As the saying goes, green vegetables and turnips have their own love.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Zheng and Madame Wang, a husband and wife, look like they are separated from each other and respect each other like ice.
Understandable, after all, is a political marriage.
But Jia Zheng's exclusive favor of Aunt Zhao is really surprising.
The role of Aunt Zhao is very unpopular, all kinds of works, rude, inferior, Qinggao self-proclaimed Jia Zheng, scholar-doctor style of literati, completely different types of people, spoil her? Blind, right?
Teacher Liu Xinwu once analyzed that behind Jia Zheng's humanity, there is endless desire.
Is it really green vegetables and turnips that have their own love?
If you don't understand Jia Zheng's tiredness, you can't understand his "blindness".
Aunt Zhao, the little people that Jia Fu dramazi despise, may be in the positioning of the Red Chamber, but it is Jia Zheng's redemption.
Jia Zheng is a very "fake and serious person", lin Ruhai once commented on him like this:
"Humble and generous, with the legacy of his grandfather, not the anointing of light and thin eunuchs."
In the ancient times of three wives and four concubines, in the young beautiful concubines took one after another rich, Jia Zheng can be regarded as a clear stream.
One wife and two concubines, Aunt Zhou did not appear in the right way, and the remaining Lady Wang and Aunt Zhao, for the sake of status, respect, and heir, fought lively behind Jia Zheng.
Aunt Zhao, an aunt, in such a rich nobleman as Jia Province, has no status and no foundation, dares to confront a proper wife with a background like Lady Wang, and even has a son and a daughter.
Jia Zheng's asylum.
You say Jia Zheng hurts her?
Jia Zheng and Madame Wang belong to the political marriage of the "four major families".
The lack of foundation in the relationship between husband and wife is on the one hand, and there is too much helplessness behind it.
The Wang family, this mother's family, is very strong, the hand of the prince Teng, through Lady Wang, reached the Jia family, Jia Yuanchun entered the palace, Wang Xifeng married in, Xue Baochao chose a concubine, and then married with Jia Fu, everything has his shadow, all this, can not make the wise Jia Mother disgusted, so that Jia Zheng is powerless?
And Lady Wang, who holds the title of Jia Fu's daughter-in-law, is bent on supporting the Wang clique, and in order to consolidate the interests of the Wang family, she is willing to be a pawn of the Wang family, which is also the key to Jia Zheng's inability to communicate with her.
Everything in foreign affairs is controlled by the prince, everything in the family is controlled by Madame Wang, as the head of the family, as a man, who does Jia Zheng's grievances say? Can you not be suffocated? In this suffocating air, Aunt Zhao had her foothold.
Putting aside the young and beautiful, the existence of Madame Wang suffocated Jia Zheng, and he did not like to sleep in the willows, where else could he go? Of course, it was in the aunt's room.
Aunt Zhou is gentle and small, if it is an ordinary person,It is also a good comfort, but for Jia Zheng, who lives a depressed life, the man who is suppressed by his wife's mother's family, and aunt Zhou who obeys Lady Wang everywhere, she cannot comfort him.
And Aunt Zhao, who has always had an anti-bone, her various works, although rude, are all aimed at Lady Wang, and the forces against Lady Wang have become the salvation that Jia Zheng needs.
At the same time, I don't know if you have ever had this experience:
People are suffocated too much, and they especially want to swear.
And the more vulgar the scolding, the more relieved I feel.
Isn't there a weird sense of reconciliation?
As a man, Jia Zheng was in front of Madame Wang, but he was always short, only in front of Aunt Zhao, he was like a man, he was relied on, he was looked up to, Aunt Zhao's viciousness, Jia Zheng did not see, Aunt Zhao's vulgarity, but strangely let Jia Zheng get a sense of venting pleasure.
Jia Zheng was a traditional scholar, and his cultivation did not allow him to become vulgar and unbearable.
But Aunt Zhao was suppressed, with Jia Zheng as a backstage, dare to see people to be afraid, but also hit the door, the vulgarity of speech, the coarse behavior, but very strange, so that Jia Zheng, who was bound by political marriage, bound by etiquette and honesty, and almost suffocated, had a kind of relief, and got a sense of venting pleasure of resistance, which may be the key to Jia Zheng's exclusive favor of Aunt Zhao.
You see Jia Huan complaining in front of his father:
Jia Huan hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed Jia Zheng's robe, knelt down on his knees, and said, "Father don't have to be angry." Except for the people in the wife's room, no one else knew anything about it. I heard my mother say... Brother Bao Yu's brother had been in his wife's house the day before, and he pulled his wife's handmaiden Jin Jun'er to flirt and beat him up. That Jin Jun'er gambled and died. ”
This passage contains too much truth.
Jia Huan was affectionate and relaxed in front of Jia Zheng, calling Lady Wang a wife, Aunt Zhao a mother, and Jia Zheng a father, as if to exclude Lady Wang, they are a family.
Such a title, at that time, could not be recognized, but did Jia Zheng say anything? He acquiesced, what does that mean?
Another time, Ma Daoba collected money on both sides, and did harm Baoyu and Fengjie, seeing that Baoyu had no hope, a cadre of people cried and wept and was busy, but no one dared to speak, and Aunt Duzhao dared to say:
"Brother is no longer useful, it is better to put brother's clothes on, let him go back earlier, and avoid some suffering..."
Before he could finish speaking, he was scolded by Jia Mu and bloodied.
Jia Zheng was also present, what did he do?
He drank back Aunt Zhao.
There was no killing, only for her to retreat, which was a kind of protection.
Curse Jia Mu's heart and liver baby died, how can the angry Jia Mu spare?
But Aunt Zhao was not killed, not beaten, and not even counted by the Autumn Queen.
Isn't Jammu majestic? No!
This is precisely because Jia Mu understands her son's suffering, and she tolerates her son's favoritism towards Aunt Zhao, which is the capital for Aunt Zhao to survive.
Jia Zheng's tolerance for Aunt Zhao has a balance that is not easy to see at a glance, beyond love and beyond marriage. Not only because she is the backwater in Jia Zheng's life, but also because she is a breathing point in suffocation.
Aunt Zhao and the servants insulted and beat each other, and when they did not agree, they were intimidating, and they dared to think of the wealth of Jia Fu, and it was only because of Jia Zheng's favor that they dared to be pampered and proud.
A family matter, the couple has a business, is the normal family state.
But Madame Wang and Jia Zheng did not have such a plot, Jia Zheng did not appear much, and several times they stayed in Aunt Zhao's room.
Lady Wang made the raider Baoyu's aunt-to-be, and increased her monthly routine, but she kept it a secret from Jia Zheng; while Aunt Zhao planned for Jia Huan and wanted to take Caixia, but would ask Jia Zheng for help.
Did you find it? Jia Zheng and Aunt Zhao are more like a couple with fireworks.
Except for being young and beautiful, Aunt Zhao may not be able to get anything out of her hand, but what she can give jia Zheng is exactly what Madame Wang can't give.
Jia Zheng's nature, described in "Dream of the Red Chamber": "At first, nature was also a person who let go of poetry and wine. ”
And Aunt Zhao, Tanchun commented: "The ears are soft, and there is no calculation in the heart." "It is impulsive, greedy, and does not know how to weigh the pros and cons, and is often instigated by others to do stupid things."
Jia Zheng, such a scholar of poetry and painting, the master of the Rongguo Mansion, found his dignity in a rude person like Aunt Zhao, and lived a life of a little life, regret? Regrets? Sympathetic?
"Dream of the Red Chamber" always has a different height for the deep observation of human nature, the existence and disillusionment of human beauty, and the observation and redemption.
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