A family of bad guys and harmony! There are two families who are neighbors, one noisy and noisy every day, and the other is harmonious. The noisy family didn't feel anything at first, but over time he would feel very strange, why is the next door very peaceful, why is our family so noisy?
On that day, a very noisy family took a child and went to visit the family next door and asked,
How did you achieve harmony in your home?
The family that was visited said that because our family was full of bad people, we couldn't argue. Your family is a good person, so they will quarrel every day!
Then you talk nonsense, you give us face, you give us down the steps.
I'm telling the truth, you see our family is all bad people. One day, our bicycle was stolen.
My brother said, it's my fault, because I rode out, without locking, it was easy to be ridden away.
Mom said that they all blamed me, and when my brother went out, I didn't tell me well.
My brother said, it was my fault, I broke the lock, I didn't fix it, I didn't buy a new lock.
You see, when everyone is at fault, do you still fry?
Your family is a good person, and it will definitely quarrel. Suppose your car is stolen, my brother will say,
Don't scold me, that's because they broke the lock and he didn't fix it, and I lost it.
The younger brother will say, which I broke, is the quality of the lock is not good. When my mother bought the car, she didn't take care of it.
Because they are all good people, they will quarrel every day, because good people will not make mistakes.
The above story, although it is only a small paragraph, but it tells the truth of things.
Many times we are unhappy, not because we are affected by what is in front of us, but because it is determined by our hearts.
If we attribute our failures and unhappiness to the faults or external circumstances of others, then we will only be limited by these reasons and will not be able to change the failure and unhappiness. Because of other people and the external environment is difficult to change.
If we attribute the causes of failure and unhappiness to ourselves and look for reasons from ourselves, then we will easily change the current situation and find success and happiness more easily. Because changing yourself is a particularly easy thing to do.
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