Today I want to tell the story of 3 male directors born in the 1950s, the actors failed to withstand the temptation to divorce the original partner. Years, vicissitudes, only love lasts forever, let us savor different love together, find the true meaning of love, like it.
First, let's look at an allusion: in the early years of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Liu Xiuqi used song hong, a servant of the Western Han Dynasty, and promoted him to "Taizhong Dafu". Liu Xiu's sister was widowed and fell in love with Song Hong, Liu Xiu wanted to marry her sister to Song Hong, asked Song Hong's opinion on "gui yi jiao, rich and easy wife", Song Hong replied: "Poor and lowly friends must not be forgotten, and the wife of the chaff does not go to the church", Liu Xiu had to give up.
During the period of polygamy in China's feudal society, the average man named the wife who was the first Ming media to marry into the family as the main room, the main room, that is, the "hall" referred to here, "chaff" is actually something like lees, here refers to a wife who has suffered together and sweated for the prosperity of the family business, which probably means not to abandon the wife who has suffered together.
This allusion tells people that in China, since ancient times, the status of the original wife in the family is certainly unquestionable. Although there are many men who take concubines after marriage, most of them must obtain the consent of the original match, or the original match takes the initiative to find it for the husband.
After the founding of New China, some feudal traditions were broken, and the marriage law stipulated that marriage freedom was found for some men who liked the new and hated the old to abandon their wives.
Today, we will take a look at these three well-known entertainment directors and actors in China, who parted ways with their original partners.
First: Zhang Yimou
Zhang Yimou was born on April 2, 1950. He is a well-known director in China and even in the world.
His original wife was named Xiao Hua, and they were classmates who had gone to the countryside together as Zhiqing. In which difficult era, Xiao Hua voluntarily gave up the opportunity to be recommended to go to Shanghai for the sake of Zhang Yimou. The main reason was that Zhang Yimou was afraid that Xiao Hua would not be able to look at himself when he went to college, so he found various reasons to stop Xiao Hua. Xiao Hua, on the other hand, was sincerely sacrificing his future for the sake of his true feelings with Zhang Yimou.
As a result, the two married in 1978 and lived a happy little life. However, Zhang Yimou was not at ease about being an ordinary worker all his life. He forgot not to let Xiao Hua go to school, but he proposed to apply for the Beijing Film Academy. Xiao Hua did not oppose Zhang Yimou because she did not go to school, she hoped that her man could realize her ideals.
He did not stay for this family like his wife, but did not hesitate to leave his wife and daughter to go to school in Beijing.
In 1999, Zhang Yimou met Gong Li when he was planning to make the movie "Red Sorghum", and since then the two have begun to cut and straighten out their chaotic love life.
Although Xiao Hua had heard about the affairs between them, he had always been reluctant to admit that this was the reality, and he did not believe that Zhang Yimou, who was honest and honest, would change his mind and abandon her and his daughter. However, after she washed Zhang Yimou's clothes and found Gong Li's love letter to Zhang Yimou in her pocket, her sky for Zhang Yimou completely collapsed.
Zhang Yimou, her husband, her former hope, the sun in her heart fell. In the end, Xiao Hua ended her 10-year marriage with Zhang Yimou in great disappointment and anger, when the child was not yet 6 years old.
Now, more than thirty years later, Xiao Hua is still unmarried and still alone.
Second place: Feng Xiaogang
Feng Xiaogang, born in March 1958 to an ordinary family in Beijing, joined the army after graduating from high school and joined the army, and through hard work, he entered the cultural unit of the Beijing Military Region and obtained a promotion, which was the fate of the lucky ones in the 1970s. It laid the foundation for his subsequent development.
Feng Xiaogang originally came from an art design background, and after changing careers, he entered the film and television circle through his own continuous tossing. At that time, the reform and opening up time was not long, a hundred wastes were waiting to be rebuilt, and Chinese culture was also in a stage of great development, which provided a broad world for the development of Feng Xiaogang's career.
