Question 1: Will you watch the Winter Olympics with your children? Have you ever shown your child a video of Gu Ailing's competition?
Alex Mom (Boy, 9):
Will watch the Winter Olympics with the child, but will not tell him too much, will not talk about the specific athletes, specially showed him Gu Ailing's games, but the children are not interested. Maybe for adults, the difference between five, four, and three circles is very large, and for children, it is a circle.
Joyce (boy, 5 years old):
We didn't watch the Winter Olympics. I didn't read Gu Ailing's article, and I was rubbing the heat all over the place, and I didn't want to open it.
NN Mom (Girl, 8 years):
The child's father likes to watch sports events, and will watch together when eating, and the child's knowledge about the Winter Olympics has surpassed mine. Gu Ailing's last jump of independent choice touched me very much, and I also showed the video to the child, expressing my affirmation of bravery and autonomous decision-making.
Sunflowers (girl, 12 years):
After watching the video of the Gu Ailing Winter Olympics winning, we also had a discussion, and the child gave me a reply: I did not lose at the starting line (we skied for the first time at about 4 years old), but lost in the process of running, no matter the money and the environment can not be compared, just look at it, I feel that I am very good.
Linlin (boy, 12 years old):
He himself watches the Winter Olympics because he likes to watch live skiing matches in winter and learn where the major events in Europe are played every year.
Pan Pan (girl 11 years old, boy 6 years old):
At our own pace, if we watch a great game at tv time, we watch live streams and we watch edited videos. There are very important games to watch. We watched the video of Gu Ailing's match alone, did not watch the whole game, and only afterwards did we know that it was not easy to win the championship. When they saw the third jump, the children were also very excited, knowing that it was the Chinese player who won the championship, and they were very excited. Subsequently, we also looked at other skiing events and saw Chinese wrestling.
Boom (boy, 6 years old):
My child would take the initiative to ask to see the Winter Olympics, and we watched the opening ceremony with him, and he said he was shocked. In the next few days, at night or when he was free, he would ask us to use his mobile phone to preview the Winter Olympics for him (we didn't have a TV at home). Later, I also watched the video of Gu Ailing's game.
Question 2: What are the comments about Gu Ailing that you see on the Internet that you will talk to your child?
Catwoman (girl, 8 years):
I can't say it, and I don't think it has much to do with myself and my children.
Except for the sport itself and the athlete spirit, it will not be said to the child. The child also has no interest in expanding the discussion, and he thinks the game is beautiful, exciting, and exciting.
When watching the game with the child, I also talked about related issues, did not want to instill any point of view, only told him that this sister is very powerful or something, and did not say anything else.
I didn't pay attention to Gu Ailing before the Winter Olympics, but when I chatted with my fifth-grade daughter, I found that she knew Gu Ailing before the Winter Olympics, and she knew much more than I did.
She said it was a physical education class in the fourth grade, and when it rained, the teacher put an album on skiing for her classmates. She therefore knew that Gu Ailing was young, that she had returned to China to train, that she had suffered a concussion because of a serious fall in training, and that her mother was a skier. Through that video she also knew that someone had snow blindness in order to ski...
Then this time when watching the competition video, she sensitively saw another news headline, "Gu Ailing said, don't like me is your loss", because we didn't actually click on this news, so I was surprised how she knew, so she also laughed at me watching TV and not knowing where to see. I didn't comment on this because I think the child himself has received it. Then I also reflected that I didn't know enough about my children. Of course, this kind of situation of being educated by children is happening more and more frequently.
I also talked to my daughter about Gu Ailing's mother. What I am saying is that her mother is not a tiger mother, and the reason why Gu Ailing trained hard is because she liked the sport herself, so she overcame various difficulties. The daughter gave another example of homeschooling, a radio drama she had heard. But unfortunately, that story reflects the story of left-behind children who lack maternal love, so I mentioned that Gu Ailing's family conditions are better.
I also told my daughter Gu Ailing about her admission to a world-famous university, saying that she can write and fight, so many Chinese parents pay special attention to her and her mother, because everyone wants their children to be so good. The daughter didn't say much. I also didn't comment too much. I'm not a tiger mom, and I like my daughter very much, which is what my daughter already knew.
But I asked my daughter, do you have something you particularly like to do? The daughter said that singing, she wanted to be a singer. I know very well that this is the result of the last two months that she has loved the Times Youth League. She said that it is said that to become a singer as a teenager, she has to publish her works. All I could say was that it wasn't necessarily, and then promised her to help her record a song for her later.
In fact, hearing her say that she likes to sing, I have mixed feelings. My daughter loves to sing, but I never thought she could be professional, and our family couldn't provide good support. According to our conditions, she can only develop herself through layers of school like other children. But ten minutes later, I reflected on myself, so I asked her if she would like to learn vocal music, and if so, I would find a vocal teacher to teach her. The daughter began to say that she did not want to, she could learn on her own. I said that to be a professional person, you need to practice hard and you need to learn professionally. Learn by yourself, that is, sing in a karaoke hall. After saying this, the daughter agreed.
I would actually contact her vocal teacher to teach her a lesson and let her get serious with it as she liked it. This is the impact of Gu Ailing on our family, and I am still grateful to this positive and excellent girl.
Question 3: Does the child usually have some exercise training? Do you think watching the Winter Olympics will help to stimulate your children's enthusiasm for sports?
The child's enthusiasm for sports should be like a trickle of water merging into a small river and then expanding, the Olympic Games will have a motivating effect but not obvious, or the feeling after the experience is more profound, she herself went to slide the snow and liked it.
