I believe that the audience who have watched the TV series "Parental Love" have a deep impression of Anjie's distinctive personality, to say that she was born, her origin in that era was very poor, at that time, they were in society, it was the kind that could not lift their heads.
When it comes to gentleness, virtuousness, tenacity and calmness, she is not as good as her sister An Xin, but she is the luckiest person among all.
Anjie in the play really makes people feel lucky and happy, she knows how to advance and retreat and measure up, and she also knows how to cherish blessings.
She is obviously a foreign student who has drunk foreign ink, but she can marry the semi-illiterate Jiang Defu in peace, and while not giving up the pursuit of her rich spiritual world and elegant life style, she can also wash her hands on the stove, carry water, wash clothes, and pull bellows.
It is Anjie's attitude to life when she is subordinate to her that she has a happy life that everyone envies, such a person is very wise, and only a wise person can control this polar life with great contrast between the situation before and after.
Anjie is a person who can turn changes into surprises, and the gangs in life have all been transformed into jade veils by her.
Anjie can be said to be an ideal personality, how many people in reality can be as intelligent and open-minded as her?
Don't say in reality, let's say the original "Parental Love", Anjie in the original, in addition to the name has not changed, and in the TV series, it can be said that it is two completely different people!
Anjie in the TV series is reasonable and beneficial and disciplined in dealing with the world, especially in front of outsiders, understanding the overall situation, leniency and generosity, so that Jiang Defu's face is brightened, and the people who remember Jiang Defu's hometown are all treated by Anjie and warmly.
People from their hometown came to their home, eating and drinking, wearing the clothes that Anjie had made for them, and before leaving, they took away all kinds of gifts in a big bag and a small bag, and mentioned Anjie, relatives of the hometown, who were full of praise!
But in reality, Anjie has such a sense of the overall situation! She is also just an ordinary person, a complaining woman who has been complaining about herself and self-pity after marriage!
Just as the so-called love house and Wu, in the original work, she didn't even look at Jiang Defu, full of dissatisfaction, where is the sincerity and enthusiasm to treat a group of rural relatives of Jiang Defu?
Anjie in the original work has a very poor reputation in Jiang Defu's hometown, and people in his hometown generally mention Anjie as "the fucking ladies of the third uncle!" "There are two reasons for this
Anjie's arrogance
Anjie has never returned to Jiang Defu's hometown in her life, in fact, Anjie has made a show to give Jiang Defu a face, and she should also go back, but she said with a straight face of disgust, "I am not afraid of suffering, but afraid of lice, as soon as I mention lice, I get goosebumps!" Jiang Defu's eldest brother died, Jiang Defu returned to his hometown to mourn, and when he returned, what he got was not Anjie's comfort, but an arrogant and disgusted face, and Anjie leaned on the door to block, so that Jiang Defu could only enter the house after taking a bath and changing clothes outside. Anjie's prejudice against the countryside is deeply rooted.
Anjie's indifference
The old family came to visit relatives vigorously, and the disgust in Anjie's heart can be imagined, so as soon as she saw the relatives in the countryside coming, she always had a pale face, which made Jiang Defu embarrassed, and Jiang Defu quietly said to her: "Can't you laugh in front of them?" Anjie coldly refused: "No! ”
This is the Anjie in the original book, always centered on self-feelings, regardless of the face and feelings of others, far from considering the overall situation.
And the fundamental reason for her is that she is not satisfied with her marriage, and after decades of marriage, she has always been a depressed state of mind in her marriage, which is not what she wants, but her brothers and sisters sacrifice her feelings for their own interests.
And Anjie in the original work, obviously not as open-minded as Anjie in the play, she can't walk out of her sadness for decades, although the children have given birth to a lot, but Anjie's depression and unhappiness can be clearly felt by even her youngest daughter.
The youngest daughter knows that the heart of the mother Anjie is not in the father, nor in this family, but in a place of nothingness, that place is an uneasy place that Anjie can never let go, so Anjie in the original is just a depressed and uneven complaining woman, she is not happy, and the people around her are not happy.
So in comparison, Anjie in the TV series is really too precious, this is a kind of life attitude that knows how to be flexible and compromised, sometimes, when the entourage is with the light, life may have a different hole!