(Gu Yan and Gu Ailing)
The protagonist of our topic today is Gu Ailing's mother, the excellent supporter behind the genius girl, and a great mother who silently dedicates herself - Gu Yan.
Let's introduce Gu Yan as a person first, and then introduce Gu Ailing's mother.
First, Gu Yan, and her venture capital career
(Pictured left Gu Yan, right Gu Ailing)
Gu Yan, a woman with various bullish labels.
· Ben graduated from the Department of Chemical Engineering of Peking University;
· Graduated from Stanford University in the United States,
· Obtained a Master's Degree in Business Administration (MBA);
· Worked for Lehman Brothers on Wall Street;
· Setting a precedent for the Successful Commercial Lending Of Wall Street in The United States by the Chinese financial community;
· General Manager of American Technology Investment Co., Ltd.;
· After returning to China, he served as the chairman of Beijing Oriental Weibo International Information Technology Co., Ltd.
This is Gu Yan, who gave up the chemical industry and engaged in the financial industry, an excellent Chinese scholar who is committed to jointly realizing China's Silicon Valley dream.
Gu Yan insisted on going her own way, going to the United States to learn with the best people in the world, and opening up her dreams in a world with heaven outside the sky.
Committed to returning to China and making contributions, first, so that China can truly have its own status and become a truly powerful country; secondly, it is to realize its own willpower and determination.
Therefore, such a mother has cultivated an excellent genius daughter.
Second, Gu Yan, and her genius daughter
In the past two days, almost all the people of China have known Gu Ailing.
Even at the age of 18, he became a national idol in China.
And to be able to give birth to such an outstanding daughter, it must be an excellent mother. Therefore, it is also necessary to have a good understanding of how the mother of this talented girl has become the model ceiling of "Haidian Mother".
Without excellent Gu Yan, there would be no Gu Ailing today.
When Gu Ailing was very young, her parents divorced, and since then Gu Yan has brought Gu Ailing up alone. Gu Yan is engaged in education while engaging in careers. He was brought up by Gu Ailing's grandmother. Many people think that skiing is not something that everyone can learn, and that the risk factor of skiing is high, so the funding needs to be sufficient in the first place.
And these funds are all earned by Gu Yan's hard work, which is worthy of our admiration. It is said that Gu Yan spent tens of millions of dollars to cultivate Gu Ailing with his heart, and the investment cost can be seen to be very huge.
(i)
Gu Yan's educational philosophy
Many Chinese-style educational concepts are that if parents are high-achieving students, children cannot become chicken babies and must be admitted to a good university. But Gu Yan did not think so, her educational philosophy for Gu Ailing is: you do not have to go to Stanford, you can go to any school as long as you like it.
Gu Yan has always encouraged Gu Ailing not to give up learning at any time, learning is a very enjoyable thing.
Gu Yan's own idea is to "insist on going your own way";
Therefore, her education of Gu Ailing is also "living the life she wants to live."
For Gu Ailing's education, it has always been relatively broad, and the cultivated Gu Ailing is also a music and sports all-rounder, ballet, dance, piano, vocal music are very good; archery, rock climbing, and trail running are also excellent.
So more often let the child do it, let them dig out what they like, do what they are interested in, and often do more with less.
(ii)
Be your own child's initiation teacher
Gu Yan's education of Gu Ailing also lies in the fact that what she is not willing to do will definitely not force her.
Don't think that if you don't get a hundred points, you're making a big mistake, just do a good job of mastering.
No one is perfect, don't think that if you are not perfect, there are flaws in life.
In ordinary education, more often than not, I go back to teaching by example and become a model representative myself.
Gu Yan will not deliberately educate and cultivate her daughter to learn to ski, she teaches skiing on the snow field, 2-year-old Gu Ailing is very impressed, and she learned to ski after walking.
More often, parents are mentors to their children, and parents' preferences can be passed on to the next generation.
As Gu Yan said, if she likes golf, Gu Ailing may fall in love with golf.
Therefore, such an open mind has also brought the relationship between mother and daughter closer, Gu Ailing has been particularly close to her mother since she was a child, and in the interview, Gu Ailing said that every child feels that his mother is the best, but I think my mother is the best mother, better than your mother.
(iii)
Gu Yan's adventurous dreams, Gu Yan will also be afraid
Gu Ailing has a talent for skiing since she was a child, but as a mother, Gu Yan is also worried. Because in addition to being a good entrepreneur, she is also an ordinary mother. So when Gu Ailing is chasing dreams, she is more concerned about her safety.
Is Gu Ailing's success accidental?
Of course not.
Because of training, Gu Ailing's foot bones and fingers have been fractured;
Because of the training, Gu Ailing smashed from a high place to the hard object on the side, and could not get up for a long time;
Because of training, Gu Ailing even fell out of a concussion and caused amnesia.
All this heartache, Gu Ailing can only share with her mother.
Therefore, every time Gu Ailing trains, Gu Yan hopes that she can slide "slower" and slide more "safely".
Every time she participates in the competition, Gu Yan pays more attention to the fact that she lands.
After all, everyone pays attention to Gu Ailing as a "genius girl", while Gu Yan is more concerned about "she is just a little girl who has just turned 18 years old".
Behind Gu Ailing's sparkling light is the silent "heartache" of her mother Gu Yan. Paying tribute to every great mother, there will be a softest heart.
There is still a long way to go;
There is much more to the excitement that belongs to Gu Ailing.
I hope that in the days to come, Gu Yan and Gu Ailing can go further!
Next, Gu Ailing will continue to rush gold, she will play in the freestyle ski slope obstacle course skills and freestyle ski U-shaped track skills two projects, look forward to Gu Ailing can continue to have a wonderful play!
This concludes
It's the end and the beginning...