For boys and girls, I believe that parents have such a cognition, girls are their mother's intimate little cotton jacket, is the father's past life little lover, so parents will be more pampered to their daughters; boys are parents' leather jackets, always mischievous at home, everywhere in trouble, let parents their hearts! It can be seen that parents have very different attitudes towards raising boys and girls! The following parents follow me to see, what is the difference between raising a boy and raising a girl?
First, raising boys vs raising girls, the difference is clear at a glance
Dress up
Because boys and girls have different looks, temperaments, and appearance characteristics, they will also be different in dressing. Girls are the little princess in the hearts of parents, parents will choose a variety of princess skirts for girls, tie a variety of different styles and exquisite braids for girls, and match girls with various styles of clothes, in short, no matter how to match, they are very pleasing in the eyes of parents; boys are parents' troublemakers, always able to stir up the home into a miasma, so in dressing, parents are more inclined to choose simple, dirty-resistant clothes, so that boys can play freely and openly.
Hobbies
Families with boys and girls have different interests and hobbies because of different brain development. Girls like delicate and cute toys, so parents will choose Barbie dolls, plush toys, etc. for girls when choosing toys; boys are lively and active by nature, like some dynamic and hot-blooded toys, so parents will tend to choose toys such as Transformers, dinosaurs, and cars when choosing toys for boys.
Communication methods
Girls and boys have different brain development and their logical structures, so the way boys and girls communicate is also different. When girls play with their friends, they like to chat with them to express their inner feelings, which can enhance the friendship between girls; boys' communication methods are simpler and more direct, and the friendship between boys is not like that of girls, there are endless days, they are more inclined to enhance friendship in games or activities.
Family education is the first cradle of children's growth and is crucial to children's future growth. Boys and girls have differences in their growing environments, ways of thinking, and ways of expressing and communicating, so parents should carry out "differentiated" education in the process of education.
Boys vs girls, using different homeschooling methods
"Sunshine" education for boys
Boys need responsibility for their growth. The sense of responsibility is a sense of mission, but also a sense of responsibility, but also an excellent quality. Parents want to cultivate their children's sense of responsibility, parents should teach boys to be responsible for themselves, everything must have a beginning and an end, learn to be responsible for what they do, and if they make mistakes, they should be punished, so as to cultivate boys with a sense of responsibility.
Boys need to be brave in their growth. A brave person will become invincible. For boys, one of the essential qualities in the body is bravery. Brave boys are often welcomed by everyone, and parents want to cultivate the qualities of boys who are brave. First of all, the father in the family should lead by example, spend more time with the boy, play games with the boy, give the child more encouragement in the game, and let the boy become brave; secondly, the parents' love for the boy should be moderate, not spoil the boy; finally, let the boy learn to be independent, the parents no longer "do" everything, let the boy learn to do his own things, when the boy encounters danger and setbacks, can not be weak and withdrawn, to learn to face difficulties and setbacks, only in such an environment will the boy become brave.
Boys need self-confidence to grow up. Confident people are invincible and have confidence in everything they do. Confidence is very important for boys. Parents want to cultivate boys' self-confidence, inseparable from parental encouragement and support. Especially when boys encounter difficulties and setbacks, "hitting education" will make boys stagnant. In addition, in other public places, parents should not criticize and accuse their children in front of others, which will only hurt their children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
Girls are "gracefully" educated
Girls need to be strong to grow. Being strong is an important quality that a girl needs to have. Some girls will be weak, withdrawn, and cry when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. However, this way does not solve the problem, so parents should teach girls to be strong, strong to face life, strong to face the ups and downs of life.
Girls need to be independent in their development. Independent girls can do everything well in life, study and work. Therefore, an important quality that parents need to cultivate girls is independence, parents should give girls a sense of security and care, but refuse to coddle, in ordinary life let girls sort out their own clothes, tidy up their rooms, tidy up their toys and books, and so on.
Girls need self-love to grow. Self-love is an innate "protective umbrella" for girls. Adolescent ignorance makes girls feel good about the opposite sex, curiosity about "sex", mothers can chat with girls about the growth of adolescent girls, mothers should let girls understand, in the relationship with friends of the opposite sex to keep a distance, even if it is a good opposite sex friends are also the same, but also adhere to their own bottom line, no one is allowed to break your bottom line, only in this way, we can get the respect of others. The girl loves herself more, and others will love her more.
There is a difference between raising boys and raising girls, so parents should also have differences in the way of family education, so that boys and girls can better grow and develop.
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