Xie Nan
Born in 1983 in Anhui Province, Scorpio, Light Media signed a female host, musician, actor, excellent work, cheerful personality.
Wu Jing
Born in Beijing in 1974, he is a film and television actor and film director. Numerous awards and manly. It is the idol of his wife Xie Nan since childhood.
Wu Jing and Xie Nan are nine years apart, one of them is a host, the other is an actor, both are career-oriented people. From meeting in 2010, establishing a relationship in 2012, and officially entering into marriage in 2014, this year is exactly seven years.
Xie Nan Wu Jing wedding photos
Now they have two sons, and the family of four is happy and happy.
Wu Jing and son
In the eyes of outsiders, although their combination is a good story in the show business circle. However, marrying such a "career fanatic" as Wu Jing does require a certain degree of compromise and run-in for Xie Nan, who is also very enterprising. The process of their love is also a few twists and turns, but it is very worth learning from young men and women.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Wu Jing embarrassed Xie Nan because of the "frivolity" of his language</h1>
In 2008, Wu Jing was invited to participate in the interview program "Best Scene" hosted by Xie Nan, which was also the second time in their lives that the two had met. However, Wu Jing's performance this time made Xie Nan have a "frivolous" impression of him.
Wu Jing participated in Xie Nan's program
Before the show began, Wu Jing and Xie Nan met in the dressing room. Wu Jing smelled a very good smell of perfume, so he asked Xie Nan, "What perfume do you use?" ”
Although Xie Nan felt a little impolite, he still replied: "It is an encounter." ”
Who knows, Wu Jing actually said with a cheeky face: "Then are you meeting me?" ”
A man he had just met asked such a "frivolous" question to himself, and at this moment, Xie Nan felt that his former idol was actually a "love field master", and he lost interest in Wu Jing.
But in the show, when the press corps asks Wu Jing what kind of wife he hopes his future wife is? Wu Jing actually leaned over and asked Xie Nan directly, "Are you married?" ”
Xie Nan instinctively replied: "No";
Then Wu Jing asked, "Do you have a boyfriend?" ”
Xie Nan did not react at once, and replied truthfully: "No";
Then Wu Jing asked, "What do you belong to?" ”
At this time, someone in the press corps shouted: "Pig!" ”
Xie Nan, who originally had a familiar personality, did not expect that he would ask himself such a private question in public. Suddenly, I felt that I had become a female guest on a blind date show.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Xie Nan was asked to dinner by Wu Jing, but it was self-defeating and misunderstood</h1>
After that show, Wu Jing did have a good feeling for this lively and traditional girl. Therefore, he boldly issued an invitation to Xie Nan for dinner, who knew that xie Nan's arrangement made Wu Jing retreat from her.
Receiving Wu Jing's invitation, Xie Nan also began to think carefully. She felt that she would feel embarrassed to go to the appointment alone, so she took a northeastern girl to the appointment with her. Originally, she thought she could have more interesting topics and avoid cold spots.
However, she said that she could not imagine that this northeastern big girl only cared about playing games along the way, and did not even mention a topic, let alone adjust the atmosphere. No way, Xie Nan did not want to make the atmosphere too awkward, after all, Wu Jing is a big star, and it is not good to ask too much. I don't want to be cold, so I have to keep talking about my work and career.
However, this date directly gave Wu Jing a signal: this girl is too enterprising and will not consider marriage compared to it.
At this time, Wu Jing had just returned from Hong Kong, and he felt that he was very tired and hard, he wanted to start a family, he wanted to be quiet, and Xie Nan was not suitable!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > a microblog that allowed Wu Jing to identify Xie Nan and refer to him as a brother and sister</h1>
After the relationship between the two cooled down for more than a year, Xie Nan was asked by guests why he worked so hard when he was on the show. She sent a tweet to illustrate her point:
I work hard, just hoping that one day, when I find someone, I can be particularly open and say that I am with him because I love him, not because of who he is or because of what he has. Because I can give myself all the stuff.
Soon, Xie Nan's Weibo was forwarded by Wu Jing, and the two also interacted enthusiastically. The interaction ended with two sour words, "Mutual encouragement with brother" and "mutual encouragement with sister".
From then on, Wu Jing looked at Xie Nan differently, and he started his own small calculation. The three views of the two people are infinitely close, and the subsequent interactions will naturally become frequent.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > when Wu Jing was lost, Xie Nan cried for her, and Wu Jing identified her</h1>
During the filming of "I Am a Special Soldier", Wu Jing accidentally injured his leg, plus other things, and his mood was very low. At this time, Xie Nan called. When she heard that Wu Jing was injured, on the other end of the phone, Wu Jing heard the sobbing sound coming from the phone, and Xie Nan was so distressed that he actually cried!
At this moment, Wu Jing was in love with this girl in his heart.
Shakespeare said—"
Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, not a hard compulsion, love is based on a common language.
Wu Jing and Xie Nan's love from acquaintance to marriage has gone through four years of time. As Xie Nan's good friend Li Jing said: "You are not like a modern love story at all, people get a license in four days, get married in 28 days, you are too much like an old man, slowly swallowing." ”
However, it is precisely because they are not satisfied with their feelings and are willing to take the time to understand each other that a couple of men and women who want to enter the palace of marriage should have the attitude. Because if you want to walk through the second half of your life together, you must be cautious and absolutely cannot be hasty.
In fact, in Xie Nan's program, Wu Jing has already developed a good feeling for her. However, at that time, Wu Jing hoped to have a warm family, and he hoped that after he worked hard, he could have a warm harbor to rest. Men, that's it, to fight alone also needs to have a strong backing. And this woman must have independent ability and strong inclusiveness, and more importantly, must be kind!
Therefore, Xie Nan's Weibo just hit the G-spot in Wu Jing's heart. Xie Nan's correct three views made Wu Jing even more impressed. After the two officially got along, Wu Jing was injured, and Xie Nan's tears of pain made Wu Jing feel even more precious. Because of her kindness and maternal brilliance, Wu Jing instantly felt safe and warm, and naturally had the motivation to move forward!
Boys should be self-reliant, daughters should be independent! As Xie Nan said on Weibo, I love him because of pure love, not mixed with others.
I hope that the children after 90 and 00 can be like Xie Nan, not only to achieve salary independence, but also to achieve ideological independence, only in this way can they not be humble in the future marriage and enjoy a beautiful married life!