When I came home for the New Year, my relatives who worked in a city took me along the way, a total of 1700 kilometers, and when I got home, my relatives asked me for 300 yuan for fuel, and I was confused. Do you still have to give money for kinship? Should I give this money?
To be honest, I understand why so many people complain about their relatives on the Internet, people like you, representatives of relatives without a sense of boundaries, you are kidnapping and plundering them in the name of "blood". If I were a relative, I would have vomited blood, and it would have been better for me to leave my seat empty than to take your white-eyed wolf back.
Relatives looking for you to ask for 300 yuan oil money, it is completely on the face of relatives, otherwise 300 yuan is far from being able to stop, do you still want "free white tickets"? Even relatives can't take advantage of it so nakedly, right?
How much does it cost to spend 1,700 kilometers?
I feel like you're someone who has no idea what it costs to use a car, so I'll give you an account and see how much it costs to spend 1,700 kilometers.
The first is the toll, which is basically 5 cents a kilometer now, and the toll for 1700 kilometers is about 850 yuan.
The second is the fuel cost, even if your relative's car is more fuel-efficient, but before going on the highway, there must be urban roads and national highways, it is impossible to be the whole highway, just according to 6 oil calculations, now No. 92 oil is 7.67 yuan per liter, and the expenditure on oil is about 800 yuan.
In addition to this money, what about the loss of cars? You say he's going to go back anyway, and the loss shouldn't be counted as money, okay, so what about the driver's time and energy? 1700 kilometers, plus the time of intermission, at least more than 20 hours, why should your relatives take you? What else would you do besides sitting there playing with your phone? He brought one who could drive and took turns driving for him! So think about it, it's really not much to ask you for 300 bucks.
What you may be thinking is that he has five seats in the car anyway, empty and empty, and he has nothing to lose by taking me, it is true, but if I am him, I would rather be empty than take you, because you don't know how to be grateful. Even relatives should pay attention to mutual benefit and mutual help, which is called etiquette exchange. You got the benefits, saved the cost of buying a ticket, 1700 kilometers, how to go back by high-speed rail how to get hundreds of bigger, right? It also eliminates the hassle of transferring large bags and small bags.
What you want to do, is not to knock on the keyboard to post on the Internet, saying that he is looking for me to 300 yuan in a circle, the real thing to do is to offer to share the fuel cost and toll, even if the other party resigns to insist on sharing, if the other party is really not wanted, you can make up by inviting him to dinner, bearing some other expenses on the road, sending him some gifts to make up, this is the most basic way for people to deal with the world, understand? The next time you do his ride, you must pay attention, but there may not be a next time, like you will not be a person, the next time he will take you is a ghost.