Sayings：
I really like Xu Mengtao too much. It's not because she won the championship yesterday, it's that she's really cute —
Her first world champion was on February 14, 2009;
The first Olympic medal was on February 14, 2014;
Chinese won the gold medal for the first time in the women's aerial skills field of freestyle skiing, just yesterday, February 14.
So Xu Mengtao said loudly that the wedding anniversary will also be this day, and it will be this day to have a child.
Okay, we unilaterally announce that February 14 is Xu Mengtao's big day.
(Circle of friends after Xu Mengtao won the championship)
Such a lovely Xu Mengtao, this year has been 32 years old. 20 years of youth, 4 Olympic Games, 14 seasons, 70 World Cups, and now finally realize the dream, it is not easy.
No wonder some netizens said, "This gold medal is probably the one we cry the hardest." In her, we saw ourselves chasing dreams.
We talked to her about her experiences over the years. After the conversation, I finally understood her mood of repeatedly asking "Am I the first" yesterday.
In the ups and downs of life, I have to say a word of admiration for being able to maintain a beautiful mentality and go to the field.
At the 2018 Winter Olympics in Pyeongchang, she told the world, "If I don't win the gold medal, I will retire."
As a result, he flipped down from such a high place and fell directly into the rehabilitation center. The meniscus of the knee, 70% of which is cut off, and there are two nails in the left knee, as long as you walk, it feels like two bones are rubbing.
Coming out of the operating room, Xu Mengtao has been crying, and she has thought about it like this, retire. But as soon as she saw the snow spreading over the mountains, she couldn't take her eyes off again.
"Why not? I don't want 20 years of struggle and perseverance because of the defeat in Pyeongchang. ”
"I think I'm the best."
——Xu Mengtao did not spend her strength on competing with herself and internal friction, she resolutely returned to the training ground, even if her legs hurt unbearably, she still enjoyed the pleasure of each landing.
She told me, "Life doesn't have to win, but as long as you don't give up, you won't lose." ”
I was very touched. Many times, we always feel "tired", in fact, more is the mental internal friction makes people tired. Repeatedly entangled with the voices of the outside world, and anxious for a result, in the end it consumed the spirit of the spirit, and the strength to take another step forward was gone.
But people like Xu Mengtao, they are typical anti-internal friction youth, characterized by 4 words: dry and finished. This firm attitude is more worthy of our envy than winning the result.
I also chatted with some anti-internal friction gods around me. I wish you read their stories and gain this "free and firm" power.
Anti-internal consumption of the gods' self-statements
Readers from the New World
In my sophomore year, I saw an artist audition advertisement from a brokerage company. After sending the photos and documents, I was quickly notified of the interview.
As a medical student, studying is really stressful. A large number of exams are piled up, and they have to be stationed in the study room to endorse the questions and rotate the shafts.
When my dorm classmates heard that I was going to Beijing to "draft", they thought I was joking and teasing me: Gou rich and noble, don't forget each other.
I took a copy of "Pathophysiology" and went to Beijing while reviewing it on the train.
I wanted to be an "actor" when I was very young, and my family was not rich and did not take this road. I still like to "act" and often "act" in front of the mirror.
I like Ni Dahong, when "All Is Good" hit, lying on the ground imitating Su Daqiang shouting "I want to drink hand-ground coffee".
So this time I want to try it, what if the dream comes true?
At the interview site, the examiner asked me to perform "Regret". As soon as I mobilized my emotions, I forgot about the interviewer in front of me, naturally cried, and said the line: It's all my fault...
Investing in the role makes me feel very happy and has a special sense of mission: the life story of this character is up to me to present.
(Announcement board at the interview site)
In the end, I didn't sign a contract with the company. Now that I think about it, my performance is actually not so good.
But the heart is like the surface of the sea after experiencing a storm, very calm. Any ending of a plot can have big or small regrets. The most wonderful episodes must be the process of the protagonist's brave struggle.
I tried. On this crazy and interesting journey, I am the "protagonist".
I am a boy who loves to play games, determined to devote himself to the game industry and make the best domestic games.
So I aimed at some of the best universities in China to study animation design. Unfortunately, my art school exams were broken.
My parents firmly opposed my re-reading, saying: It is enough to have a university.
But I don't think so. In order to prove my determination, I handed in the white paper for the college entrance examination and left early. The teachers I knew outside the exam room were stupid to see me.
The second year was bumpy. I briefly lost my "sense of color" before the exam: I was gray in front of my eyes, and I felt "dirty" when I looked at the white paper, and I couldn't colorize and paint at all.
But I know how much I have improved my painting skills, and I have always comforted myself: it is okay, this time it will be successful.
Just like this to the end, the whole process of the exam felt very smooth and good.
For the online exam, I swiped the screen after sealing the papers, saw other candidates who were not finished, and felt that they were "abusing dishes".
Now, I'm enrolled in the college I would most like to go to in my first year, Zhongchuan. Learn my favorite animation.
Teenagers do not know the sky is high, and "squander" the full opportunity given by the world's generosity -
I can't see the stars at all, and I have to gamble desperately for the sake of the sun in my heart.
I, a 32-year-old North Drifter girl, single and have no money, my parents always urge me to go back to my hometown.
When I was job hopping, I received two offers to calculate my fate. The fortune teller said that the first one was better. I suggest you choose this.
I thought about it for one night and decided to take a second job that I liked better.
- The salary is one-third less, there is no year-end bonus, and there is no salary increase system. But it allows me to continue to do "book publishing" well.
In the past, I did cultural science books, and my colleagues said that this kind of book did not sell well, don't print it.
But I insisted. When making a book, you can't just think about selling well, but also want to bring what you can to the reader.
Later, this book won the "Good Book Award" and was recommended by many popular science museums. When I saw readers commenting "so interesting, increase knowledge", I felt a special sense of accomplishment.
(Reader Comments)
All my thoughts were put into this new job —
In the first few months of his employment, he worked overtime every day, familiarizing himself with the work process during the day and reviewing the manuscript at night; he once left the company at twelve o'clock at night to celebrate his 32nd birthday in a taxi.
Now I can coordinate multiple key book projects at the same time, and the leader directly praised me for "a very mature grasp of book content".
When I picked up the book, I forgot my age, salary, etc.
Maybe a bit cheesy. However, love can really withstand the long years.
【Write at the end】
At this year's Winter Olympics, from the talented girl Gu Ailing to the Olympic veteran Xu Mengtao, each of them was particularly confident and beautiful at the moment they played. It is the moment to stop the internal exertion and make that moment shine.
"Internal friction" will drag you back and make you lose the strength to do what you really want to do.
And when you step on the track of life, there are many opponents and the future is uncertain. I hope you can get your strength back.
No one can start by predicting that they can win.
It is better to take a bold step forward and enjoy every minute and second of the process.
From this moment on, let's block out those entanglements and hesitations.
At least in the beginning, we have to be fearless and beautiful on the field
Written by: Sister A
Intern: Jingyi
Editor-in-Charge: There is money
Vespers Hours:
"I will always be loyal to myself,
Phi Xing Dai Yue ran to the ideal and you"