course is passive absorption, and the brain thinks less. Reading is active reading, and the brain has to keep working. For you who love to learn, in fact, the effect of reading is far better than watching the course.
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