Do you know what the suffering of life is?
When the police station called to inform him that his son had died unexpectedly in the rental house, he was still in Guizhou, thousands of miles away. So, he rushed back in the middle of the night, dealing with his son's aftermath, and thinking about how to not let his wife who had just undergone breast cancer surgery know.
But reality does not have compassion for you because of sympathy, and two years later, his wife still leaves him, and until the dead wife does not know that her son has gone first. She only knew that her son was far away, and her heart just hated him for being ruthless, and she was sick but never came back to see her.
Within two years, he had lost his son and wife, and everyone around him felt that he was bitter. But he could only shed bitter tears in the dead of night, because he still had his only daughter to accompany him.
However, compared with the famous novelist Yu Hua's "Alive" in Fugui, he is lucky, and he has his only relatives.
In the book, FuGui was calculated by the landlord Long Er, from a clumsy boy to a downcast, and the relatives around him left him forever one by one, leaving only himself and an old cow for the rest of his life.
Despite the torture of life on Fugui, he escaped from the hands of the god of death several times. The hardships of life did not crush him, on the contrary, he felt the warmth of happiness in the suffering of life.
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Thankfully alive
In order to get the fugui family's more than 100 acres of land and old mansion, the landlord Long Er designed him to lose nothing.
His father was killed by his debauchery.
The pregnant wife was so angry that she returned to her mother's house.
Having never worked before, he took up the flat burden for the first time and provoked the copper money exchanged for selling all his ancestral property to pay off gambling debts. Bian Dan ripped through his silk clothes, and blood blisters appeared on his shoulders, only to understand that his father wanted him to know that it was not easy to make money.
Thinking that he and his family wanted to live, Fugui had to beg Long Er to rent him five acres of land, and then follow the tenants to learn to cultivate the land and sow seeds.
Exhausted every day, falling asleep next to the pillow at night, he finally understood that life was not easy, and even simple meals could only be obtained by diligent hands.
In life, if you want to live and live better, you can only rely on your own diligent hands, and everyone understands that it is not easy to make money. But there are always people who have less persistence and less faith and planning to live well.
Although life is hard, it is not necessarily all bad, just as Long Er was criticized for his landlord status, which is a blessing for Fugui. If It weren't for Dragon Er calculating him and making him a poor peasant with nothing, he might have been criticized for fighting.
The people's government arrested Long Er, but he refused to repent and was eventually sentenced to be shot. On the day of the shooting, Ryuji also saw Fugui and said, "Fugui, I am dying for you." ”
When Fugui saw this scene, he felt afraid and knew that he had escaped this fate. I understand that fate is still pitiful, at least he is still alive.
Although life has given you too many tribulations, it will always surprise you from time to time. Just like Fugui, he always thought that life had been making things difficult for him, but when he saw Ryuji being shot, he was glad that he could still live well.
2. Lucky to be alive
Unable to bear to look at his mother who was tormented by illness, Fugui hurried into the city to find a doctor.
Unexpectedly, it happened to catch up with the army in catching Zhuang Ding. Fugui was wrapped up and walked all the way. This walk is two years.
Fugui was forced to join the Kuomintang army's War of Liberation, during which time, they met veteran Lao Quan, as well as young soldier Chunsheng, and became friends with each other. In the chaotic war, Fugui and Chunsheng survived with trepidation, which can also be regarded as the favor of heaven for them!
At the end of the war and liberation, Fugui decided to choose to take the travel expenses home, hoping to quickly go back to filial piety in front of his mother who was tormented by illness.
3. Ordinary living
Fugui chose to take the road fare home, while Chunsheng, who was with him, was bent on making a difference in his life. In the end, Chunsheng's wish came true, and he became the county magistrate of Fugui's hometown.
However, fate once again made a joke to Fugui, chunsheng's wife needs a large number of blood transfusions when she has difficulty giving birth. In order to please the county magistrate, the principal organized the whole school to donate blood, unfortunately, only Fugui's son Youqing's blood type in the whole school matched. However, Youqing was oversimposed and his life was forever fixed at the age of 13.
For this reason, Chunsheng came to the door several times to apologize, but Fugui's daughter-in-law Jiazhen hated him too late, how could he possibly forgive him? It was not until Chunsheng was criticized during the Cultural Revolution that he did not want to live, that Jiazhen chose to forgive and let Chunsheng live well.
JiaZhen uses the most simple language to reflect her kind heart, and the aura of kindness turns her dissatisfaction into color.
In the end, Chunsheng still could not stand the inhuman torture of criticism and chose to hang himself a month later.
Chunsheng chose to take his own life when his career was in trouble, while Fugui chose not to give up when he experienced suffering. Ordinary life became his greatest hope in this life.
Life is in the world, the world is impermanent, do not be overwhelmed by a momentary glory, and do not be embarrassed by a moment. Ordinary life, watching the times change, watching the world ups and downs.
How many people in life have had their smooth sailing?
For example: when the earthquake brings destruction; when the epidemic spreads wildly; when the flood suddenly roars in; you will think that ordinary life is so good!
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In the most difficult times of life, Jiazhen could have remarried, but she always believed that Fugui would return. Two years later, she finally waited for Fugui's return.
In order to let his son Youqing go to school, Fugui had planned to give his daughter Fengxia to someone, but in the end he did not give up, thinking that no matter how bitter it was, he would have to get the family together and face it together.
What could be more important than family affection and love? This is actually more of a responsibility, an irreplaceable responsibility, and Fugui knows very well in his heart that if the only two things are lost, then he really has nothing. So he persevered, and although the days were difficult, his heart was very sweet.
It is not easy to live, far more wonderful than the death of whispering.
People's lives need to be wonderful to live, too ordinary to lose the color of life. As the book says, "Man lives for the sake of being alive itself, not for anything other than being alive." ”
So, what reason do you have to say "life is too hard, living is so tired!" "Because only by living, there are more possibilities to break through your limits!"
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