In 1991, it was the year when Zhao Benshan's eldest daughter, Zhao Yufang, was cut like a knife, because that year his father Zhao Benshan and his mother Ge Shuzhen chose to divorce.
Zhao Yufang, who was born in 1979, was only 12 years old in 1991.
12-year-old Zhao Yufang grew up in the countryside, and when Zhao Yufang was born, her father Zhao Benshan had not yet become a familiar big person in front of the screen.
Whenever Zhao Benshan went out to work hard, the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang could only follow her mother Ge Shuzhen to rely on her.
Because when Zhao Yufang was born, her father Zhao Benshan was not particularly famous, so Zhao Yufang could only follow her mother to learn to wash and cook.
Zhao Yufang, who has been in contact with these things since she was a child, has long understood things.
She knew that it wasn't easy for Dad to be outside, and she also knew that there were fewer and fewer topics between Mom and Dad, and there were more and more estrangements.
Ge Shuzhen is a person who can say whatever she thinks, but Zhao Benshan is not.
Zhao Benshan, who works hard outside, has a more and more popular career and more and more people in contact.
Ge Shuzhen takes the baby to do housework at home every day, and there are very few people who can be contacted, and the knowledge is not extensive.
It is precisely because of this that the communication between Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen has become the most basic problem between husband and wife.
The sensible Zhao Yufang did not want to see her father Zhao Benshan and her mother Ge Shuzhen more and more estranged.
In order to make her parents better, Zhao Yufang, who was young at that time, also thought of many ways.
Later, his father Zhao Benshan and his mother Ge Shuzhen added a younger brother to themselves.
However, what Zhao Yufang did not expect was that the arrival of his brother made his family more difficult.
Because his younger brother Zhao Tie Egg suffered from various diseases when he was born.
The various illnesses of his younger brother Zhao Tie egg have made the gap between his father Zhao Benshan and his mother Ge Shuzhen more and more.
Until 1991, that is, the year Zhao Yufang was 12 years old, her father Zhao Benshan and her mother Ge Shuzhen could no longer bear that kind of estrangement, but chose to divorce peacefully and choose to separate in a harmonious manner.
In 1991, although Zhao Yufang was only 12 years old, she was already very sensible after living a hard life with her mother in her early years.
Seeing the separation of father and mother, although it was the kind of peace of mind, zhao Yufang's heart was still very reluctant.
Zhao Yufang is very sensible, she knows that her father Zhao Benshan and her mother Ge Shuzhen can no longer get along for a long time, and finally she silently supports her father and mother's decision with heartache.
After her father and mother divorced, Zhao Yufang followed her mother Ge Shuzhen to continue to rely on each other.
Of course, after Zhao Benshan divorced Ge Shuzhen, the "wife of the chaff", Zhao Benshan still cared and cared about Zhao Yufang.
When Zhao Yufang needs help, Zhao Benshan will still stand up for the first time to help his eldest daughter.
Zhao Yufang, who understands things, also knows that his father has himself in his heart, and he also knows that his father Zhao Benshan has always loved himself.
So seeing her father busy outside every day, seeing her father fighting hard every day, Zhao Yufang also understands her father Zhao Benshan, and also wants someone who understands her father to take care of her father for herself.
In 1992, a year after Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen, the "wife of chaff", Divorced, Zhao Benshan chose to start trying a second marriage.
Zhao Benshan's second marriage is a woman who understands Zhao Benshan, and this woman is Zhao Benshan's current wife, Ma Lijuan.
When Zhao Benshan wanted to get married for the second time, in fact, what he cared about most was the idea of the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang.
If Zhao Yufang had opposed his marriage, then Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan would not have been so happy when they were married that year.
When her father chose to marry Aunt Ma Lijuan in 1992, what Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan did not expect was that Zhao Yufang, as the eldest daughter, did not oppose their marriage.
At that time, Zhao Yufang supported and understood her father's marriage with Ma Lijuan.
Zhao Yufang's support and blessings at that time touched her father Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan.
After Ma Lijuan and Zhao Benshan got married, there was no restriction on Zhao Benshan's love for Zhao Yufang.
On the contrary, Ma Lijuan was also very good to Zhao Benshan's eldest daughter Zhao Yufang.
Later, Ma Lijuan also gave birth to two children for Zhao Benshan, a man and a woman.
Whether it is Zhao Yufang, or Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan who were born later, Zhao Benshan loves his 3 children.
Time flies quickly, and now Zhao Benshan's 3 children have grown up.
And Zhao Benshan has also been separated from his "wife of chaff" Ge Shuzhen for 31 years.
