One cold winter in 2017, at a high-end party in Beijing where big men gathered, Feng Xiaogang and the crowd drank three rounds, the interest was high, inadvertently turned his head to find a graceful sound and shadow, suddenly had a flash of inspiration in his head, and said loudly: "Below there is a dance for the heroine of our movie Miao Miao to help everyone dance." ”
As soon as the words fell, Miao Miao immediately froze, and her pretty face revealed a hint of embarrassment, after all, the newcomers could not let go, and felt that such an occasion was undignified. The big man Chen Daoming found out the clues, spoke out to relieve Miao Miao, and had a dispute with others for this reason, and even angrily rebuked Feng Xiaogang. After all, Chen Daoming is a big guy and has a position in the show business circle
Importantly, Feng Xiaogang is not good at turning his face, and he can't get off the stage for a while. At this time, everyone's eyes were focused on Miao Miao, and in order to calm this storm and save Chen Daoming's face, Miao Miao had to pretend to volunteer to ask for a dance, to meet Feng Xiaogang's requirements and save Chen Daoming's face, and also became the talk of the big guys after drinking and eating.
As soon as the matter came out, Feng Xiaogang was scolded to the point of exhaustion, until Miao Miao came out and said that he was voluntary, and the matter came to an end.
Why Feng Xiaogang has such a behavior, this may be from Feng Xiaogang's life experience to explore.
In 1958, Feng Xiaogang was born in a small broken alley in Beijing, a single-parent family at an early age, his mother alone elongated his sister and lived with him, the good times were not long, and his mother was paralyzed, so Feng Xiaogang understood things early, never asked his mother for pocket money, and would not ask his mother why someone else's home
Children eat meat themselves why soy sauce soak rice every day. But whenever I saw those children in the courtyard wearing gorgeous clothes and eating foreign candy, they were always very envious. Because of his family's poverty, Feng Xiaogang was often ridiculed and even bullied by the children of the big courtyard, but he never dared to resist because of poverty
Circumstances were deeply engraved in his mind: they could not afford to provoke.
Poverty was the original sin, and Feng Xiaogang clearly knew that none of the children in the compound had taken him seriously. Although he felt very humble and small, he always had a breath in his heart, perhaps he was fed up with the cold eyes, the evil words, and he never wanted to relive the taste of being trampled on the face by others with shoes. Feng Xiaogang secretly vowed to get ahead.
With this idea, as soon as he graduated from high school, Feng Xiaogang went to become a soldier, joined the literary troupe by chance, and participated in the planning of many literary and artistic performance activities for a while, and his artistic cells were discovered.
During the period when he worked in the Cultural and Labor Corps, Feng Xiaogang had the privilege of meeting Zheng Xiaolong, who was a famous person at that time. It is said that Feng Xiaogang was 26 years old at the time, and was fascinated by a mushroom cool during the performance of the literary troupe, what he did not know was that this mushroom cool was Zheng Xiaolong's wife, Feng Xiaogang could not help but feel afraid after thinking about it in hindsight: fortunately, he did not chase, otherwise he was unlucky. In my heart, I laughed at myself
: As far as I am decayed, with bulging teeth and a bulging mouth, ugly and ugly, who can look at me. However, people are always unwilling, thinking of the background of Zheng Xiaolong and his wife, Feng Xiaogang secretly made up his mind.
After the troops specialized, with their ability to observe and observe colors that they had honed since childhood, Feng Xiaogang soon took Zheng Xiaolong's line and did miscellaneous work under his hands, although he still sent people to the fence, he still did the work of serving tea and pouring water for people. But Feng Xiaogang is deeply familiar with people's feelings, this skill he has practiced in a small way, even if his salary was pitiful at that time, and his family was even poorer, he still often generously invited Zheng Xiaolong to eat and drink, in this way
Pull into each other's feelings.
Sure enough, not long after, Zheng Xiaolong dragged this little brother born in a broken alley into the Beijing circle.
