Human business warfare, to the point!
What is called a cruel person, a cruel person is to cut off the mood.
What is happy and what is unhappy?
Do you think there are two concepts of happiness and unhappiness in this world? That's just a short-term sweet stimulus to you, do you think that's called happiness?
What is happiness, happiness is a state. He didn't say it made me happy at all, it made me unhappy.
All the short-term stimulation that makes you happy, there is a pain hidden behind it, do you believe it?
Let's say you meet a girl today and you particularly like it, wow, that's the goddess! She's so happy with you!
The greater the thrill of pleasure that you bring to you when you are with her, the more deeply you are hurt when she leaves you one day, admit it?
He is with this girl, he is very strong, when he is with this girl, his feeling of happiness is 50 to 60%, he is a state.
At this time, he will not be particularly happy with this kind of person, which means that he will not be particularly unhappy when this girl leaves, it is a flat state.
So people with particularly large mood swings will not have a chance, have they received it?
Then you said that some powerful people are also very emotional, just like Li Yunlong. Li Yunlong is using emotions, but others are rational.
At this time, when the loss comes, when the betrayal comes, this girl will leave you sooner or later, it is inevitable, everyone will get sick, and everyone will die of old age and illness.
You make a short video today wow, 200,000 plays, make you happy, which means that the next video when the number of views is only 200, you will be particularly painful.
The master looks at things this way, and he will see the whole situation of this matter, from the beginning to the end, all of which are clear.
This girl makes me happy, then I know very well that I will be sad when she betrays me one day.
Then I have to think about how to reduce the possibility of her betraying me, then I have to make my strength stronger and stronger.
When I was not strong, it was normal for the other party to betray me. Plus I can't put too much into her.
It is that he will think about the whole picture of the whole thing, and then decide what kind of state his mood is.
And you? Just give you a candy, so happy! Then you don't know that eating too much sugar will cause problems in the body? It is bound to bring about a negative thing.
But in the world of the weak, you don't think about what the consequences will be, you are blindly happy, and then blindly miserable when the fruits come.
In the world of the master, he understood at the beginning that this matter was going to go next.
When he will know, he will not be so happy, he will not be so painful, his feelings will be more normal.
For example, you say very simply, do I love my parents? I love my parents very much.
But I'm also well aware that my parents are getting older day by day, is that true?
If my love for them is too great to lose them, it means that I am in an irrational state, you understand?
That is, I only take possession as happiness, and I take loss as pain, then you are wasted, you are wasted.
Because after having it, it will inevitably be lost, and after it is lost, it will inevitably be owned, and life is such a cycle.
So when I reach 40,000 followers, do you think I'm happy? I'm not going to be happy. Others scold me in the comment area and take me off, and I will not be sad.
At this time, you will not be particularly happy because of some kind of stimulation, and you will not be particularly sad because of some kind of loss, and then you can do great things.
Because you have surpassed ordinary people, because when a normal person has it, he is so excited! Then the time he lost was finished, ruined.
And you? When you have it, you are not particularly proud, you can be more calm, you can be rational to the people around you.
When you have a particularly good result, when you have a special amount, once you are overly happy, you will lose your reverence for the people around you, and you will let others leave you.
So I'm calm, I'm sane, so I know I'm not accomplishing much.
And many of us have some achievements, just go crazy, can't get it, and expand the invisible.
So I'm not so excited when I have it, I'm not so sad when I'm lost, and I keep a normal.
Only in this state of normality can he have the power of perseverance, he can have the perseverance of endurance.
I tell you, the difference between the two of us is that I write more articles than you and I study more courses than you. So what's the difference between the two of us? I'll tell you two words, endurance.