Feng Xiaogang's ex-wife Zhang Di
In 1984, Feng Xiaogang, whose family and personal conditions were general, met the beautiful female nurse Zhang Di through the introduction of colleagues, Zhang Di worked well, and the family conditions were many times better than Feng Xiaogang's family. Despite this, Zhang Di still married Feng Xiaogang when her parents were not 100% willing. For the sake of Feng Xiaogang's career, they did not give birth to a daughter Feng Siyu until September 1990.
After continuous hard work, Feng Xiaogang's ability has been greatly improved, his network has expanded, and he has changed from asking others at the beginning to others began to ask him. His thoughts began to change, and the tiredness he had suffered in the past, the hardships he had suffered, and the sacrifices his wife Zhang Di had made for their family began to fade to him.
Feng Xiaogang and his current wife Xu Fan
In 1991, Feng Xiaogang met Xu Fan when filming the film "Big Sasang", and since then the two have fallen in love, and Feng Xiao has just begun to associate with Xu Fan as a lover outside of marriage. Until 1999, Zhang Di still had no choice but to divorce, fulfilling the feelings of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan.
Later, in an interview, for this marriage, Feng Xiaogang said: "I feel particularly wronged by my ex-wife, of course, Xu Fan is also very wronged. Anyway, the last thing in here is me." This is the most direct evidence of Feng Xiaogang's shame on the original match.
Third place: Li Youbin
Li Youbin, born in 1958 in Changchun City, Jilin Province, was admitted to the Changchun Repertory Theatre at the age of 16 and later entered the Changchun Film Studio. Although he debuted relatively early, he became famous relatively late, and he was also a late success in the acting industry.
In 1984, Li Youbin married Zhang Ruiqi, who was also an actor colleague, and after having a son Li Xiaoke in 1985, Zhang Ruiqi faded out of the entertainment circle and slowly focused on her children and Li Youbin.
Li Youbin
Until 1995, Li Youbin's career was tepid. At this time, Li Youbin and his wife made a bold decision, he took a leave of pay to stay in Beijing, even if it was for himself and his family to live a comfortable life.
When they arrived in Beijing, he and his wife bought a house with their small savings, the children went to school, Zhang Ruiqi did not go to work, and the financial pressure was still overwhelming. To this end, Li Youbin went out early and returned late, looking for opportunities to pick up work everywhere.
After a few years, the kung fu paid off, coupled with his own thick foundation, he was transferred to the Bayi Film Studio and solved the identity problem.
Li Youbin and ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi
After Li Youbin's career improved, the film appointment continued, and he spent less time with his family when he returned home. Because Zhang Ruiqi has not worked for a long time, her thinking has also changed, and she has quarreled with Li Youbin more and more times.
The more such things happen, li Youbin is also used to not going home for a long time, and the feelings of the husband and wife are getting weaker and weaker.
In 2006, the two of them eventually broke up. This year, their son was 21 years old and was attending university in Beijing. In order to feel more comfortable, Li Youbin left everything to his wife and children and left the house by himself.
Today, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya are married and look happy, but in their thirties, his son, who is affected by his parents' divorce, is unwilling to fall in love and get married, but it has become his biggest heart disease.
Slane bud
All three celebrities were born in the 1950s, they all have a common social background, and they all had the opportunity to start developing their careers after the reform and opening up.
Their wives were all married to them before they became famous, and they were all for the sake of the family, the children returning to the family, or giving up their ideals, careers, and focusing on the family. As a result, the husband's career is brilliant, the distance between the two is widened, and the entertainment industry has a life of less and more, which leads to the husband having an affair, and then the husband and wife's feelings are broken and they part ways.
Although there are many reasons for divorce, as far as the marriage of the three of them is concerned, the main reason for the breakup is that they have not been able to withstand the temptation, it is their thoughts and emotional changes that have led to the breakdown of the marriage, so all three of them have more or less guilt about the original marriage.
Marriage should be cherished, and the ancient admonition that the wife of the chaff should not go to church should remember that this is not an obligation but a responsibility.