During this period, Feng Xiaogang also ushered in the first peach blossom luck in his life. His first hair-tie wife, Zhang Di, appeared, and Zhang Di accidentally bumped into Feng Xiaogang on the way to visit relatives, one was a gentle and kind angel in white, the other was a talented literary and artistic youth, and two youthful throbbing hearts instantly sparked.
At this time, Feng Xiao had just entered the Beijing circle, and he had not yet gained a firm foothold, and he was still a poor boy. Zhang Di did not care, despite the opposition of her parents, nor was she afraid of the reality of needing to wait for her mother-in-law who was paralyzed in bed and economic conditions in the future, so she threw herself into the arms of Feng Xiaogang without hesitation, and now entered the grave called "marriage".
After marriage, Feng Xiaogang, who was so poor, took Zhang Di to live in a small broken bungalow of forty square meters. But Zhang Di, who came from a good family, did not mind at all, and happy to enjoy a better future with Feng Xiaogang. At that time, Feng Xiaogang earned Weibo, and Zhang Di had to work to subsidize her family while taking care of her mother-in-law. With the support of this beautiful and moving Xianneisuke, Feng Xiaogang also began to fight hard.
After a period of inquiry, Feng Xiaogang learned that there was a big figure in the Beijing circle, Wang Shuo, and he created "Longing" when the red half of the sky was red. So he began to exert his strength, and when he chatted with Zheng Xiaolong in normal times, while currying favor with Zheng Xiaolong, he intentionally or unintentionally mentioned Wang Shuo and boasted about Wang Shuo. I hope that Zheng Xiaolong can be an intermediary and help him introduce wang Shuo.
Zheng Xiaolong is also an old figure in the Beijing circle, usually see more people who shoot him on the ass, although at a glance can see through Feng Xiaogang's careful thinking, but he still has some talent, more importantly, Feng Xiaogang has been waiting on his side for many years and has been this intermediary.
When Wang Shuo first saw Feng Xiaogang, he was very dismissive, Feng Xiaogang was so experienced in the world, he quickly realized it, and immediately took out his housekeeping skills, under a series of horse farts, photographed Wang Shuo comfortably, and at the same time looked up at Feng Xiaogang a few times. Although Feng Xiaogang won Wang Shuo's preferential treatment with his superior horse-ass kung fu, Wang Shuo's good brother Ye Jing was very disdainful of Feng Xiaogang and gave Feng Xiaogang the nickname "Feng Pants" to mock him.
Under the promotion of Wang Shuo, Feng Xiaogang met a large number of heavyweights in the Beijing circle, Ye Jing, Ge You... Although he successfully blended into the circle of the rich children of these compounds, he was well aware of the gap between himself and them, and after years of hard work, Feng Xiaogang won the Golden Eagle Award of the year with the director's "Beijingers in New York", and finally gained a foothold in the circle. Often follow these big brothers in the circle to do things, watching them hug left and right, beautiful women into the arms,
The envy in Feng Xiaogang's heart came out again, and at this time, another important person in his life, his second wife, just appeared. The two met in "The Big Satan", when during the filming process, Feng Xiaogang, as a screenwriter, deliberately touched his chin and said: "It's all good, that is, the heroine is a little bit meaningd." Xu Fan sat behind him and gave Feng Xiaogang a blank stare. The story of the two began, and after the killing feast, Feng Xiaogang's eyes were beaded
Dead staring at the beautiful and generous Xu Fan, like a demon. In order to hug the beauty back, he also deliberately went to ask Wang Shuo for advice, and Wang Shuo had no choice but to give the common sense skill of "no face". Feng Xiaogang, as if he had obtained the most precious treasure, called Xu Fan one after another, pulling east and west, and wanted to trick her into going out on a date. Under Feng Xiaogang's fierce attack, Xu Fan compromised, and even when he asked xu Fan who Xu Fan was at the Golden Rooster Award, Feng Xiaogang replied with a smile and squint, "My girlfriend." ”
Xu Fan on the side was stunned but did not refute Feng Xiaogang's words, and after this outing, Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang came and went in pairs from then on, tightly tied together.