We began to learn figure skating at the age of 5 and insisted on three years; 7 years old began to learn Latin dance, and are still insisting; this winter vacation began to learn tennis, the interest is very strong; never participated in the subject tutoring class, every weekend there will be a full day of outdoor activities, mainly sports play; children's enthusiasm for sports has been continuously increasing, and these events have little to do with it, is simply like a variety of sports.
An (girl, 3 years):
My daughter just turned three years old, usually the family takes out the door to exercise, although there is no special work for physical exercise, but she exercises well, the balance car is for her to watch video learning, soon get started. Personally, I think watching the Winter Olympics will stimulate children's enthusiasm for sports. When watching the live broadcast of Su Yiming's competition a few days ago, she also learned to circle, and when she saw her like this, she wanted to take her to experience skiing! When she is older, I will also try to create conditions for her to experience different sports!
My child usually has some sports training, he belongs to the kind of children with good motor cells, and he is also very active. As for whether watching the Winter Olympics will stimulate children's enthusiasm for sports, I think this is too high, is it that after watching the Winter Olympics, he will go to sports, and if he does not watch the Winter Olympics, he will not go to sports? For the kind of kids who have always been more enthusiastic about sports, this question may not make much sense.
Question 4: What was your first reaction to the "first step to becoming Gu Ailing and sleeping ten hours a day" spread on the Internet?
Sleep for ten hours, this is not very realistic for Chinese primary and secondary school students, others will listen to it, as close as possible.
The first reaction was: eye-catching marketing headlines.
About Gu Ailing, the most touching thing to me is the length of sleep, I also attach great importance to the sleep time of children, but sometimes because of the holidays and other incomplete guarantee of sleep, this gave me a shot of cardiotonic agent, haha.
Sleep is indeed important, but ten hours is too absolute, and there are differences in personal constitution.
Gu Ailing can sleep ten hours a day, this I think to see in stages, I never thought that she grew up to sleep ten hours a day, she also had to report a lot of training classes when she was a child, learn so many courses, I think it is impossible to sleep ten hours a day. But at this stage, she may be able to sleep ten hours, but I don't think she will be able to sleep ten hours a day in the future, because there are a lot of commercial operations, she will get busier and busier, so I don't think this question makes sense.
Feelings are complicated. If teenagers hear it, they should all criticize the teacher and parents, "Look, I can't become Gu Ailing because you are not good enough." But the next time, there is a good teenager, and this sentence is likely to become, "Become the first step of so-and-so, practice hard for ten hours a day"...
In reality, huge differences lie in front of every parent. If education is promoted in a horizontal comparison way, it will encounter many difficulties. The pressures of parents and children are here in themselves. We can't get rid of it and we have to deal with it. However, every object of education is different. The fundamental task of education should be to solve the problems of one specific person after another. The difficulty of family education is that it is directly interacted with each specific child. We parents should indeed learn more, listen more and see more, but we must not directly use the experience of others. It is necessary to think and digest, and then form a unique strategy and an effective strategy in their own family education field.
Question 5: What do you think of Gu Ailing's mother's parenting experience?
Alex mother (boy, 9 years old): Parenting experience is mainly the heart of adults, Gu mother is not an ordinary person, I think this is just a look.
Catwoman (girl, 8 years old): Gu Ailing is completely talent + luck, and feels that her mother's parenting experience cannot be copied and does not apply to ordinary families.
Agree, I have always told my children that it is to do their best to do things, there is no need to strive for the first, but the things they choose must be done with all their hearts. All the things you are interested in can be tried, like to do, do not like to give up, the child's growth process we accompany the whole process, the process of raising children is a process of self-growth, each family is unique, can not be copied, this process I also gained a lot.
Very impressed. As a woman, I follow her example. Of course, I also know that she has many advantages that I can't achieve. But that was the result of her and her family's efforts. I will learn from her.
First of all, I think that Gu Ailing is originally a very talented child, and Gu Ailing's mother can be regarded as the ceiling of parenting, and there are many places worth learning from. Secondly, as a parent, we may not be able to learn and money than others, but the heart that loves children is not necessarily less than her, so there is no need to be arrogant and thin, her parenting experience is certainly worth learning, but instead of blindly praising other people's parenting methods, it is better to correct their mentality and read more professional books on children's psychological development. With the accumulation of knowledge, there is no worry about being led by the nose by the "Internet celebrity parenting experience".
I did not see Gu Ailing's mother cultivate her so-called educational experience, and I did not brush up on what she said in the circle of friends, there may be some that others said or others transferred, I am not sure that she herself said. As far as parenting experience is concerned, I think it is a matter of opinion, because every child is born different, and it is unfair to say that gu Ailing's mother's parenting method should be applied to her own children. Moreover, to cultivate a Gu Ailing, in terms of human, financial, material and parental strength, it is necessary to cooperate very well. So there is no comparison, there is no need to compare, and your own children are the best.
I can talk about Gu Ailing's personal impact on me. I didn't know Gu Ailing, but at the beginning I heard a lot of people say that she was very powerful, but this person should have nothing to do with me. But then she won the gold medal, and after I learned her story, her only impact on me was that if my little friend had a conflict in cultural learning and personal hobbies in the future, I might choose to weigh it up, rather than according to the traditional view, requiring him to finish his studies first, and then engage in personal hobbies, and even I might let him insist on his hobbies and put the study of cultural courses in second place.
Writing, organizing | Shen Chan
Edit | Wang Yi
Proofreading | Li Ming
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