■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, misconduct will be a curse.
The ancients said: "The house of accumulation of goodness will have a remnant of celebration, and the house of accumulation of unwholesomeness will have a remnant of disaster." The meaning of this sentence is that individuals and families who cultivate goodness and virtue are bound to have more auspicious celebrations, and those who do evil and bad virtue will have more disasters. In fact, the prosperity of a family is indeed closely related to the behavior of the family of the family. A family that is originally prosperous and developed, once the following phenomena occur, such a family, decay is inevitable. So, what are the phenomena that can put a thriving family into a state of decay?
02, the three views of parents are not correct.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for children. A family, as the parents of the top pillar of the family, if the three views are not correct, everywhere for the purpose of money, everywhere to do wrong, and even engage in illegal and criminal things. Then, sooner or later, such a family will be dragged down by such parents. Because a person with three wrong views always likes to take mistakes as right, has the tendency and cognition of seriously harming others and benefiting themselves, or harming others and harming themselves, and recognizing those behaviors that violate mainstream values. What such parents bring to their children and to the family is bound to be full of negative energy and wrong behavioral cognition. Once a family has such three wrong-minded parents, family decay is naturally inevitable.
03,Child reverse child hair.
They all said: "The pond is defeated out of the loach, and the family is defeated out of the monkey." "A pond, if there is loach, then such a pond, can not raise fish." In the same way, a family is actually like a fish pond, if there is a child like a monkey, then such a family will sooner or later fail. Because of a contrarian monkey, they started a temper tantrum, but the six relatives did not recognize, and often caused trouble, bringing countless bad luck and even disasters to our family. A family, even if it is rich and prosperous, has a contrarian monkey, then, such a family, under the toss of this contrarian monkey, will slowly empty money, lose wealth and fortune, and finally gradually decay. Therefore, a family, to do a good job in the education of their children, is very important, we must not take it lightly.
04, the family is desperate.
The ancients said: "A gentleman loves wealth and has a way to get it." "There's nothing wrong with a person liking money, but you can't get it in a way that goes against principles. A family that is originally prosperous originally has good connections and resources, but if we are too selfish and our desires are too large, then it is easy for us to take a crooked path, think wrong ideas, and move the direction of our lives to the wrong direction. A family, if there is a person who is desperate for money, then such a person will be on the verge of morality and crime. It is said: "Often walk by the river, where there are not wet shoes", a person often engages in some illegal, even criminal things, then, such behavior, once the East Window incident, they are in prison, that brings to the family, it will be a huge disaster. Slowly, such a family will be greatly implicated and attacked, and even a prosperous and developed family will fall and decline as a result, and we must avoid such an unfortunate thing.
05, brothers turn against each other.
For a family to continue to thrive, brotherly harmony is very important. A family is prosperous and developed, if there is a phenomenon of brotherly discord and feuds, then such a family will be looked down upon by the people around them. Slowly, such a family will cause the decline of the family business because of brotherly rivalry, and even brothers turn against each other. At the same time, brothers turning against each other will also drive away the wealth, fortune, and even human resources that are already prosperous and developed. Slowly, a family that was originally prosperous will gradually fall into a state of decay because of the brothers' enmity. In the end, the brothers are on their own, and even if they encounter something big, they no longer help each other and promote each other. Such behavior can only lead the family to the downfall, and it really should not be.
06, Home and Wanshixing.
Friends, ordinary people often say: "Home and everything is prosperous." "A family, if it wants to maintain long-term prosperity and development, must understand the importance of family harmony and family unity. On the contrary, if a family has the phenomenon of parents having three wrong views, children going against the monkeys, family members taking risks, and brothers turning against each other, it will have a very adverse impact on the family. Over time, even the most prosperous and developed families will fall into the predicament of decay, and we cannot help but guard against it. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms have accumulated millions of fan authors, and major platforms have accumulated more than 500 million clicks. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.