Today, 31 years later, is Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen's eldest daughter Zhao Yufang living happily?
Before saying that Zhao Benshan's eldest daughter Zhao Yufang is unhappy, I have to say about the current Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan.
Zhao Yinan is now the only son of Zhao Benshan, and he is also treated like a baby by Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan.
When Zhao Yinan was very young, his father Zhao Benshan would take him to the stage.
Although Zhao Yinan has such a powerful background as Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan has taught him to be a literate person for so many years.
Now Zhao Yinan has grown up and has become more and more low-key.
Today's Zhao Yinan will appear in these plays of "Country Love" and make cameo appearances in some small roles.
In addition to entering a simple cameo in the TV series, Zhao Yinan did not put too much mind on the show business circle.
However, Zhao Yinan, who is not in the show business circle, also has his own career.
Zhao Yinan opened his own weight loss training camp, through his own efforts he created many jobs, but also led a lot of young people with dreams to get rich together.
It can be said that the current Zhao Yinan is very reassuring to Zhao Benshan, although he was born in a rich family, he is not a clumsy child.
Zhao Benshan's three children, now basically Zhao Benshan is not particularly worried.
Zhao Benshan's youngest daughter, Zhao Yihan, is also slowly making herself strong, and she is also creating her own glory through her own efforts.
Zhao Yihan, who once worried zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan, has now grown up.
Zhao Yihan, like his brother Zhao Yinan, has his own career.
Zhao Yihan usually broadcasts live streams with goods, and Zhao Yihan, who is getting better and better with goods, has also recruited and cultivated many anchors who have the same dreams as himself.
Zhao Yihan, whose career is getting better and better, will also participate in public welfare undertakings to help those who need help.
In addition to the live broadcast career and the usual public welfare, Zhao Yihan has also begun to be active in the show business circle in recent years.
The TV series "Liu Laogen 4", which was broadcast in May this year, has the figure of Zhao Yihan.
However, no matter how hard Zhao Yihan is outside, zhao Yihan has only one identity when he returns home, that is, Zhao Benshan's baby daughter.
Zhao Benshan returned home as well, being particularly gentle with his daughter and tying his own pigtails.
Zhao Benshan's kindness to Zhao Yihan and Zhao Yinan has been seen by many people.
However, Zhao Benshan's kindness to the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang is something that many people who do not know Zhao Benshan cannot see.
Zhao Yufang is different from her younger siblings, and Zhao Yufang, like her mother Ge Shuzhen, is low-key and rarely appears in the public eye.
However, Zhao Benshan's most painful child is his eldest daughter Zhao Yufang.
Although Zhao Benshan and his wife Ge Shuzhen were separated for 31 years, Zhao Benshan's love for Zhao Yufang did not diminish at all.
It is also because Zhao Benshan has always cared for and loved his eldest daughter Zhao Yufang, so Zhao Yufang's life has always been very happy.
In 2008, Zhao Benshan's daughter Zhao Yufang married.
Zhao Benshan, who is usually low-key, was unusually high-profile in the year when his daughter got married.
When Zhao Yufang got married, Zhao Benshan went down in blood and held a very luxurious wedding for his daughter Zhao Yufang.
On the day his daughter got married, Zhao Benshan gave him a dowry of several millions, not to mention luxury cars and luxury banquets.
At that time, the extravagant marriage held by Zhao Benshan for his daughter was exaggerated by some people who did not understand, saying that Zhao Benshan was extravagant and wasteful and showed off his wealth.
In fact, people who know Zhao Benshan know that it is only Zhao Benshan's guilt compensation for the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang, and it is also Zhao Benshan's love for the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang.
In Zhao Benshan's usual life, Zhao Benshan is not a person who lives a luxurious and extravagant and high-profile life.
Many times, Zhao Benshan will personally cook for himself and others, and the meals he cooks are also simple Northeast cuisine.
Eating simple Northeastern food, Zhao Benshan is also satisfied.
In recent years, in some of the pictures exposed by Zhao Benshan's eating, it is also difficult to see the taste of mountains and treasures on his table.
Now Zhao Benshan is a good husband and a good father.
Although Zhao Benshan was separated from his wife for 31 years, as long as Ge Shuzhen and her eldest daughter needed their own help, Zhao Benshan would help without hesitation.
For his current wife, Ma Lijuan, Zhao Benshan is also very fond of him, and the two couples in their later years will often appear on the screen to interact with netizens and share the joy of life together.
For the three children, Zhao Benshan also loved and cared for him impartially.
It is precisely because of Zhao Benshan's goodness that Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan are becoming more and more sensible, and the life of the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang is becoming happier and happier.