School is about to start, is your baby ready?
This preparation not only includes school supplies, but most importantly, the child's psychological adjustment.
Parents can do a good job before the start of school from several aspects of psychology, life and learning, and the time can also be divided into three stages: buffer period, preparation period and last semester.
Overcome nostalgia and be full of yearning for school
The buffering time is given
The holidays are the happiest time for children, and this year is the first holiday after the double reduction, and the learning burden of many students has been reduced and easier. If you let them adjust to the tense state of school immediately, there will be some discomfort, so before and a few days after the start of school, do not rush to force the child to enter the learning state immediately, but give him a buffer period of about a week to let the child adapt slowly.
Release anxiety
When children hear that school is about to start, some students will have some anxiety, and some will say: they don't want to go to school. This is a normal phenomenon, we adults often have "holiday syndrome", can let them express emotions, generally with the passage of time, emotions will slowly calm down, parents do not care too much.
Don't feel like it's a big deal, correct him right away. Otherwise, this view will be reinforced, or there will be a phenomenon of reversal.
Create a sense of ceremony
Parents can create an atmosphere for the start of school, preferably with a sense of ceremony. The methods are also diverse. For example, take your child to a bookstore or a stationery store, prepare the learning tools you need for your child to go to school; pick up your child from your grandmother's house or grandmother's house; take your child out for a meal, and let your child clean up your room.
You can also let your children contact their classmates who are usually good, make a phone call, talk about common hobbies, and have a yearning for school life.
This allows the child to gradually transition from psychology to the state of going to school.
Adjust the pace of life and basically return to normal
Adjust your schedule
During the holidays, children's lives are generally more arbitrary, so the students' work and rest time needs to be adjusted to the same situation as when the school starts, so that they can go to bed early and get up early.
Eat lightly
Food abundance is a major feature of the Chinese Spring Festival, but the food of the Spring Festival is often more protein and fat food, and it is about to start school, and the family's diet should also be balanced and gradually lighter.
Strengthen physical activity
Physical exercise is an important activity of the school, children a holiday at home, often neglect exercise, so parents should lead their children to carry out appropriate sports, such as running, playing basketball and so on when the school is about to start.
Do a good job of planning and be the active person to learn
Do a good job of summarizing the last semester and enhance self-confidence.
Students often have two anxieties in school, one is anxiety about academic performance, and the other is anxiety about relationships with classmates.
Before the start of the school, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's confidence in learning and living in school, so that children can summarize the achievements made in the last semester and the places where they have done well. Parents should not only use the score to evaluate the child's performance, but should comprehensively summarize the child's moral character, efforts, academic performance and other aspects.
At the same time, objectively analyze the child's deficiencies and look for reasons, which is conducive to the improvement of the next semester.
Set learning goals and discuss study plans
The determination of goals has a great role in promoting students' learning. First help your child determine goals for the new semester, such as being a motivated person and how much your academic performance improves. Then make a specific daily or weekly study plan.
Do a good job of reviewing and previewing.
Review work, mainly winter vacation homework, if it has been completed, you can summarize, such as doing mind mapping. If it is not completed, it is time to complete the assignment. Although the double reduction holiday homework is now reduced, the homework has also become diversified, such as reading, social practice, handicrafts, etc., which are very helpful for learning.
The second is pre-study, which has proved to be an effective way to improve academic performance, especially for students above the senior primary school level. The main method is to simply prepare yourself and find out the problem.
The prep is mainly self-study, and find out the problems in them, and take the problems to class after the school starts.
Reading books related to classroom instruction is also a great way to do it.
Always through the joint efforts of parents and students, students have psychological expectations for the new semester; from the knowledge of the relevant preparations, from life also to achieve regularity, children are in a state of readiness, I believe that after the start of school, children will be able to adapt well to the school's learning and life.