It's just that when Feng Xiaogang was out in the wind and snow, he forgot his wife and daughter who had been waiting for him at home.
In 1997, Wang Shuo had an accident and ran abroad, and Feng Xiaogang was filming "Party A and Party B", adapted from Wang Shuo's novel. In order to be able to release the film smoothly, Wang Shuo was removed when he signed it. Later, Feng Xiaogang explained that it was approved by Wang Shuo himself, but Feng Xiaogang broke up with his nobleman Wang Shuo. That year, the film was a big hit and became the box office champion at that time, Feng Xiaogang took off, and successfully ranked among the fifth generation of directors with this film, and Jiang Wen, Zhang Yimou, and Chen Kaige were on a par with each other.
But Feng Xiaogang, who has a successful career, is deeply entangled in emotional entanglements, he has long been with Xu Fan, and Zhang Di has also found out. Zhang Di is also a smart woman, neither noisy nor noisy nor tied hands, hoping to take the initiative to force Xu Fan back. But Xu Fan is also a capable woman, neither urging Feng Xiaogang to divorce nor saying that she wants to get married. It took 7 years in such a silent way, and both women fought according to the criterion of who spoke first and who was conceding defeat. In the end, Feng Xiaogang couldn't stand it anymore and took the initiative to confess, "I am the last thing, I definitely like the new and hate the old." ”
Listening to Feng Xiaogang say these words, Zhang Di understood that his heart was no longer in hers, so she let go. Feng Xiaogang also felt indebted to Zhang Di, consciously cleaned up, and after divorcing Zhang Di, Feng Xiaogang immediately married Xu Fan, who was 10 years old with him.
In the following years, Feng Xiaogang's career has made great strides, the movies "Not Seen and Not Scattered", "Endless", "A Sigh", "Big Names", "Mobile Phones", "No Thieves in the World", "Assembling Number", "Tangshan Earthquake" have won many impressive results, and Feng Xiaogang has finally become a figure with a head and a face in the Beijing circle. At that time, Feng Xiaogang even bluntly said in the interview that he was alone and seeking defeat.
Unfortunately, people do not have a thousand days to spend a hundred days of red, in recent years, Feng Xiaogang's films have no classics, fried cold rice can be done once, more audiences will not buy it. More importantly, many excellent new stars are rising, after all, the back wave of the Yangtze River pushes the front wave, and one generation is stronger than the next.
Therefore, Feng Xiaogang's temper was also particularly grumpy during that time, because the movie "I am not Pan Jinlian" had fewer films, and he directly opened his eyes to the Wanda boss: "How big you TM is has nothing to do with me, what are you?" "At the airport, because I was not satisfied with the taste of the meal, I directly scolded the waiter's sister-in-law to cry. Even more widely circulated: "There are so many garbage movies in China, because there are many garbage audiences." Because of these behaviors and words, Feng Xiaogang pushed himself into the cusp of public opinion.
Feng Xiaogang can be said to have done success and failure, and the bitter fruit buried in his own selfish interests in the early years would eventually be swallowed by himself. Soon, it was exposed that the Yin-Yang contract incident involved a wide sensation in the whole country was exposed, and this whistleblower was the one he hurt that year, even if he responded to the sentence, it was not unreported, and the time had not yet come.
Looking back at the history of Feng Xiaogang's origins, from an objective point of view, it is not easy for Feng Xiaogang to become a big brother in the film industry from a humble and small poor boy who has worked hard for several times by talent and patience. On the other hand, it can also be seen that these behaviors and attitudes that Feng Xiaogang appeared in are traceable, when he turned over the salted fish, he had forgotten his experience in the past, and fully adapted to the posture of this successful person, so there would be the opening scene, and he would repeat the pain of his own year on others, and he would enjoy the feeling of the "superior person", and he did not know what he did not want to do to others. Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent.