After Ma Yili became famous, she earned tens of millions of dollars a year, and a friend called her once: "Sister, I want to start a business, can you lend me 300,000, I will return the money to you first." ”
Ma Yili refused: "I don't have any money, and even if I had money, I wouldn't lend it to you." ”
After saying that, he hung up the phone, threw the phone to the assistant, and specially instructed: "If he calls again to borrow money, you will say that I am not there or busy, in short, you must not let go of the money to lend him." ”
The assistant did so, but his heart was very confused, and he couldn't help but ask Ma Yili: "Sister, you are now a red person in the circle, 300,000 is a dime for you, since he has opened his mouth, why not lend him?" ”
Ma Yili just smiled slightly: "As long as you borrow one, there will be a second and a third, instead of running around every day to collect debts, it is better for no one to borrow, but also worry about it." ”
This extremely sober and rational speech feels that she is really unusual, in fact, from her love life alone, it can be seen that she is an extremely independent and strong personality woman.
At that time, director Guan Hu wanted to shoot the movie "Night Walker", and specially ran to the play to select actors, and as a result, he took a fancy to the youthful and energetic Ma Yili at a glance.
The two people also opened an unforgettable relationship during the filming process.
Ma Yili is young and beautiful, Guan Hu is talented, and this little couple is a talented woman who looks at it, born a couple. They also quickly entered cohabitation mode, and romanticism also returned to tea rice oil and salt.
But it was this bland and boring life that broke the love bridge between the two.
Late one night, Guan Hu finished filming, finished socializing, drunk and returned home, exhausted he pushed open the door to see, the home was full of dirty clothes, the takeaway lunch boxes were also piled on the coffee table, and Ma Yili sat on the sofa playing games without distraction.
He was immediately angry: "You have nothing to do at home all day, can't you clean up your home?" You see what kind of chaos it has become, just like you, how dare I marry you in the future? ”
Ma Yili also lost a good face: "If I don't do housework, you won't marry me?" I am your girlfriend, not your nanny, why should I serve you? ”
Guan Hu had already achieved something in the field of directing at that time, and he naturally hoped that his other half was a docile and obedient little white rabbit who could help him manage the size of the family.
But it was impossible to let Ma Yili teach her son, Guan Hu had no choice, and proposed to break up with the strength of wine, and it wasn't long before he and Ma Yili's girlfriend Liang Jing had an affair with each other.
Ma Yili also met the article of the younger 8-year-old on the way to filming.
At that time, Ma Yili had already fired with "Huan Zhu 3", and the article was still just a fledgling newcomer, and the age gap between the two was relatively large, so netizens agreed that the article was a small white face eating soft rice.
After getting married, the article also became famous, and the gossip of "little white face" spread more and more, and finally the article was publicly shouted on the show: "I dare to swear here that the money I spent was earned by myself, and I never spent a penny of Ma Yili." ”
And said: "Our family's financial power is all managed by Ma Yili, and I can't even see it..."
Although this clarification is slightly sad, it can still be seen that the relationship between the two is very deep, but in the end, the love that is difficult to overcome is still ruined by "cheating".
Although the article quickly apologized and Ma Yili also chose to forgive, the marriage only lasted 5 years. In fact, how can an independent and strong woman like Ma Yili really forgive a man who has cheated?
From this point of view, Ma Yili's "principle of not borrowing money" is actually just a sober and thorough life.
She once said on the show: "I have no money dealings with all my girlfriends and close friends, even if relatives come to borrow money, I will let them put an IOU, and indicate the interest and repayment time, less than one cent." 」 ”
Dou Wentao next to him was shocked after listening: "Do you think that human nature is not worth testing when you do this?" ”
Ma Yili smiled: "Not really, but maybe because I am a Shanghainese, I have known the truth of emergency relief and not saving the poor since I was a child, and I know how to tailor-made money, and it is never possible to consume ahead of time, and I am even more disgusted with people who borrow money to spend." ”
Dou Wentao's face was adoring, after all, there were very few stars like her who were so sober and dared to say and dare to do it.
For celebrities to lend money to friends, Yang Mi also has a deep understanding:
"I don't lend others a penny anymore, lend out 120,000, I'm embarrassed to ask, others will think that you are a big star don't care, you don't want to pay it back, but this is also what I earn by my ability, simply don't borrow it directly, and save your mind."
Once Ma Yili and Yang Mi's "Borrowing Money Theory" was broadcast, they were supported by many netizens, who felt that they were rare sober people among stars and could stick to their hearts.
At the same time, many people expressed their incomprehension, believing that their assets exceeded 100 million but they were unwilling to help their relatives and friends, which was a door-cutting and narrow-mindedness.
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