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Once Feng Xiaogang was in the shower, his wife Xu Fan saw that he did not pay attention to secretly pick up the other party's mobile phone to check, but unexpectedly this was just caught by Feng Xiaogang, the result was not waiting for Xu Fan to break out Feng Xiaogang opened his mouth, he coldly told Xu Fan: "If you still want to go down, you should not see anything." ”......
What woman can endure such betrayal from her husband? I don't know how heartbroken Xu Fan was at that time, but unlike others, she was too aware of her position in this marriage and the weight in Feng Xiaogang's heart, she did not turn away, but handled her husband's peach blossom news in a strange way
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The first half of Feng Xiaogang's life can be said to be not smooth, when he was a child, his parents divorced, he and his sister lived with his mother, he participated in the army, his mother suffered from cancer at the age of 45, and he suffered from cerebral thrombosis at the age of 47, Feng Xiaogang first contacted the film as an art assistant, and then used his own diligence and high emotional intelligence to expand his network, of course, the most important thing is that he has the ability to write and direct
Eventually, he grew into a famous director, who explored for many years, as evidenced by a step work. Xu Fan is a Hunan native, when she was a child to learn Peking Opera, but then disbanded, and then the whole family fell into the rush for her future livelihood, fortunately, Yang Lixin, who had cooperated once, wrote to her, saying that Renyi wanted to enroll students and suggested that she try, just like this, Xu Fan in his early 20s pulled his luggage and went to Beijing alone
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Fortunately, she was admitted, but even so, her career was not going well. However, she chose to exchange beauty for a career, for example, when she was just in her sophomore year, many girls in the class were attracted by the teacher Wang Zhiwen, who had long hair, although the facial features were not very exquisite, but the personable was very gentlemanly, and finally Xu Fan took the initiative to defeat Jiang Shan Xuqing And they became Wang Zhiwen's legitimate girlfriend
Then as desired, he lived in Wang Zhiwen's rental house outside the school, and instead of saying that this relationship is a teacher-student relationship, it is not more appropriate to say that the days are more appropriate, because in order to help the heart of this excellent man, Xu Fan did what a virtuous wife should do, in addition to the class, she was to wash Wang Zhiwen's clothes and clean up the home, but after such a day, Xu Fan was close to graduation, thinking that a star boyfriend could help himself, and did not think that Wang Zhiwen directly refused, saying that if he had the ability, someone would find her
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Soon this relationship also collapsed, and after turning, she found Tian Zhuangzhuang to get a concubine role in "The Great Eunuch Li Lianying", although not the protagonist, but gave her the opportunity to stand in front of the camera. What really makes Xu Fan help in his career is the emergence of Feng Xiaogang
In 1991, when Feng Xiaogang was filming the movie "The Great Satan", he met the film and television actor Xu Fan. But at that time, Feng Xiaogang already had a wife and daughter, but Xu Fan did not mind, just like this, the pair of underground love was 8 years, in 1999, Feng Xiaogang and the original partner divorced, Xu Fan took the throne, and finally became a famous director's wife
It seems that the little three finally turned around, right? But in fact, Xu Fan's hard days have just arrived, because it is not long after the sweetness that feng Xiaogang is always outside to attract bees and butterflies, just like when carrying his wife and himself, it is not difficult to imagine that a marriage that has waited for 7 years has suffered such a betrayal that makes people helpless, but Xu Fan also knows that he can't take him
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Although the husband and wife are equal, but the economic income and fame of the two are too much difference, gradually Xu Fan understands that if she wants to keep her position as the director's wife, she can only endure and pretend not to see, the most exaggerated of which was the explosive news that Feng Xiaogang "beautiful host" Shen Xing stayed overnight for eight hours
At that time, when many people thought that Xu Fan would have a big outbreak, they did not expect that this woman seemed to be unusually calm and calm, she not only ignored it, but also pretended not to know as cold, and then in an interview with Venus, she was asked whether the little girl next to Feng Xiaogang was like a wave? Xu Fan smiled bitterly and said to himself: wave after wave
When asked how to deal with these problems, she said: "People can't look at it, so they just don't look at it." Anyway, our family is a man, you let him take advantage of it. ”
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There is a saying, a wife said this to listen to people heart-wrenching, but any way will not be so tolerant, to put it bluntly, Xu Fan is to use her own grievances and dignity in exchange for the glory and life superiority of the director's wife, she is not stupid, but in order to get glory and grievances of her own feelings, this is also said to be the other party to raise their own soul, because she is like an abandoned baby
And the more humble Xu Fan is in front of Feng Xiaogang, the more she is looked down upon by the other party, presumably she has not been happy in these years when she has come out to eat and drink, right? It also proves one thing, the glamorousness of other people's lives is all superficial, some people always envy her honor as the wife of a famous director, but few people see the helplessness behind it, really, where is the perfect life? It's just different choices with different ambitions. Then how do you evaluate Xu Fan's choice?